Indlela enhle yokusingatha ukukhathazeka mayelana nenkantolo-ukuvakashelwa ukuvakasha
Izinkantolo zinikeza ukuvakashelwa ngenjongo yokukhuthaza abazali abangenalo ukugcina ukuxhumana njalo nezingane zabo. Kodwa-ke, lokho okubukeka okunengqondo ephepheni akusebenzi ngaso sonke isikhathi ngesikhathi sangempela, kusale abazali abaningi bezibuza, "Ngingayenqaba yini ukuthumela izingane zami enkantolo?
Ngokwesibonelo:
- U-Sherry ukhononda ngokuthi izingane zakhe zichitha isikhathi esiningi nentombi yakhe entsha ngesikhathi sokuvakashelwa kunokuba noyise
- Izingane zikaMarc ziyakhathazeka kakhulu ngokuvakashelwa ukuthi azikwazi ukulala izinsuku ngaphambi nangemva, bekhala futhi bemtshela ukuthi abafuni ukuya
- UJanelle ukwesaba ukuphepha kwezingane zakhe lapho ebathumela ukuvakashelwa ngenxa yomlando wakhe wangaphambili wobudlova basekhaya kanye nokusebenzisa kabi utshwala
Lezi zibonelo ezimbalwa zezinselele abazali abangabodwa ababhekana nazo ekuzameni ukulandela imiyalo yenkantolo ngenkathi benza okusemandleni ezinganeni zabo.
Ngokombono wezinkantolo, ama-oda wokuvakasha aqinisekisa ukuthi bobabili abazali bachitha isikhathi nezingane zabo. Ngokuvamile, izinkantolo zithatha amalungiselelo lapho izingane zigcina khona isibopho nabazali bobabili, ngisho nalapho zihlala ngokuyinhloko noma enye. Kodwa-ke, kunezimo ezithile ezinganiselwe lapho umzali angafuna ukuhoxisa noma ukunciphisa amalungelo okuvakasha komunye umzali. Ezimweni ezinjalo, kuzodingeka ukhombise ukuthi ukuvakashelwa kuyingozi kubantwana bakho.
Ukungacabangi nje ukuthi omunye umzali uchitha isikhathi sakhe sokuvakasha akubhekwa njengesizathu esizwakalayo sokususa ilungelo lomzali lokuvakashela.
Ukwenqaba Ukuvakashelwa Okumamukelekayo
Umzali okholelwa ukuthi izingane zakhe zisengozini eseduze zingenqaba ukuvakashelwa. Isibonelo, uma unesizathu sokukholelwa ukuthi i-ex yakho isemzimbeni noma ixhaphaza izingane zakho ngokocansi, kungaba ukuhlakanipha ukungabathumeli.
Kwamanye amazwe, umzali angenqaba ukuvakashelwa uma amanye amalungiselelo okuhlala komzali ebhekwa njengengozi, njengokuhlala endaweni egcwele ubugebengu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma ingane yakho yenqaba ukuvakashelwa, awudingi ukumphoqa ukuba avakashele.
Kuzokwenzekani Uma Ngifisa Ukuthumela Izingane Zami?
Uma ukholelwa ukuthi izingane zakho zisengozini esiseduze, akufanele uzithumelele ukuvakashelwa. Kodwa-ke, uma kunelungelo lokugcinwa kwenkantolo elisenkantolo kakade, ungase uphoxiswe enkantolo. Cabanga ngesisindo sokukhathazeka kwakho kokuphepha ngokusongela ukuthi uzobe usuhloniphekile futhi wenze isinqumo sakho ngokufanele. Uma ingozi ingokoqobo, isinqumo esifanele sizocaca futhi uzokwazi ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze.
Noma kunjalo, kufanele futhi ucabange ukuthi izikhathazo zakho zifana nezithandwayo. Isibonelo, ungase ukhethe ukuthi izingane zakho zilale ngo-8: 00 kusihlwa njalo ebusuku. Futhi ngokuvamile, ukulala ubusuku obuhle kuyingxenye yokuphila okunempilo. Kodwa ukuhlala kuze kube ngu-10: 00 noma ngo-11: 00 akusho ukuthi izingane zakho zisengozini.
Yini Okufanele Ngiyenze Ngemva Kwenqaba Ukuthumela Izingane Zami Ukuvakashelwa?
Uma unobungane obuhle ne-ex yakho kanye nokukhathazeka kwakho into ongayilungisa, zama ukukhuluma ngendaba.
Isibonelo, uma ukukhathazeka kwakho kungaphezu kokusebenzisa kahle izihlalo zemoto, mcele ukuba abe nezihlalo zemoto ezihlolwe. Iminyango eminingi yamaphoyisa izokwenza lokho mahhala. Ukuvumela ukuthi wazi ukuthi yini ongayenza ukuze unciphise ukukhathazeka kwakho kungenza uhlelo lokuvakashelwa komndeni wakho lubuyele kumkhondo.
Uma ungazizwa ukuthi ungakhuluma ngokukhululekile ngesikhalazo sakho mayelana nendaba, noma ngeke kube ephephile ukwenza kanjalo, kufanele ucele inkantolo ukuthi iguqule isivumelwano sakho sokugcina ingane esivele sikhona. Bhala phansi izinto ozikhathazayo ngaphambi kwesikhathi futhi wabelane nabo nejaji. Uma kusebenza, faka ubufakazi bokusekela isimangalo sakho, futhi.
Ijaji lingashintsha isimiso sokuvakashelwa noma sishiye singasebenzi. Uma ijaji lizwa ukuthi ukuhanjelwa kufanele kuguqulwe, angakwazi ukuhlela izinyathelo eziningana zokulungisa, njengokungena ekuvakasheni ngokuphathelene nomzali ongekho ngaphansi kokuthuthela endaweni ephephile noma ukuya ukwelulekwa kwezidakamizwa nokuphuza utshwala. Ezimweni lapho kukhona khona izinsolo zokuhlukunyezwa, ijaji lingalawula ukuthi ukuvakashelwa kungabhekwa isisebenzi senhlalakahle noma omunye umuntu ophethe.
Uma wena nomunye umzali engenayo isimiso sokuvakashelwa enkantolo njengamanje endaweni, lokhu kuyoba yisikhathi esihle sokuya enkantolo bese wenza ilungiselelo lokugcina ingane elungile. Ekulalelweni, ungaxoxa ngokukhathazeka kwakho futhi uchaze ijaji ukuthi kungani ukholelwa ukuthi ukuvakashelwa kuzoba usongo kubantwana bakho.