Ukusebenzisa amagama achazayo ukukhuluma KONKE ISIKHATHI!
Kuyinto elula yombono futhi kulula ukuyisebenzisa. Amazwi amaningi ingane yakho ezwa nsuku zonke, lapho efunda khona, ekutholeni futhi ekugcineni azisebenzise. Futhi ngenkathi ukukhuliswa kolwazi kuyenzeka ngokuvamile ngokwakho njengoba izingane zihlangana nabanye abantu futhi zingena esenkulisa , kuningi ongakwenza ekhaya ukufundisa ingane yakho amagama achazayo angayisebenzisa futhi athi nsuku zonke.
Ukuze usize ukwandisa isilulumagama sabantwana bakho, zama amanye alawa macebiso:
1. UDeveli useMininingwane.
Uma ukhuluma nengane yakho, yiba necacile ngangokunokwenzeka. "Ngithwale izicathulo zakho," kungase kube "Ngilethe izicathulo zakho ezibomvana ezibophayo." Ingabe ufuna ukuhamba? "Iphendukela" Ingabe ufuna ukuhamba uhambo olude ngaphandle lapho singabheka khona isibhakabhaka esibhakabhaka nezimbali ezimibalabala? "Sebenzisa amagama amaningi ngangokunokwenzeka (ngaphakathi kwesizathu).
Ulwazi olungaphezulu, sicela!
Ngalokho, umcele ukuthi asebenzise imininingwane lapho ekhuluma futhi. Uma ecela udonsa wakhe, thola imininingwane - "Idoli elinenwele elimnyama? Idoli elinengubo eluhlaza?" Ngisho noma into ebuzwayo ibonakala ngokucacile, khuthaza ingane yakho yasenkulisa ukuba isebenzise amagama amaningi njengoba ekwazi ukuchaza. (Lokhu kuyoba umkhuba omuhle uma ingane yakho isencane futhi uzozama ukuthola ulwazi oluningi ngangokunokwenzeka kuye!)
3. Funda incwadi. Bese ufunda Omunye. Phinda.
Ukufunda ngokuzwakalayo ingane yakho ngezizathu eziningi, ukwakha isilulumagama phakathi kwabo!
Njengoba ufunda, phendula noma yimiphi imibuzo ingane yakho engase ibe nakho, bese ubeka eyakho. Uma ucabanga ukuthi kukhona igama encwadini ukuthi ingane yakho engasenkulwazi ayiqondi, mbuze ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi kusho ukuthini.
4. Khuluma! Ngaso sonke isikhathi!
Wena ungumfundisi wakho omuhle kakhulu noyedwa wokuqala. Basize bathuthukise inani lamagama ngesilulumagama sabo ngokumane bekhuluma nabo.
Khombisa izinto ezintsha, chaza amagama uma ucabanga ukuthi abaqondi ukuthi uthini - vele ukhulume nengane yakho mayelana nakho konke noma yini.
5. Bhala konke.
Nomaphi lapho uya khona, konke okubonayo kunalebula. Ungacabangi ngoba igama likhulu kakhulu ukuthi ingane yakho yasekuseni ayikwazi ukuyiqonda, ukuyiqonda noma ukuyikhumbula. Angazi ukuthi yini okuthize? Bheka bese uphinda uthumele ulwazi olusenkulisa yakho.
6. Buza Imibuzo Yengane Yakho.
Usuku lonke ingane yakho ikubuza imibuzo . Vula amatafula bese uthole ulwazi olusuka kumncane wakho. Imibuzo yakho akudingeki ibe yinkimbinkimbi - izinto nje ezenza ingane yakho icabange futhi ikhulume.
7. Dlala imidlalo yamazwi.
Kukhona amathoyizi amaningi nemidlalo emakethe efundisa izingane mayelana namazwi - indlela yokupela, amagama asho ukuthini, ukufunda nokuningi. Futhi lezo zikhulu! Kodwa ungase udlale amanye imidlalo ekhaya noma emotweni nomncane wakho futhi ngeke akukhokhele ipeni. Isibonelo, dlala umdlalo wezinkondlo lapho unikeza ingane yakho igama futhi kufanele uyiqophe. Noma faka "I-Spy". Tshela izingane zakho zasenkulisa ukuthi uhlola into ethi: iqala ngencwadi C, noma imilolotelo nge-bat, noma isilwane esiluhlaza esinomsoco oshoyo. Amathuba angapheli!