Abazali abafuna ukuthola ukunakekelwa okuphelele kwengane ngesikhathi sokulwa kufanele bahlelelwe lokho okungase kube yinto eyinselele. Ukugcinwa ngokugcwele kuhlukile ekugcinweni okuhlanganyelwe ukuthi isibonelelo esigcwele sokugcinwa kwezibonelelo sokwazisa umzali oyedwa ngokomthetho nangokomzimba ngokumelene nabazali bobabili.
Ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isinqumo sokuphishekela ukugcinwa okugcwele, kufanele uqonde izisusa zakho.
Ingabe ufuna ukugcinwa ngokugcwele ukuze ujezise i-ex yakho, noma ingabe ucabanga ngempela ukuthi umngane wakho wangaphambili angakufanelekeli ukuhlanganyela ingane yakho? Izinkantolo zomndeni kulo lonke izwe ziyavuma ukuthi ukugcinwa okuhlanganyelwe kuyilungiselelo elihle lomntwana. Leli lungiselelo lenza ingane ibone njalo bobabili abazali.
Ngaphandle kokuthi u-ex ubeka ingane yakho ingozi enkulu futhi unomlando obonisa iphethini lokuziphatha okungaphephile, kufanele ubuze umgomo wakho ukunqoba ukugcinwa okuphelele. Ngenkathi i-ex yakho ingase ikwenze kabi, ukunqoba okuphelele ukugwema ukuxhumana nomuntu oshade naye futhi akusona isizathu sokugcina ngokugcwele.
Ukuthola Imfanelo Egcwele
Ukugcinwa okuphelele kubhekiselwa nangokuthi uyedwa kuphela. Ekulungiselelweni okuphelele, umzali oyedwa ungumzali wokulondeka, kanti omunye umzali ngokuvamile unikezwa amalungelo okuvakasha ngokukhululekile njengoba kunqunywe yinkantolo. Inkantolo izovame ukuvumelanisa ukunikeza amalungelo okuvakashelwa komzali ongabambeleli ngaphandle uma ukuvakashelwa kungakusizi kahle ingane.
Izinto ezicatshangelwe ekunakekelweni okugcwele
Abazali abafuna ukunqoba ngokugcwele kufanele bacabangele izici ezilandelayo ezingase zibekwe enkantolo enkantolo:
- Isinqumo seNkantolo - Ijaji linganquma ukuqina komzali ukugcinwa ngokugcwele, ngokwengxenye, ngesisekelo sombono womzali enkantolo. Isibonelo, uma umzali efuna ukunqoba ukugcinwa okuphelele, kufanele agweme ukuphazamiseka futhi azame ukugcina ukuqina kwakhe futhi agweme ukuthukuthela okuthukuthele.
- Ukugqoka ijaji - Ngesikhathi sokulwa, inkantolo ingabheka indlela yokugqoka yomzali njengesici ekunqumeni ukuthi umzali uzobe egciniwe yini. Abazali kufanele bagqoke izikhwama ezimnyama futhi bagweme izingubo ezingavamile.
- Izithakazelo ezingcono kakhulu kwengane - Lokhu cishe kuyisici esibaluleke kakhulu inkantolo ezoyicabangela. Inkantolo yomndeni ivame ukukhetha ukuthi kungcono ukuthi abazali bahlanganyele ukugcinwa kwengane. Umzali ofuna ukuthola ukunakekelwa okugcwele kufanele alungele ukuchaza izizathu ezicacile zokuthi kungani ukugcinwa okuhlanganyelwe kungayikusiza kakhulu ingane. Isibonelo sesizathu ongase unikezwe sona kuphela uma i-ex yakho inenkinga yokusebenzisa kabi izidakamizwa noma umlando wokushiya ingane ekhaya.
- Ukulungiselela - Ijaji lizocabangela izinga lokulungiswa komzali ofuna ukuzuza ukunakekelwa okugcwele. Ukulungiselela kufaka phakathi izici ezifana nokuthi umzali unommeli noma ngabe ungumzali unezinkomba zokukhonta ukusekela isikhundla sakhe sokugcinwa ngokugcwele.
Ukufaka phezulu
Kungenzeka ukuthi akufanelekile ukuba inkantolo inqume ukugcinwa ngokugcwele ngokusekelwe kulokho okushiwo ngenhla. Kodwa njengoba kuncane ongakwenza ukuze ushintshe le mihlahlandlela, kufanele ulandele ngokufanele ukuze uthole ukudubula okusemandleni akho ekunakekeleni ingane yakho kuphela.
Ukuze uthole ulwazi oluthe xaxa mayelana nendlela yokuwina ngokugcwele, khuluma nommeli ofanelekayo esifundazweni sakho.