Kunezinhlobo ezahlukene zezindlela ongakhetha kuzo
Ingane yakho inesidingo esikhethekile, okusho ukuthi (ezimweni eziningi) ukuthi igumbi lokufundela ejwayelekile esikoleni esidlangalaleni cishe akunakwenzeka ukuba kube yisilungiselelo esihle. Kodwa yiziphi ezinye izinketho? Ngenhlanhla, ngokuya kwamandla akho nezinselele ezithile zomntwana wakho, kunamathuba ambalwa kakhulu. Funda mayelana nezinzuzo nezingozi zomuntu ngamunye.
Izikole zomphakathi
Izikole zomphakathi zingaba umdlalo omuhle wengane yakho uma:
- Izikole zakho zixhaswe ngemali ukuze kuqeqeshwe othisha, abasizo, abahlinzeki, ochwepheshe kanye nezinhlelo zokusekela.
- Izidingo ezithile zomntanakho zihambisana kahle emandleni esikoleni: izikole eziningi zingahlinzeka abafundi abanezinselele ezivamile, kodwa izidingo ezingavamile noma amakhono angase abe inselele kakhulu.
- Ingane yakho ikhululekile esikoleni sabo esidlangalaleni futhi ayinzima nezinkinga ezifana nokuxhashazwa noma ukwehlukaniswa.
Izinzuzo:
- Isikole somphakathi sikhululekile!
- Izikole zomphakathi zidinga umthetho ukufundisa ingane yakho, ukuhlinzeka ngezesekelo ezifanele, futhi ukhokhele izinsizakalo eziningi kanye nemithi yokwelapha.
- Izikole zomphakathi zihlezi ngasendlini yakho, okusho ukuthi ingane yakho izokwazi abantu bendawo futhi uzokwazi ukuzibandakanya nemfundo yakhe.
- Ingane yakho izothola ithuba lokufakwa ezinhlobonhlobo zemisebenzi esikoleni nasesikoleni .
Umthengi:
- Izikole zomphakathi zihlala zikhokhelwa imali futhi zigcwala kalula izidingo zabafundi abakhethekile.
- Izikole zomphakathi zingase zingabi nobuchwepheshe noma ziguquguquke ukusiza ingane yakho uma inamakhono noma izinselelo ezingangeneli ezinhlelweni ezikhona (yebo, kufanele zenze uhlelo oluzungezile ingane yakho, kodwa akunakwenzeka ngaso sonke isikhathi).
- Izikole zomphakathi zingaba izindawo ezinkulu futhi eziyinkimbinkimbi lapho ukuhlukumezeka, ukuhlukanisa, kanye nezinye izinto kungaba nzima ukuphatha.
IziKharityhulam neziKhisimusi
Izikolo nezivumelwano zamagnet nazo zixhaswa esidlangalaleni, okusho ukuthi nazo zikhululekile futhi nazo zidinga umthetho ukusiza izidingo zomntanakho. Kwezinye izimo, zincane kakhulu kunezikole zomphakathi ezijwayelekile, futhi zingase zilungele ingane yakho kangcono. Isibonelo, ezinye izikole zemikhakha kanye namagnet zinikela ngezandla eziningi, imodeli yokufundisa imfundo-service okungaba kuhle kwengane enobugebengu noma ngisho ne-autism.
Izinzuzo:
- Izikole nezincwadi zamagnet zinikeza imfundo ekhululekile futhi efanelekayo njengesikole sakho sendawo yomphakathi.
- Izikole nezimakethe zingadlala emandleni akho kanye nesitayela sokufunda ngendlela ejwayelekile yesikole sikawonkewonke.
- Izikole ezincane zivame ukulingana kangcono nabafundi abadinga izidingo ezikhethekile.
Umthengi:
- Izikole nezimakethe zivame ukude kakhulu ukusuka ekhaya lakho.
- Bangase babe nenqubo encane yokuguquguquka kanye nezinsiza ezimbalwa kunesikole sakho sendawo esesidlangalaleni.
- Ungase uthole kunzima ukusebenza nesikole ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi ingane yakho ithola ukusekelwa akudingayo.
