Amathiphu kubazali abangabodwa abahamba ngempi yokugcina ingane
Impi yokugcina izingane ingase ibe yinto ecindezela kakhulu umzali angayikhuthazela, ikakhulukazi uma ungazi kahle ukuthi yini ongayilindela. Sebenzisa lezi zeluleko ukuhlela icala lakho futhi ukwandise amathuba okuba uzokwazi ukufeza umphumela omuhle:
Izisekelo Eziyisisekelo Zomntwana Wezimpahla
Ngisho noma kungewona owenza 'impi,' kufanele ungene enkantolo ngecebo eliqinile lokusebenza.
Lokhu kusho ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole, ukuqasha ummeli wezomthetho owaziwa futhi oqeqeshiwe, futhi uthathe isikhathi sokuqonda imithetho yokugcina ingane embusweni wakho. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, ungathathi kalula ukuthi ijaji lizobona icala lakho kusuka endaweni yakho yokubuka. Inhloso yodwa yenkantolo ukukwenza okungcono kakhulu kumntanakho, futhi ukukhombisa ukuthi wabelana ngaleyo gxila kungadlula isikhathi eside ekusizeni icala lakho.
Gwema iMpi Yokwenyama Uma Ungakwazi
Ngaphambi kokuba uhambe ungene empini yokugcina ingane, uzibuze ukuthi ingagwemeka yini. Abazali abanesithakazelo sokuthola isisodwa noma 'ukugcwala' ngokugcwele bavame ukuphela enkantolo, bebhekene nempi enzima yokugcina izingane ngenxa yokuthi ayikho inhlangano ezimisele ukuyekethisa ukuthola isivumelwano. Ezimweni ezinjalo, inkantolo izogcina ekunqumeni ukuthi ubani ozokugcina ingane yengane-futhi imiphumela ingamangalisa. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukucabangela ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuthi ukwehluleka kungenzeka nokuthi ngabe ukwabelana ngokugcinwa kwesibambiso kungase kube kuhle kakhulu emntanini wakho.
Uma, ngemva kokucubungisisa, usaqinisekile ukuthi ukufaka ukugcinwa kwedwa kuphela kungcono kakhulu noma okukhethwa kukho kuphela, kuzodingeka uzilungiselele lokho okuzayo.
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Abazali abanesithakazelo sokunqoba impi yokugcinwa kwengane kufanele bahlelwe kahle ngokuzwa kwengane.
Ngesikhathi sokulalela, inkantolo izocabangela lezi zinto ezilandelayo:
- Izinga elingcono lomzali - Abazali abathintekayo ekunqophelweni kwengane kufanele baqonde ukuthi okwenza umzali oyedwa 'abe ngcono' emehlweni enkantolo angeke ahambisane nendawo yakho yokubuka.
- Amadokhumenti - Umzali ngamunye unethuba lokuhlanganyela nenkantolo noma yimaphi amadokhumenti afanele aqoqwe.
- Isitifiketi esifanele senkantolo - Lokhu kungase kubonakale kungenasisekelo, kodwa inkantolo izobheka ukubonakala komzali ngamunye enkantolo. Lokhu kufaka indlela ogqoka ngayo ukubonakala kwenkantolo yakho, kanye nesimo sakho sengqondo nokuziphatha ngesikhathi sokuzwa.
- Ukukhulumisana phakathi kwabazali - Uma ufuna ukunqoba ingane yakho ekugcineni impi enkantolo, bonisa ijaji ukuthi uzimisele ukuhambisana nomunye umzali wengane yakho.
- Okuthandeka kakhulu kwengane - Ekugcineni, inkantolo izokwethula ukuthi ngubani ozowunqoba impi yengane ngokusekelwe ekuthandweni kwengane. Lokhu kusho ukwenza okungcono kakhulu kwengane, ngokuphambene nalokho okungase kube lula kakhulu kubazali.
Ukuvakashelwa Ngesikhathi Sezimpi Zokulwa Nezingane
Abazali abanganikezwa ukugcinwa okuyisisekelo ngesikhathi sokulwa kwengane bavame ukufaneleka amalungelo okuvakashela ngokukhululekile.
Ngokuvamile izinkantolo zikholelwa ukuthi ubuhlobo bobabili abazali bubasiza kakhulu ingane. Ngakho-ke, kungaba ngcono kuwe ukuhlala uhilelekile empilweni yengane yakho kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani engxabanweni yengane yakho. Abazali abaningi bathola ukuthi kuyasiza ukuthuthukisa uhlelo oluhlelekile lokubeletha ukuze umzali ngamunye azi ukuthi yini okufanele alindele.
Ihlelwe nguJennifer Wolf.