Ingabe uvumela izingane zakho zibe nemibono emahlathini ehlobo?
Ukukhetha izinhlelo zakho zasehlobo ziyisinqumo esikhulu. Ihlobo yisikhathi sokuzijabulisa nokuzijabulisa! Kunezinketho eziningi nezinhlelo zezingane zonyaka wonke, ngokuthandwa okuhlukene nobuntu. Kunezinkampanini zamasuku, izinkambi zokulala, amakamu okhethekile, ikamu elidinga izidingo, namakamu ahluka ngesikhathi sobude kanye nezindleko. Abazali kumele bacabangele izici eziningi lapho benza lesi sinqumo, kodwa okunye okushiwo ngezinye izikhathi ukukhetha kwengane yakho.
Kungani Kufanele Abazali Bahileleke Izingane?
Ukubandakanya izingane ekwenzeni ikamu kuzobasiza bazizwe bejabule kakhulu ngezinhlelo zabo zasehlobo. Izingane zizwa zixhumene kakhulu nemisebenzi abakhethayo . Ukunika ingane yakho isihlalo etafuleni kubanika umuzwa wamandla nokuzimela futhi kunganciphisa noma yikuphi ukukhathazeka mayelana nokuya ekamu. Ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi ingane yakho inokuhlangenwe nakho okuhle ekamu, abazali kufanele bakhulume nengane yabo mayelana nokufunwa kwabo, izifiso zabo, nokwesaba.
Nazi ezinye izinto okufanele uzicabange uma uhlanganisa nezingane enkambisweni yokwenza izinqumo:
Ubudala
Njengoba izingane zikhula, kubalulekile ukuzifaka ekwenzeni izinqumo. Owesine oneminyaka engu-4 angase athi ufuna ukuya ekamu nge-trampolines eningi kakhulu kodwa umuntu oneminyaka engu-12 ubudala onokudala angakutshela ukuthi uzobe ehlukumezekile ekamu lezemidlalo. Ukuthumela ingane endala ekamu abafuni ukuyobekwa kuyabeka (futhi wena) ngokuhluleka.
Beka eceleni imizwa yakho futhi ulalele ngempela izingane zakho. Ngokuqondene nezingane ezincane, zithemba ugulane wakho futhi wazi ubuntu bazo.
Ubuntu
Kubalulekile ukwazi ubuntu bomntanakho. Uma ingane yakho ithi ifuna ukuya ekamelweni lobuciko lonke ihlobo, kodwa uyazi ukuthi bayathukuthela ngobuciko ngemuva kwesikhathi esifushane, mhlawumbe bayithumele ekamu lobuciko lamasonto amabili bese bekhetha ezinye izinhlelo zehlobo lonke.
Kukhona amakamu okufanisa zonke izithakazelo zomntwana kanye nezinga lokuvuthwa.
Ukuthandwa / ukungathandwa
Uma ingane yakho ithi ayithandi ngempela umsebenzi, futhi lowo msebenzi yingxenye enkulu yosuku lwekamu, mhlawumbe lokho akuyona into engcono kakhulu kuye. Ikhefu lasehlobo lihloselwe ukujabulisa futhi linenjongo ngakho qiniseka ukuthi uvumele ingane yakho ukuba ihambe endaweni ethile ezobaqinisa.
Abangane
Uma ingane yakho icela ukuya ekamu ukuthi bonke abangane bayo esikoleni baya, uyawuvumela? Lesi sinqumo esinzima futhi sincike kumntanakho ngamunye. Kwabaningi, ukuya ekamu ngokuphathelene nokwenza abangane abasha nokusetha "abangane bekamu." Lo mqondo kubaluleke kakhulu ekamu lokulala ngaphandle. Ngenkampu yamalanga, izinketho zinganciphisa futhi bonke abantwana esikoleni bangaya ekamu lezinsuku ndawonye. Ezinye izingane ezinamahloni noma ezethula zingase zizwe zikhululekile ngokunye okujwayelekile. Uma ingane yakho inzima kanzima esikoleni, ukuthola ikamu elikhethekile nabo bonke abantwana abasha kungase kube into enhle yokuzethemba kwabo.
Izindleko
Izingane aziqondi kangako abazali bazo izimali, futhi amakamu angabiza kakhulu. Ihlobo lihloselwe ukugcwala okuhlangenwe nakho okusha kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi udinga ukuchitha ithoni. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukuvumela ingane yakho ukuthi ikwazi mayelana nezindleko zekamu kuyisinqumo somuntu siqu.
