Amaphuzu okukhuluma nabasha
Kungakhungathekisa uma usola ukuthi ingane yakho ayihambisani nemfundo yakhe. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi akhathazeki ukutadisha noma angakhathalela kancane ngemisebenzi yasekhaya, ukukhululeka kakhulu ngamabanga akhe kungaba inkinga.
Uma ukhuluma nengane yakho ngamabanga , kungase kube nzima ukuxoxa ngezingozi zenkinga yokufunda. Kodwa ukwesaba amaqhinga afana, "Ngeke ufike ekolishi," noma "Ngeke uthole umsebenzi omuhle," angeke aphumelele.
Khuluma ngezinzuzo zokuthola amamaki amahle kunalokho. Nikeza izibonelo zangempela zokuphila ezizogqugquzela ingane yakho ukuba ifunde ngokukhudlwana namhlanje. Nazi izinzuzo ezinhlanu ongazisebenzisa ukuze ugxume ingxoxo yakho nengane yakho:
1. Amabanga amahle angaholela ekufundiseni okuningi
AmaKholeji kanye namakomidi okufundela kuzobukeza okubhalwe kwentsha yakho . Amamaki angcono, izikolo eziphakeme zokuhlolwa, nokubandakanyeka kwimisebenzi ehlukahlukene kungasiza ingane yakho ukuba ithole imali eyengeziwe ekolishi.
Khuluma nengane yakho mayelana nezinto zangempela zokubolekwa kwabafundi. Xoxa ukuthi izifundo zezemfundo zingasiza kanjani ukumboza izindleko. Xoxa ukuthi isikweletu somfundi singathinta kanjani ikusasa lakho lentsha, kuze kube yi-30s.
Ngeshwa, abafundi abaningi basekolishi abakwazi ukwamukela imisebenzi yabo yephupho ngoba abakwazi ukukwazi ukwenza kanjalo. Esikhundleni salokho, kufanele bathathe imisebenzi ezobasiza ukuba bakwazi ukukhokhela izikweletu zabo zekholeji ngenyanga.
2. Amabanga amaBanga amahle abe ngamathuba okuzijabulisa
Abafundi abathola amamaki amahle banikezwa amathuba esikoleni esiphakeme ngokusebenzisa izinhlelo ezifana neNational Honor Society.
Khuluma ngemicimbi ehlukahlukene umfundi wakho angakwazi ukuzibandakanya uma ethola amamaki amahle.
Umeluleki wesiqondiso sakho esikoleni angakwazi ukunikeza ingane yakho ulwazi ngokuphumelela kwezemfundo kanye namathuba athola amamaki amahle. Ngezinye izikhathi, ukuzwa komunye umuntu ngaphandle kwakho kungasiza ukuqinisa umlayezo wakho.
Ngakho-ke ungesabi ukukhuthaza ingane yakho ukuba iqale ingxoxo nomeluleki wokuqondisa.
3. AmaBanga angcono avule uMnyango Wamathuba Akusasa
Uma ingane yakho izama ukwenza okuhle kunoma yini ebekiwe phambi kwayo, uzoba namathuba amaningi emisebenzi. Noma kunjalo, intsha eningi ayiboni isidingo sokwenza kahle esikoleni.
Ngezinye izikhathi bathi izinto ezinjengalezi, "Ngizohamba ngithengise. Ngeke ngidinga i-geometry," noma "Ngiya empini. Abangakhathaleli ngamamaki ami."
Yenza kucace ukuthi ngisho noma lezo zinto ziyiqiniso, kungase kube nezikhathi lapho amamaki akho asetsheni abalulekile. Angase afune ukuya esikolishi ngelinye ilanga noma angafaka isicelo somsebenzi lapho okubhalwa khona kuzobuyekezwa khona. Chaza ukuthi kubalulekile ukugcina amathuba amaningi evulekile ngangokunokwenzeka njengoba angashintsha ingqondo yakhe ngolunye usuku.
4. I-GPA Ephakeme Ingase Iholele Ekuphileni Okungcono Komphakathi
Abafundi abanakekela ngamabanga abo bazohlonishwa othisha babo kanye neontanga zabo. Noma kunjalo, intsha eningi ikhathazeka ngokuthi amamaki amahle ayobangela ukuba babhekwe njengelungu elithi "nerd."
Xoxa nomntanakho ngabantu abaphumelelayo abaphume kahle esikoleni esikoleni esiphakeme. Yenza kucace ukuthi abantu abanamabanga amasha njengamasha ngokuvamile bayaqhubeka benza izinto ezinhle esikhathini esizayo.
Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi ichithe isikhathi nabangani abakhathalelayo ngamabanga abo.
Abangane abakhathalelayo ngamabanga abo cishe bachitha isikhathi esiningi befunda futhi beya esikoleni futhi bazokhuthaza ingane yakho ukuba yenza okufanayo. Kuzoba nzima kumntanakho ukuthi ahlale emgwaqeni uma engekho umngane wakhe enza umsebenzi wesikole.
5. Amabanga Ahle Angakhuthaza Ukuthembela Kwengane Yakho
Ngezinye izikhathi, intsha iyesaba ukuzama kanzima ngoba isaba ukwehluleka. Qinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho izimisele ukuyibeka ngekhono layo lemfundo. Uma engcono, uzokuzethemba ngokwengeziwe .
Lapho ingane yakho ibona ukuthi umzamo wakhe uholela emabangeni angcono, uzoshukumiseleka kakhulu ukuqhubeka nomsebenzi omuhle. Kungamlungiselela futhi imithwalo yemfanelo yokudala.
Izwi elivela ku-Verywell
Ekugcineni, awukwazi ukuphoqa ingane yakho ukuba ibe namamaki angcono. Kodwa-ke, ungabeka imithetho mayelana nomsebenzi wesikole, udale imiphumela yomsebenzi wephuzile futhi unikeze imivuzo engamkhuthaza ukuba azame kanzima. Ekugcineni, kungcono kumntanakho ukuba anqume ukuthi amamaki abaluleke kangakanani kuye.