Waldorf, Montessori, nezinye Izikole Ezizimele Ezizimele
UWaldorf noMontessori babe namaqhinga okufundisa ahluke kakhulu nalawo asetshenziswa ezikoleni zomphakathi ezijwayelekile, kodwa okusebenza kahle kubafundi abaningi.
Esikhundleni sokusebenzisa amagama njengethuluzi lokufundisa eliyisisekelo, basebenzisa izinhlobo ezithile zokuhlangenwe nakho okuvumela abafundi ukuba bafunde ngokubonakalayo nangokwenyama. Kubafundi abambalwa abanezidingo ezikhethekile zezidingo, lezi zinhlobo zezikole zingaba i-godsend.
Nokho, kunezigaba ezimbalwa. Okokuqala, izikole zaseWaldorf naseMontessori zenzelwe izingane ezijwayelekile noma ezingaphezu kwe-IQ ezijwayelekile ezikwazi ukuphatha ngendlela encane kodwa emphakathini. Okwesibili, lezi zikole azidingeki ukuthi zinikeze ingane yakho uhlobo lokusekela noma ukwelapha.
Izinzuzo:
- Uma izidingo zezingane zakho namakhono amenza abe nomdlalo omuhle esikoleni saseWaldorf noma seMontessori, amathuba okuthola noma omunye ngaphakathi kwebanga lokushayela elifanele.
- Ingane yakho izothola imfundo yekhwalithi esimweni esincanyana ngenkathi ihlanganiswa neontanga ezivamile.
- Uma ingane yakho ikhula, amathuba okuthola ukuthi uzothola abangane neqembu elihle lezenhlalakahle.
Umthengi:
- Akunakwenzeka neze ukuthi uzokwazi ukuthola izimali zesikole esizimele esenzelwe umphakathi jikelele, nakuba ungase ufanelekele ukuthola imali.
- Uma ingane yakho idinga ukwesekwa okungaphezulu kunalokho itholakala esikoleni, kunethuba elihle ukuthi isikole sizomcela ukuba ashiye.
- Ungathola ukuthi izinselele zomntanakho zenza kube nzima kakhulu ukuhambisana nekharikhulamu.
Homeschool
Izindlu zasemakhaya zithandwa kakhulu, ikakhulukazi emindeni yezingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile. Homeschool ikunika ukulawula okuphelele nokuguquguquka, okwenza kube lula ukudala uhlelo oluhle lokufundisa kanye nokulungiselelwa kwengane yakho. Ngezinye izikhathi isifunda sakho sizokusiza ngokwezimali, unikeze amathuluzi wokufunda asekelwe kukhompyutha, noma uthumele abafundisi. Ungase ukwazi futhi ukungena ezinhlelweni zomphakathi ezisemuva, izinhlelo zomphakathi zasemakhaya, nokuhlaselwa kwezinye izinsiza zendawo.
Izinzuzo:
- Ulawula isipiliyoni semfundo yengane yakho kanye nemvelo futhi ungayilungisa ukuze ibe yinto ephelele.
- Kungenzeka ukuba ugweme ngokuphelele izinkinga zemigwaqo yemfundo, ukuxhaphazwa, ukukhathazeka kokuhlolwa, nezinye izinkinga zesikole.
- Unethuba elikhulu lokusiza ingane yakho ukwakha amakhono ngokugxila ezindaweni ezidingayo nokwakhiwa kwamandla.
Umthengi:
- Uma usebenza isikhathi esiphelele, kungenzeka ukuthi akunakwenzeka ekhaya.
- Abazali abaningi bathola izindlu zezikole ukuba zibe nzima futhi zikhuni, ikakhulukazi uma izidingo ezikhethekile zengane zabo zifaka izinselelo ezibalulekile ezingokomzwelo, ezingqondweni noma ezingqondweni.
- Izindlu zasemakhaya zingahle zihlukanise, futhi ukuthola amaqembu asemakhaya asemakhaya kungaba nzima (ikakhulukazi ezindaweni zasemaphandleni).
