Izinkantolo zithatha izinsolo zokuhlukumezeka kwasekhaya emaphoyiseni okugcinwa kwengane ngokujulile. Kukhona njalo ukukhathazeka ukuthi uma inkantolo ingathathi isinyathelo esinamandla, umzali osolwayo angavuvukala kamuva akonakalise ingane. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, izinkantolo zivame ukuzethemba uma kuziwa ekunikezeni imvume noma ukuvakashelwa ngemuva kokumangalelwa kokuhlukunyezwa . Nakhu okudingeka ukwazi mayelana nodlame lwasekhaya kanye namacala okugcina izingane:
Ukuqothulwa kobudlova basekhaya
Okungenani abantwana abayizigidi ezintathu babona izenzo zobudlova basekhaya ngonyaka. Eqinisweni, ubudlova basekhaya buye kwaba isifo esikhulu emphakathini waseMelika. Udlame lwasekhaya ebuhlotsheni luvame ukusiza umuntu oyedwa ukuba afake isahlukaniso noma ashiye ubuhlobo. Uma kukhona izingane ezihilelekile, kuvela ukukhishwa kwengane yengane. Ezimweni ezinjalo, inkantolo kumele inqume ukuthi yimuphi umzali ozogcinwa ngokomzimba izingane: umhlukumezi osolwa ngokudlwengula, osolwa ngokudlwengula ekhaya, noma kokubili. Ekugcineni, kuyisibopho senkantolo ukucabangela "ukukhathazeka kwengane" ngokuphathelene nezigameko zodlame lwasekhaya ezinganeni zokugcina izingane. Lokhu kusho ukuthi kumele baxhomeke kulokho okungcono kakhulu inhlalakahle yengane nokuphepha.
Ubufakazi Bokuhlukunyezwa Kwangaphakathi Nezingane
Ubufakazi bokumangalelwa kwamuva, futhi ngisho nokudala, okwenzeka esikhathini esidlule, kobudlova basekhaya, buvame ukubhekwa njengokunqunywa kwengane.
Inkantolo ingayiphika imvume yokumnika umzali osolwa ngokudlwengula ekhaya uma inquma ukuthi umzali ubangela ingozi kumntwana noma omunye umzali wengane, isisulu.
Amaphuzu Okumele Aqashwe Ngenkantolo
Kubalulekile ukuthi uqaphele ukuthi izinkantolo azithatha kalula izwi lomzali uma ucabangela izinsolo zobudlova basekhaya kanye nokugcinwa kwengane.
Abahluleli ngokuvamile bacabangela:
- Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi izigameko zokuthi udlame lwasekhaya zithinta noma ziqondiswe, ingane
- Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umsolwa uyaqhubeka engozini kumntwana noma omunye umzali
- Ubukhulu nokuvama kobudlova basekhaya (okuyinto izinkantolo ezingase zibheke njengesibonakaliso esinamandla sokuziphatha kwesikhathi esizayo)
- Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ummeli usalinde icala
- Noma yibuphi ubufakazi obungokomzimba bokuxhashazwa, kufaka phakathi izithombe
- Amaphoyisa abika ukuloba izigameko zokuhlukumeza okusolwa
Ubudlova basekhaya Ngokwezifiso Nokuvakashelwa
Izigameko zodlame lwasekhaya azigcini nje ekuthathweni kwezinqumo zokugcina izingane. Zithinta nokuthi ngabe ummangali uzokwazi ukuvakashelwa. Inkantolo ingakhetha uku:
- Vuselela amalungelo okuvakasha komzali osolwa, okwesikhashana noma isikhathi eside
- Ukuvakasha okuqondisiwe kwe-oda
- Hlola i-oda lokuvakasha elikhona lomzali osolwayo (isibonelo, ngokuvukela ukuvakashelwa ebusuku)
- Hlela amakilasi wokubeletha noma amakilasi okuphatha intukuthelo
- Yala umzali osolwa ukuthi ahlanganyele ekululekeleni ubudlova basekhaya
- Khipha umyalo wokuvimbela noma umyalelo wokuvikelwa
Ukuhlushwa izifo zokufuduka kwabangama-Immigrant
Ezinye izisulu zobudlova basekhaya zingase zishaye ukushiya ubudlelwane obuhlukumezayo, ikakhulukazi uma isisulu singumfiki.
Ngokuvamile umhlukumezi angasongela isisulu ngokubiza izikhulu ze-United States Customs Enforcement uma isisulu libika ukuhlukunyezwa. Uma umuntu ovela kwelinye izwe ehlukunyezwa, kufanele ngokushesha ashiye leso simo futhi aqaphele iziphathimandla. Kukhona ithuba elihle ukuthi umfuduki angakwazi ukuhlala ezweni ngaphansi kwesigaba esikhethekile se-visa, ngaphandle kokwesaba ukubuyiselwa ezweni lakubo.
Ihlelwe nguJennifer Wolf.