Uma ingane yakho icela ukuba uye ekamu elingaphandle kwesabelomali sakho, wandise usesho lwakho futhi ubonise izinketho eziningi.
Abazali Bangabandakanya Kanjani Abantwana Babo Esikhathini Senqubo Yokuthatha Izinqumo?
I-American Camp Association, igunya elihola ekuthuthukiseni kwentsha kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwekamu, icebisa abazali ukuba bakhethe ikamu isinqumo somndeni. I-American Camp Association inezinsiza zemithombo yokukhetha ikamu elihle kakhulu lomndeni wakho. Sebenzisa imininingwane yabo ethi "Thola ikamu" ukuze unciphise ukukhetha kwakho. Kodwa khumbula ukukhuluma nomntanakho futhi uwenze ukuba bahileleke ekwenzeni izinqumo ukuqinisekisa ihlobo elihle lomndeni wonke.
Hlola izinketho zekamu bese uhlola izinto ezihlinzekwa ngamakamu angaba khona. Futhi, qiniseka ukuhlola amasayithi e-camp ekamu ukuze ingane yakho ibuke izithombe, amamephu, noma ukuvakasha okubonakalayo kwesikhungo sekamu, sampula amashejuli nsuku zonke namamenyu, nolwazi mayelana nabaqondisi nabasebenzi.
Lapho uvakashela amakamu, kubalulekile ukuba abazali babe nohlu lwemibuzo . Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuba idale uhlu lwayo lwemibuzo futhi icabange ngalokho okubaluleke kakhulu kubo ekujabuliseni ihlobo. Iya kumawebhusayithi e-camp nezingane zakho, futhi ubuke izithombe, amashejuli nsuku zonke nemisebenzi ekhethekile. Iwebhusayithi yekamu izokunika ukuzwa okuhle ngalokho ikamu elikulo. Hlela izinkambo zokuvakasha zokulala emakamu noma ukuya ezinsukwini zomndeni ezijabulisayo zamakamu ezinsuku nomndeni wakho wonke. Vumela ingane yakho igijime futhi ibone izindawo zekamu. Ukuba semakamu kusiza izingane zizinqume ukuthi yiziphi izinhlobo zezilungiselelo ezizozijabulela kakhulu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi zihlolisisa yini, zenza ubuciko kanye nobuciko, noma zidlala imidlalo.
UDave Stricker, umnikazi weCamp Wah-Nee, ekamu lokulala lokulala e-Torrington, CT uthi:
Izingane zingakwazi, futhi kufanele ngokuphelele, zibe nesisho esinqumweni. Angicabangi ukuthi amakamu amaningi angathanda umakhamuzi owayengafuni ngempela ukuhamba, lapho kwakungekho okungenani enhliziyweni yabo ukuthi lokhu kungaba indawo enhle ukuba ibe yindawo! Futhi, badinga ukuvumelanisa futhi bakutshele ukuthi ikamu inezinhlobo zemisebenzi abafuna ngempela ukuyenza (hhayi lokho esithemba ukuthi bazofunda ukukuthanda!) Kodwa okuningi kwalokho abazali bafunda izingane zethu ngendlela efanele -kuyazi lapho izithakazelo zabo zangempela zizohlangana khona, kuyilapho ngobumnene zibaqondisa ukuba bazame okuthile okusha. Kodwa ngokuvamile ngokuvamile, izingane zivakashela amakamu amaningi futhi zibanjwe okuthile okuthiwa yi-glitzy (mhlawumbe i-go-carts, noma i-ice cream?). Sidinga ukwazi kangcono, futhi singalingani nje ngemisebenzi noma izakhiwo, kodwa isiko nenhliziyo yanoma yiliphi ikamu. Abazali kudingeka bahlulele lokho, futhi bakhethe indawo efana nokuthi bayethemba kanjani ukuthi izingane zabo zizokhula! Futhi kulokho kukhetha, abazali kumele babe nokugcina kokusho.
Ngakho-ke ngenkathi ungase ungafuni ukuthi izingane zakho zikhethe noma iyiphi ikamu, ukuzibandakanya ekwenzeni izinqumo zekamu ngeke kwenze nje ukuthi isipiliyoni sibe mnandi kubo, kunganciphisa ukukhathazeka kwakho ngoba wazi ukuthi ingane yakho iyojabula kakhulu egcwaliswe ehlobo!