Izidingo 'Ezizidingo Ezikhethekile'
Njengoba inani lezingane ezinesidingo "esikhethekile" selukhulile, kunjalo futhi nezikole ezizimele ezitholela izingane ezinjalo. Ngokuvamile, lezi zikole ziyabiza kakhulu, kodwa uma ungabonisa ukuthi isifunda sakho sesikole somphakathi asikwazi ukuhlinzeka ngemfundo ekhululekile futhi efanelekayo kungase ibophe ukukhokha izindleko zesimiso sokuzimela. Lokhu kunjalo kuphela, noma kunjalo, uma okukhethekile kudinga isikole kuvunyelwe (okusho ukuthi izikole ezincane zokuqala ngeke zikhethe).
Ngokujwayelekile "izidingo ezikhethekile" izikole zivame ukuhlunga konke okubulalayo kumawebhusayithi abo (konke okuvela ku-dyslexia kuya ku-autism kuya ezinselele ezinengqondo, isibonelo). Kodwa ngenxa yokuthi izikole ziyimfihlo, zinendlela yokukhetha abafundi abazizwa bengakwazi ukukhonza. Ngakho-ke, ngisho noma ngabe ingane yakho ibonakala ifanelana nalezi zindlela, isikole singakunqanda ngoba izimpawu zakhe zihlukile noma zinzima kakhulu kunezifundo zabo ezinhle.
Izinzuzo:
- Bonke abasebenzi abadinga izikole ezikhethekile bazilungele, bazimisele, futhi bakwazi ukusebenza nezingane ezifana neyakho.
- Izidingo ezikhethekile izikole zenzelwe ukuhlinzeka izinhlelo ezifana nokuqeqeshwa kwamakhono ezenhlalakahle, ukufunda ukulungisa, njll, ngakho akudingeki ukuba ucele ukuthi lezi zinhlelo zenzelwe ingane yakho.
- Ngenxa yokuthi zonke izingane zinesidingo esikhethekile, kunethuba elingcono lokuthi ingane yakho izamukeleke emphakathini.
Umthengi:
- Uma ukhokha izidingo ezikhethekile esikoleni esizimele, uzobe ukhokha okuningi.
- Umthetho awudingi izikole ezizimele ukulandela yonke imithetho efanayo kanye nezinqubo ezidingekayo ezikoleni zomphakathi.
- Ngenxa yokuthi bangaphandle komphakathi wangakini futhi imindeni ingahlala kude kakhulu, kungaba nzima ukwazi umphakathi noma abangane bakho, othisha, kanye nabahlengikazi.
Izidingo Ezikhethekile Eziqondene Nezimo-Isimo
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane yakho ine-autism, i-ADHD, i-OCD, "izinselele zokufunda ezisekelwe enkulumweni," ukukhathazeka, ukukhubazeka kwengqondo, noma izinkinga zempilo yengqondo, cishe kukhona isikole esikhishwe ngokukhethekile ekuhloleni kwakhe. Lokhu kusho ukuthi endaweni ethile e-United States (futhi mhlawumbe endaweni yakho yedolobha) kukhona "indawo ephelele" yokufunda yengane yakho.
Igama elithi "ephelele" lingama-quotations mark, noma kunjalo, ngoba zonke izingane zihlukile futhi kunjalo nazo zonke izikole. Uma ingane yakho isebenza kahle nge-autism, isibonelo, isikole sabantwana abane-autism esinzima siyoba yinhlekelele. Uma ingane yakho ine-ADHD kanye nezinye izinkinga zempilo yengqondo, kungase kudingeke ubheke ngokucophelela ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi umzimba we-student of school ADHD unenkinga efanayo.
Izinzuzo:
- Njengasesikolweni esikhethekile, othisha nabahlengikazi baqeqeshwe kakhulu, kodwa esikoleni esikhethekile bangase babe ne "ibhokisi lamathuluzi" elikhulu lokufundisa ongakhetha kukho nengane yakho.
- Ingane yakho kungenzeka ihlangabezane nezingane zinezintshisekelo ezifanayo, amandla, nezinselelo, okungaba yindlela enhle kakhulu yokuthola abangane abanomqondo ofanayo.
- Wena, njengomzali, uzobe nenselelo encane ekuchazeni izindaba ezithile zomntanakho noma ukuthola othisha nabasebenzi ukuthi "yebo" ekuthatheni kahle izindlela zokwelashwa noma amasu okufundisa.
Umthengi:
- Izidingo ezikhethekile eziqondene nesimo somzimba ezikoleni azifani; ngenxa yalokho, ingane yakho ingase idingeke ibheke ibanga elide noma ibuye ibe umfundi webhodi kwenye indawo.
