Amathiphu Abafelokazi Abasha Abakhulisa Izingane

Uma uzithola ukhulisa izingane kuphela uma ulahlekelwa ngumlingani wakho, kubalulekile ukuzinakekela ngenkathi ngesikhathi esifanayo uqondisa izingane zakho ngosizi lwabo. Lokhu okulandelayo nokungenzi lutho kungasiza.

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Sondeza Izingane Zakho Nabantu Abadala Abathandekayo

Njengomzali osaphila, ungumuntu omdala ebaluleke kakhulu empilweni yengane yakho okwamanje. Kodwa kukhona abanye abazimisele ukukusiza ukuthi usekele futhi ukhuthaze izingane zakho ngalesi sikhathi esinzima, futhi okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo okuthandekayo nomthandi wakho kuzosiza izingane zakho ukubona isithombe esiphezulu, esiphezulu kakhulu somuntu owayeyiyo.

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Dala isakhiwo

Isakhiwo singaba umthombo omkhulu wokududuza izingane. Yenza konke okusemandleni akho ukuzinzisa imizila yakho, kuhlanganise nezingane zakho zokuhlala ngesikhathi sokulala ebusuku, ukuze babe nomqondo ojwayelekile walokho okumele ulindele kusuka komunye umzuzu kuya kwesinye. Ukufana okulula okufana nokudla ukudla ngesikhathi esifanayo usuku ngalunye kungasiza futhi ukwakha umoya ozinzile ngisho nalapho imizwa yakho ihlala ingxube.

Okuningi

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Yehlisa kancane ijubane

Ungase ulingeke ukuba uzilahle wena kanye nezingane zakho emuva "esimisweni sakho esivamile," wenze izinto ezinjengokubuyela emsebenzini kanye nesikole ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngezinga elithile, lokhu kuyasiza. Kodwa-ke, uzophinde uthande ukuthatha izinto kancane futhi unike izingane zakho inkululeko yokuphuma ezibophweni zomphakathi noma imisebenzi lapho zidinga isikhala.

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Nika izingane zakho izinqumo

Okuningi okwenzekile kakade bekuphethwe ukulawulwa kwezingane zakho, ngakho qiniseka ukuthi ubavumela ukuba benze izinqumo zabo uma kungenzeka. Lokhu kungafaka izinqumo ezilula ukuthi zigqoke nokuthi zenzani ngesikhathi sabo sokuphumula, ngaphakathi kwesizathu.

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Cela lokho okudingayo

Abafelokazi abaningi abasha bahlushwa ukuthululwa kothando nokusekelwa, okungaveza ngezindlela zokudla okungaphezulu kuka-casserole kunokuba wena nabantwana bakho ningadla. Ungesabi ukuvumela abangane nabomndeni bakho ukuba bazi ukuthi kukhona okunye okudingayo, noma uma ungathanda ukuba basakaze ukuphana kwabo esikhathini esingamaviki noma izinyanga. Isibonelo, ungase uthi, "Ngiyazisa wonke usizo lwakho. Kodwa, lokho engikudingayo manje, okungaphezu kokudla, kungokomuntu othatha uJohnny ukuya ku-baseball ngoLwesine." Akukho lutho olungalungile ngokucacile ngezidingo zakho.

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Ukukhulumisana Ukulinganiselwa Kwakho

Ungathola ukuthi ufinyelela iphuzu lapho udinga khona wonke umuntu ukuba abuyele futhi akunike isikhala. Lokhu kuyimvelo, futhi kuhle ukutshela abangane nabomndeni bakho ukuthi uzizwa kanjani. Isibonelo, ungathi, "Ngiyazisa izingcingo zakho, kodwa angizizwa ngithanda ukukhuluma okwamanje. Ungabe uzama ukuzama futhi ngesonto noma kunjalo?" Bazise ukuthi awufuni ukuba babuyele unomphela, futhi uyawubona umzamo.

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Funa Ukusekelwa Okungeziwe

Cabanga ukukhuluma nomeluleki noma ukuya eqenjini elilodwa lokusekela abazali abafelokazi abasha ngokusebenzisa esibhedlela sendawo noma isikhungo somphakathi. Ngezinye izikhathi nje nje ukukhuluma nomuntu ongakwazi ukuthi ukhululekile, ngoba kukuvumela ukuba ukhulume ngokukhululekile ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ukuthi ukwethembeka kuzokwenza abanye bakhathazeke ngawe ngisho nangaphezulu.

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Zinike Inkululeko Yokwenza Amaphutha

Awumzali ophelele. Sonke senza amaphutha. Ngakho-ke, vumela ukuthi ungene ngemvume kusukela ekuqaleni bese uyavuma ukuthi awuyikuthola konke okulungile, kodwa uzothola kangcono ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ekusingatheni zonke izinto manje eziwumthwalo wakho wemfanelo.

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Yeka Ukwenza Noma Iziphi Izinqumo Ezinkulu

Kungenzeka ucabanga ngokuthengisa indlu yakho, ukuhamba eduze namalungu omndeni, noma ukubuyela esikoleni. Nakuba izinto ozicabangayo okwamanje zingase zibe yisinqumo esihle kunazo zonke wena nabantwana bakho, kufanele ugweme ukwenza izinqumo ezinkulu ezinyangeni eziyisithupha kuya kweziyishumi nambili. Zinike isikhathi sokulungisa ukulahlekelwa kwakho futhi uqiniseke ukuthi izinguquko ozibonayo, empeleni, zibonisa izinqumo ofuna ukuzenza.

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Ungadluliseli Isihlungu Sakho

Ekugcineni, abafelokazi abaningi abasha bawela emgibeni wokugwema imizwa yabo. Ukuhlala usizi lwakho kungenye yezinto ezimbi kakhulu ongakwenza manje. Usizi luyinkqubo okumele uyenze. Futhi ngenkathi kunamaphethini - njengezigaba zokuphika, intukuthelo, ukuxoxisana, ukucindezeleka, nokwamukelwa - usizi luyaziwa ukuthi alukwazi ukubikezelwa. Ukuzama ukulawula inqubo kuzokwenza kancane kancane ukuqhubekela phambili kwakho nokuphanga izingane zakho ithuba lokuba ubone ukuthi lokho abakutholayo akuyona into engavamile noma engenakunqotshwa.