Ukukhathazeka ngokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa noma utshwala owawungumngane wakho ngaphambili kubantwana bakho? Ukusebenzisa kabi izidakamizwa kuyinkinga yangempela abantu abaningi abadala ababhekana nayo. Kodwa lapho, izinkantolo zithinteka kahle, futhi yini ongayenza njengomzali okhathazekile ukuvikela izingane zakho ngenkathi ehambisana nokuvakashelwa kwenkantolo kanye nesimiso sokugcina ingane?
Uma izinkantolo zivame ukubandakanya
Izinkantolo ngokuvamile zithinta ukuxhashazwa kwezidakamizwa zomzali noma ngesikhathi sokulalelwa kwengane noma lapho izikhalazo mayelana nokuphathwa kabi kwezidakamizwa-kanye nomthelela wazo ezinganeni-zibikwa enkantolo eyakhishwe ukugcinwa kwezingane noma i-state (ngokusebenzisa uMnyango Izinsizakalo Zokuvikela Ingane).
Indlela Izinkantolo Eziphendula Ngayo Ukuhlukunyezwa Komzali
Izinkantolo zithatha isinyathelo lapho ukusetshenziswa kabi kwezidakamizwa-ngendlela yokuphuza utshwala kanye / noma izidakamizwa noma izidakamizwa ezingekho emthethweni-empeleni kungavimbela ikhono lomzali lokunakekela izingane zakhe noma umzali ubangele inhlalakahle yabantwana. Uma le nkinga iphakanyiswa ngesikhathi sokulalela ingane, ijaji lizophenya ngalolu daba ukucacisa ukuthi lezi zinsolo ziyiqiniso yini, futhi uma kunjalo, ngabe ukusetshenziswa kotshwala komzali noma ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa kuthinta ikhono lakhe lokunakekela izingane ngendlela efanele. Kuwo wonke ama-50 athi, isithakazelo esihle kakhulu esimisweni somntwana sisetshenziselwa ukunquma ukugcinwa kwengane. Lesi simiso sithatha ukufaneleka komzali ngamunye-kuhlanganise nokuphuza utshwala kanye / noma ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa-ku-akhawunti. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma kunomlando oqoshiwe wokusetshenziswa kabi kwezidakamizwa, ijaji lingacabangela izenzo zomzali phakathi naleso sikhathi, futhi ngaphambi kokuba kwenziwe isinqumo sokugcina.
Kodwa ake sithi ukugcinwa kwesitokwe sekuvele kunqunywe. Pho, izinkantolo zingasabela kanjani izikhalazo mayelana nokusetshenziswa kabi kwezidakamizwa? Uma izinkantolo ziqaphela ukuthi izikhalazo zivumelekile, ijaji lingavimbela ukuxhumana komzali nezingane ngokushintsha ukuvakashelwa kanye / noma ukugcinwa kwesigceme.
Ezimweni ezithile, ijaji lingalawula nokuthi ukuvakashelwa komzali okungabheki kuyabhekwa ukuqinisekisa ukuthi umzali uvakashela ingane ngendlela ephephile nelawulwayo. Ngezinye izikhathi, isisebenzi sezenhlalakahle esikhethwe yinkantolo noma ilungu lomndeni libheke lezi zinhlobo zeseshini. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ijaji lingadinga ukuthi ukuvakashelwa kugcine kubhekwe kuze kube yilapho umzali engabonisa ukuthi kube khona ushintsho ezimweni noma umzali uthatha isinyathelo ekululekisweni kokusebenzisa kabi izidakamizwa noma ohlelweni lokuvuselela.
Indlela Yokusingatha Ukukhathazeka Ngokuphathelene Nokuhlukunyezwa Kwakho Kokuthi Ungumngani Wakho Womshado
Uma ukhathazekile ngokusetshenziswa kotshwala noma ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa wangaphambili, ungaphakamisa le nkinga enkantolo futhi uthathe izinyathelo zokubhala noma yiziphi izigameko ezixhasa ukukhathazeka kwakho. Lokhu kungabandakanya imibiko yamaphoyisa, amacala we-DUI, noma ubufakazi obufanayo. Kubalulekile ukuthi ube nerekhodi hhayi kuphela kokusetshenziswa kwemithi yomunye umzali kodwa amadokhumenti akhombisa ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kwempahla kwenza umzali angafaneleki. Uma ukhathazekile ngokuphepha kwengane yakho, ungase ufune ukufaka i-oda lokuvimbela noma wenqabe ukuvakasha komunye umzali. Ukwesaba ukulimaza ingane yakho kuyisizathu esizwakalayo sokwenqaba ukuvakashelwa futhi kuzobonisa imbangela yakho esemthethweni yokukhathalela ijaji.