Ukukhipha uma ingane iyingane noma intombazane
Ingabe uhlobo lomuntu okufanele ahlele konke? Uthanda ukumangala? Noma ingabe uyilungu ovulela izipho zakho zokuzalwa uma uzithola zifihliwe ekamelweni?
Yebo, uma kuziwa ekutholeni ubulili bomntwana ongakazalwa, abantu abangaba ngu-70 bangabantu abavula manje.
Izindlela Zokukwazi Ukulala Ngengane Yakho Engakazalwa
Abantu baqaphela kanjani ubulili, kungani abantu befuna ukwazi, futhi banomthelela kangakanani ekukhupheni kwabo?
Ukunquma ubulili bomntwana ongakazalwa kungatholakala nge- ultrasound (isimiso noma ukuxilongwa), noma ukuhlolwa kofuzo ( isampuli ye-Chorionic villus (CVS) , ukuhlolwa kwe-DNA okungenaselula, noma i-amniocentesis).
Yize izingozi ezingase zibe khona ze-ultrasound zicatshangwa ukuthi zingaphansi, akukhuthazwa ukuba uthole nje ukuthi ucansi lomntanakho. Kukhona futhi umbuzo wokunemba. I-Ultrasound inembile kakhulu kunokuhlolwa kofuzo. I-Ultrasound itholakala kuningi labesifazane abakhulelwe, naphezu kwesixwayiso ngokusetshenziswa kwesimiso se-ultrasound. Ukuhlolwa kwe-ultrasound yenhloso ecacile yokunquma ubulili akukhuthazwa.
Ukuhlolwa kwe-Genetic kunembile engu-99.1% ekunqumeni ubulili bomntwana wakho. Kodwa-ke, ukuhlolwa kofuzo kuyingozi yokulahlekelwa ukukhulelwa noma ukulimaza ukukhulelwa. Izinga lokulahlekelwa kwe-amniocenteis kanye ne-CVS yokudluliswa kwezidakamizwa (okuyiyona ndlela iningi elenziwe ngayo) ngokuvamile libikwa ukuthi lingamaphesenti amahlanu (okungukuthi u-0.5%) ngokuthatha udokotela onolwazi.
Izinga lokulahlekelwa kwe-CVS ye-transcervical liphakeme kakhulu. Kubuye kube khona imibiko ye-CVS kanye nezinkinga ezifana ne-amniotic banding syndrome; Ucwaningo lwamuva lubonisa ukuthi le nkinga iyancipha uma kwenziwa ngemuva kwamasonto ayishumi.
Ngokuvamile udinga ukudluliselwa kwe-ultrasound noma ukuhlolwa kofuzo.
Okwenza Abantu Bazi Ukwabelana Ngosana Lomntwana Ongakazalwa
Ukwazi ubulili bendodana yakho engakazalwa kungaba ngezizathu ezingenasidingo, njengokuhlobisa i-nursery, noma kungaba ngezizathu zezokwelapha, njengesiyaluyalu se-chromosomal ehlobene nocansi.
Umthelela wokwazi ubulili bendodana yakho engakazalwa ingaba yikuphi okuncane kakhulu (ukuhlobisa i-nursery) kuze kube nomthelela ophezulu (isinqumo sokuqeda ukukhulelwa ngenxa yesifo esixhumene nocansi). Kukhona futhi umbuzo wokunemba nokuletha ikhaya lakho lomfana omusha ekamelweni lakhe elimhlophe kanye nekamelo eligcwele izingubo.
Kunezindlela zokubikezela ubulili bomntwana wakho obungenembile, futhi akufanele zisetshenziselwe izinhloso zokuxilonga, kodwa kumnandi neze-kancane. Izibonelo kungaba:
- Ishadi LikaKhalenda Lunar lamaShayina
- Ama-Wial Old Tales (Wedding Ring Spin, ukuthi uthwala kanjani, yini oyidlayo, njll)
- Ukuhlolwa kweDrano (ISEXWAYISO: Umchamo kanye namakhemikhali eDrano kuhlangene kungaba yingozi!)
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhamba kanjani, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhetha noma cha ukwazi ukwazi ... ukumangala kuzogcina kuvezwe ngaleso sikhathi somlingo uma uzwa, "Kuyinto ...."
Imibono Yokuthola
Naphezu kwalokho ongakuzwa, kuningi endabeni kunokuba nje uthola. Ungakhetha ukuthola uma ungaphakathi egumbini eligcwele abantu, njengokwebulili obuvezelayo okukhulayo ekuthandeni. Noma ungase ukhethe ukuthola ukuthi uyedwa, ngisho nangemva kokuba i-ultrasound iphelile futhi usuhambe ekhaya ngokuthatha imvilophu enemfihlo yokuyigcina ngomzuzu owodwa okhethekile.
Lesi yisikhathi sakho esikhethekile. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uthola noma cha, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukwenza wedwa noma eqenjini labantu - yenza into ehlonipha umndeni wakho.