Imibono Yokuthuthukisa Inkulisa Yokulungela
Q: Yini engingayenza ukuze ingane yami ilungele inkulisa?
Impendulo: Lena cishe enye yemibuzo ebuzwa kakhulu enkundleni yokubhalisa enkulisa, kodwa akuyona umbuzo olula ukuphendula. Ukulungela inkulana akuyona indaba yokuba nekhono elilodwa elithile, kuyinhlanganisela yamakhono amaningi ezindaweni eziningi, kufaka phakathi emzimbeni, efundweni nasemphakathini / ngokomzwelo.
Nakuba eziningi zalezi zakhono zitholakala njengoba ingane ikulungele ukufezekisa, ungathuthukisa amakhono ayenayo kakade. Ngokuhlola imisebenzi yakho yansuku zonke ngokujulile nangomqondo ohlukile ungasiza ukuthi ingane yakho ilungele inkulisa.
1. Hlola izincwadi nomntanakho. Enye yamakhono abaluleke kakhulu okufunda nokubhala okungawunakho ingane yakho ingaba yinto eyaziwa ngokuthi " Imiqondo Ephathelene Nokuphrinta ." Cishe usufundele amabhuku kuye, kodwa manje sekuyisikhathi sokuqala ukubuka ngokujulile ezincwadini bese umnika umqondo wokuthi izincwadi zakhiwa kanjani. Masiphathe ngale ncwadi ukuze afunde phambili ngemuva, indlela efanele yokubamba incwadi futhi athole ukuthi amakhasi ajika ngakwesobunxele kuya kwesokudla.
Njengoba ufunda, sebenzisa umunwe wakho ukukhomba amagama ukuze umnike indlela yokuhlukanisa phakathi kwezithombe nombhalo. Uma ingane yakho ibonakala ikwazi kahle le miqondo ungaqhubeka nemibono eyinkimbinkimbi efana nokuqaphela ukuthi umbhalo uyenziwe izingcezu ezincane (amagama) futhi lezo zingcezu ezincane zakhiwa izingcezu ezincane (izincwadi).
2. Hlola ulimi nengane yakho. Ngokuqinisekile ukukhuluma nengane yakho kuyombulela amakhono olimi nokukhuluma, kodwa sekuyisikhathi sokwenza isitoreji. Khuluma naye ngemicabango yakho, isimiso sakho nokuthi kwenzekani ezweni lakhe njengoba uhamba ngosuku lwakho. Ukumveza ngemibono emisha kuyomnika ulwazi olusha angasisebenzisa ukuze akhulume nawe ngemibono yakhe nokuthi ubona kanjani umhlaba.
Qala ukubuza ingane yakho ukuthi ikhulume indlela yakhe ngomsebenzi, hhayi kuphela ukubona ukuthi ingakwazi yini ukuchaza ukuthi yenzani, kodwa futhi ukuthola ukuthi yiziphi amasu ayisebenzisayo ukuxazulula izinkinga. Ulwazi oluwusizo uma eqala isikole, ikakhulukazi uma ebonakala efika ezinkingeni ezivela engxenyeni ehlukile kunezingane eziningi.
3. Hlola amakhono amakhono omntanakho omuhle. Cishe ezinyangeni eziyisithupha ngaphambi kokuba indodakazi yami ihambe enkulisa, ngabona ukuthi wayengakaze abambe isikebhe. Ngangingakaze ngicabange ukuthi ngizomnika lona! Njengoba kuyabonakala sengathi kungase kubonakale kunika ingane yakho izinto ezibukhali, kuyadingeka ukuthi ufunde ukuthi ungayisebenzisa kanjani. Okufanayo kuya ezintweni ezifana namapenki, amapensela, amakhrayoni nama-marker, okungcono kokuhlukahluka okuhlukahlukene.
Izingane eziya enkulisa zidingeke ukuba zikwazi ukubonakala ngokugcwele kula mathuluzi ukuthi sezivele zaqala ukubamba kahle. Ngakho-ke, ubeke imali emaphepheni wephepha lokudweba okwenziwe ngomsebenzi wengane yakho, umnike amaphephandaba namamagazini amadala ukuba anqume futhi alungele ukuba nomuzi we-confetti!
4. Hlola ukuzimela kwengane yakho. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uzoya enkulisa yosuku olugcwele noma lesigamu, ingane yakho ngeke ilindele ukuchitha isikhathi kude nawe, kodwa futhi ukwenza izinqumo nemisebenzi ephelele ngaphandle kokufaka kwakho.
Ezinganeni eziningi lokhu kunguquko enkulu kakhulu futhi ngisho nokuzimela kwezingane kuningi kungathola lokhu kuyinkimbinkimbi. Unganciphisa lolu shintsho ngokuqala ukubuyela emuva kancane bese uvumela ingane yakho ukuthatha umthwalo omncane kakhulu .
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