- Ingane yakho izodalulwa KUPHELA kubantwana abane-diagnostic ethile, okusho ukuthi uzobe ehlukanisiwe kakhulu nomphakathi jikelele (lokhu kuyiqiniso ngezinga elithile ngisho noma isikole sifisa ukuthatha ingane yakho "ekuphumeni" emphakathini).
- Kungenzeka ukuthi unqanyuliwe kakhulu kumntanakho uma engekho eduze.
Izikole Ezidingekayo Ezikhethekile Eziphathelene Nezokwelapha
Ukumba ngisho nakakhulu ezikoleni ezikhethekile, kungenzeka ukuthola izikole ezizimele ezakhiwe ngamafilosofi ahlukahlukene. Esimweni se-autism, isibonelo, ungathola izikole ze-ABA, izikole ze-SCERTS, izikole ze-Floortime, izikole ze-RDI, njalonjalo. Uma ungummeli wendlela ethile yokwelapha noma yefilosofi emfundweni ekhethekile yezidingo, lolu hlobo lwesikole lungase lufanelekele wena nomntanakho.
Izinzuzo:
- Uma usuvele wazi ukuthi ingane yakho ihamba phambili ngendlela ethile yokwelapha noma yefilosofi, uthola ukuhlelwa kwesikole esihle.
- Cishe zonke izikole ezithinta ukwelashwa ziyingcosana, okusho ukuthi ingane yakho izothola ukwesekwa komuntu siqu.
- Ngenxa yokuthi usuvele uqonde futhi uthande indlela yesikole, kunethuba elihle lokuthi uzozizwa ukhululekile nabafundisi nabasebenzi.
Umthengi:
- Kungenakwenzeka ukuthola imali yesikole esikhethekile, ngakho-ke uzokhokha ephaketheni.
- Izikole ezincane kakhulu zinabasebenzi abancane futhi azikwazi ukuhlinzeka ngezinhlelo eziningi ezifana nobuciko, ukuvocavoca, umculo, noma imidlalo.
- Akungabazeki ukuthi isikole esithile esizokwelapha sizobe siseduze nekona ukusuka ekhaya lakho noma ukwazi ukufika ebhodini lakho lomntwana. Ngenxa yalokho, kungase kudingeke ukuthi uhambise ukuhlala kwakho noma wenze okuningi kokushayela.
Izwi elivela ku-Verywell
Ngaphambi kokunquma ukuthi ingane yakho idinga isikole esingesona esidlangalaleni, qiniseka ukuthi uhlolisisile wonke ama-nooks kanye namagrannies wesifunda sakho sendawo. Ngenkathi ungahle unikezwe zonke izinsizakalo ozizwa uzidingayo, kunethuba lokuthi lezo zinsizakalo ziyatholakala. Ngokuvamile, izikhulu zesikoleni somphakathi zizokunika lokho okucelayo, kodwa ngeke ziphume endleleni yazo ukuze zisho ezinye izinketho. Yingakho isikole somphakathi kufanele sibe yisinqumo sakho sokuqala:
- Imali: Isikole sikawonkewonke sikhululekile.
- Izinsiza: Izikole zomphakathi zidingwa ngumthetho ukuhlinzeka othisha, izinsiza, kanye nokwelapha ingane yakho kudinga ukuqhubekela phambili emfundweni nasekukhuleni kwayo. Izikole ezizimele azikho. Futhi, ngenxa yokuthi incane kakhulu, izikole ezizimele azikwazi ukuzwakala izindleko zokuthi, uthini, umqondisi we-chorus noma uchwepheshe wokuhlanganiswa kwezinzwa.
- Ukufakwa : Lokhu kuyigugu. Uma ingane yakho ishiya isikole esidlangalaleni, akunakwenzeka ukuthi uzokwazi noma ubani emphakathini wakubo ngaphandle kwakho. Uma isikole esikhethekile kuphela, sincane amathuba ukuthi uzokwazi noma aziwa ngabomakhelwane, abangani bendawo, oontanga, abalobi bezincwadi, abaqondisi, noma abanye abantu kanye namaqembu akha umhlaba ahlala kuwo.