Amazwi omama amadala wokubikezela ubulili
Kungakhathaliseki uma uthola ubulili bomntwana obulindele, ukufunda ukuthi unomfana noma intombazane akungabazeki ukuthi ungenye yezinto ezijabulisayo ngokuba umzali. Futhi ngenkathi ungathola ngesilinganiso esithile sokuqiniseka ngaphambi kokuba isixuku sakho senjabulo sifinyelele (ngesikhathi se- ultrasound , isibonelo, noma uma udinga ukuba nesifo sokuhlola sokungahlosiwe njengama-amniocentesis noma i-chorionic villi yokuhlola), kungaba okuningi kumnandi ukuzama ukuqagela uma uzoletha ekhaya indodana noma indodakazi esibhedlela.
Kunezintambo eziningi zabafazi abadala ezizungeze ukubikezela ubulili bomntwana ngaphambi kokuba azalwe. Nazi ezinye ongase ufune ukudlala nazo, kodwa khumbula: Azincike okusanhlamvu lwesayensi, ngakho ungawasebenzisi ukuba anqume ukuthi iyiphi imbala yokudweba i-nursery!
Izinketho zokudla kanye nezifiso
Umqondo lapha ukuthi lokho owesifazane okufaka emzimbeni wakhe kungathonya ubulili bendodana yakhe, cishe okuvela embonweni wokuthi abafana namantombazane banezinkanuko ezahlukene kunamantombazane futhi bayokwenza lokho kwaziwa ngokuthanda kwabo umama.
Isibonelo, uzodla isithende sesinkwa? Uma impendulo yakho "ingekho indlela," unesintombazane, ngokusho komunye wabafazi abadala. Kuyafana nokuthi uma ufisa ukudla okunomsoco kunokuba okumnandi, kusho omunye. Ngalezi zinyathelo, kunzima ukwazi ukuthi izikhekhe zakudala kanye nezifiso ze-ice cream zokukhulelwa komsebenzi!
I-Belly Yokukhulelwa
Ukusuka lapho kwakuyinto elula ukukhuluma ukuthi ukudla esikudla ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kwakudingeka kuhlotshaniswe nokuthi sithwele intombazane noma umfana.
Esinye isibonakaliso esiyingqayizivele socansi lomntwana ukuthi umama uyamthwala kanjani. Owesifazane obonakala ngokusobala ukhulelwe ngemuva ubikezelwe ukuba nentombazane. Kodwa uma sonke isisu sibheke phambili futhi sibheka njengokungathi sigwebe ibhasikidi, kunomfana ongaphakathi ngaphakathi. d
Ukukhulelwa "Kukhanya
Lona kungaba nzima ukuba umama abe ukugwinya kodwa umqondo wukuthi ubukeka kahle kangakanani lapho ekhulelwe kungabonisa ubulili bendodana yakhe: Owesifazane onentombazane okuthiwa akanakho ukuthi "ukukhulelwa okukhazimulayo" kukhanya ngenxa yokuthi angakazalwa Indodakazi ishaya konke ubuhle bayo isikhathi sokukhulelwa.
Ezinye izinguquko zomzimba ezitholwa umama-zibe zikhonjiwe njengezibikezelo zobulili. Owesifazane onamaphesenti angaphezu kukavamile ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa uthwele intombazane. Okufanayo kuqinisile uma umbala womchamo wakhe ungumphuzi ophuzi, kunokuba ube ophuzi okhanyayo, izinwele zakhe zikhula ngokushesha kunalokho ngaphambi kokuba alindele, futhi amabele akhe ashintshile ngokuphawulekayo.
Inyanga Yokucubungula
Ingabe ukhulelwe ngenyanga ongeyinqaba noma ngisho? Okungajwayelekile (ngoJanuwari, ngoMashi, ngoMeyi, njalonjalo) kusho ukuthi unendodakazi encane endleleni; ngisho (ngoFebhuwari, ngo-Ephreli, ngoJuni, njll) kusho ukuthi kufanele ubeke impahla egcwele izingubo ezihlaza okwesibhakabhaka nezingubo zezingane.