Ukuthola umuntu onakekela izingane zakho ngenkathi usendlini noma kude kungaba enye yezinto ezinzima kunazo zonke umzali angabhekana nazo. Ngokuqhubekayo, ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi kukhona ukuxhumana okuqondile phakathi kokunakekelwa kwezingane okusezingeni eliphezulu kanye nengqondo yengqondo, kwengqondo nengokwenyama kwengane.
Abanakekeli abahle bangenza konke ngokusiza bakhulise izingxenye zobuningi bomntwana ukuzisiza ukuba bahlanganyele futhi benze izibopho nabanye abantu.
Ngokudabukisayo, abanakekeli abampofu bangalimaza ngokungakhuthazi ukukhula kobuchopho futhi kubangele izingane zizwe ukwesaba nokukhathazeka.
Ngemuva kokuthatha isikhathi sokuthola izinsuku, amahora kanye nezindleko zokunakekelwa kwezingane, abazali kufanele baqonde izinhlobo ezahlukene ezitholakalayo kubo nokuthi yikuphi okuzoba ngumdlalo omuhle kubo nezingane zabo.
Amasevisi Okunakekelwa Kwangaphandle Kwamakhaya
Uma abazali bekhetha isikhungo sokunakekela izingane , bavame ukwehla zibe yizigaba ezimbili: ukunakekelwa kwesikhashana sokuhlala noma ukugcinwa kwezinsuku zokuthengisa. Ukunakekelwa kwamasuku okuhlala kuhlala kuvamise emzini womuntu lapho bona, futhi mhlawumbe omunye umuntu, banakekela izingane ngesikhathi sosuku. Ukunakekelwa kwezinsuku zokuhlala kuhlala kubazali bafuna imvelo encane, esondelene kakhulu nokuzwa okuningi "okufana nekhaya". Ukunakekelwa komhlalaphansi kunganikeza ukunakekelwa kwabantwana okungaphansi kwenani lokunakekelwa kwengane kanye nokuguquka okulula kwezingane ezesabekayo ngamaqembu amakhulu. Ehlangothini lwe-flip, noma kunjalo, izinhlelo zokunakekelwa kwezinsuku zokuhlala zingase zingabi namathoyizi, izincwadi, imidlalo, kanye nezinsiza izikhungo zokuhweba zingaba nazo.
Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi bangabi nezinhlelo zemfundo kanye nesakhiwo semvelo yasenkulisa.
Izikhungo zokunakekelwa kwezokuhweba ngokuvamile ziyizakhiwo ezinkulu namakamelo ahlanganiswe nobudala. Sethemba ukuthi zihlanzekile futhi zigcwele imidlalo efanelekayo namathoyizi. Izikhungo eziningi zinamakhamera lapho abazali bengangena khona bese bebona ukuthi izinto zihamba kanjani.
Izindinganiso zokuzibandakanya kanye nezinga lokukhuthazwa okuhlinzekwa izingane. Amanani angase abe ngabasebenzi abakhulu ukulingana kwengane.
Lapho ukhetha ukunakekelwa kwezinsuku zokuhlala noma zokuthengisa , abazali kudingeka:
Hlola izidingo zomphakathi zendawo, qinisekisa ukuthi wonke amaphepha abo kanye namadokhumenti asesikhathini futhi azikho izinkinga ezivela emphakathini, hlola izinkomba kubasebenzi, zikhulume nabazali bamanje nabangaphambili ababengena kuzo, bese behlelwa izilingo eziningana ingane yakho ukubona ukuthi wena futhi yena uzizwe ekhululekile.
I-Nannies yasekhaya
Emhlabeni we-nanny, kubonakala sengathi kunezinhlobo ezintathu ezijwayelekile zomthwalo wemfanelo:
I-parent unit Unit Nanny: Umfana ongasebenza njengomzali. Omunye ozimele, osebenzayo futhi othile okwazi ukuqhuba indlu ngenkathi umama esephumile.
I-Nanny Partner: Umfana ohlukanisa indlu nomama ngokulinganayo. Uzoba "ophethe" lapho umama ephuma bese "esekela" lapho umama ekhaya.
Ummangaleli uNanny: Umfana ongcono omama abafuna ukulawula konke ekhaya. Lawa ma-nannies ayasebenza futhi alandela imisebenzi eyabelwe nsuku zonke.
Ngaphezu kokucabanga ukuthi yiliphi izinga kanye nomhlobo wemithwalo yemfanelo abayithandayo, abazali basekhaya nabo badinga ukucabangela ezinye izici zokusebenzisana nomfana onjengoba: "bazohlala noma baphile?" "Ngizobadinga ukuba baqhube noma unesidingo esikhethekile njengokubhukuda "noma" ingabe lo muntu unolwazi olufanele lokuhlonyelwa ukuphatha izingane zami? "
Izinzuzo zokuba ne-nanny yikhono lokuba nomuntu oyedwa ongabheka ingane yakho ekhaya futhi ahlanganyele nezidingo zabo ezishintshayo. Izindleko ziyizindleko eziphakeme zokunakekelwa kanye nokuhlalisana okungezansi ezitholakala ekunakekelweni kwamalanga.
Lapho ukhetha abazali abanamantombazane kudingeka :
Qinisekisa ukuthi basebenze ngaphambilini nabantwana abaneminyaka efanayo efanayo neyakho, hlola izinkomba ezedlule ze-nanny, ingemuva uhlole ukuthi umuntu ukhona nobunikazi, uchithe isikhathi wenza izinyathelo eziningana ekhaya, hhayi nje ukuxoxisana okulodwa, nomngane we-nanny ukuze ungambona futhi ubone ukuthi ufana nomnakekeli nomsebenzi.
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