Ezinye izingane zilala cishe ngaphambi kokuba uphume, kodwa abanye ngeke bachithe imizuzu emihlanu ejabulisayo ezihlalo zabo zemoto. Ngokuvamile, lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ingane yakho isetshenziselwa inkululeko eyengeziwe yokunyakaza nokunakwa okungokwenyama okungaphezu kwalokho ongayinikeza lapho eboshiwe esihlalweni sakhe.
Ngisho noma kunzima ukubhekana nayo, khumbula ukuthi wena nokuphepha kwengane yakho kubaluleke kakhulu.
Ngezinye izikhathi abazali bathatha umntwana okhalayo esihlalweni semoto , okuyingozi kakhulu futhi kwenza kube nzima nakakhulu ukuba ingane ijwayele ukugibela esihlalweni semoto. Abanye abazali benza izinqumo ezimbi zokushayela lapho izingane zabo zikhala, okubeka wonke umuntu emotweni engozini. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi udonsa futhi ulalise ingane yakho phansi, noma gxila ekushayeleni kwakho. Ungazami ukwenza kokubili.
Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi imibono embalwa emisha kanye nesikhathi esincane nokuvuthwa kuzosiza ingane yakho ibe yisihambi esijabulisayo.
Uhambo lokuya enkundleni yemoto injabulo
Noma yimaphi (noma ngaphezulu) amasu alandelayo angasiza ekuxazululeni inkinga yokuhlala emotweni yakho. Uma owokuqala uzama uhluleka, khetha enye, bese omunye; ekugcineni, uzothola isisombululo esifanele ingane yakho.
Qinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho iphilile.
Uma imoto yokuhlala isikhala yinto entsha, futhi ingane yakho ibe yindlala kakhulu ekhaya, futhi, ingane yakho ingaba nokutheleleka indlebe noma ezinye izifo.
Ukuvakashela kudokotela kulungile.
Thatha isihlalo semoto endlini bese uvumele ingane yakho ihlale futhi idlale kuyo.
Uma usujwayele kakhulu endlini, angase ajabule ukuhlala lapho emotweni.
Gcina ibhokisi elikhethekile lamathoyizi emoto ozolisebenzisa kuphela emotweni.
Uma lezi zithakazelisayo ngokwanele, zingamnaka.
Tape noma faka amathoyizi wokubuka.
Ungakwenza lokhu ngemuva kwesihlalo lapho ingane yakho ibhekene nayo noma uchungechunge amathoyizi amancane avela esilingeni usebenzisa i-tape enzima nokufaka izinhlamvu. Beka nje ekufinyeleleni kwengalo ukuze ingane yakho ikwazi ukugijima kubo isihlalo sayo.
Yenza imoto yeselula.
Xhumanisa umugqa omude wezintambo zamantombazane eplastiki kusuka ohlangothini olulodwa lwesango kuya kwesinye. Vula amathoyizi amasha kulayini ohambweni ngalunye.
Hlanganisa i-poster-baby-poster ngemuva kwesihlalo esibhekene nengane yakho.
Lawa ngokuvamile imibala eyinhloko emnyama, emhlophe, ebomvu neyesibindi; abanye banamapokhethi ukuze ukwazi ukushintsha izithombe. (Khumbula ukwenza lokhu, ngoba ukushintsha indawo kuyasiza kakhulu.)
Zama ngezinhlobo ezahlukene zomculo emotweni.
Ezinye izingane zijabulela ama-lullabies noma amathoni omculo okwenziwe ikakhulukazi ezinganeni ezincane; abanye bakumangaza ngokuthulisa phansi ngokushesha lapho udlala enye yezintandokazi zakho. Ezinye izingane zijabulela ukuzwa umama noma ubaba behlabelela, ngaphezu kwanoma yini enye! (Ngesizathu esithile, i-chorus yokuvusa iRudolf i -Red-Nosed Reindeer ibilokhu ikhethwa kahle, ngisho nangenkathi!)
Zama " umsindo omhlophe " emotweni.
Ungathenga ama-CD wemisindo yomsindo otholile noma ungenza ukurekhoda kwe-vacuum cleaner yakho!
Hlanganisa ngokuhamba okufushane, okujabulisayo lapho ingane yakho ihlezi kahle.
Kuyasiza uma othile engase ahlale eduze naye futhi ahlale ejabule.
Okuhlangenwe nakho okuhle okuncane kungasiza ukusetha iphethini entsha.
Zama i-pacifier noma i-toy yokudlala.
Uma ingane yakho inento yokuncelisa noma yokuhlafuna ingase ijabule.
Hlanganisa isibuko.
Ngaleyo ndlela ingane yakho ingakubona (futhi ungabona ingane yakho) ngenkathi ushayela. Izitolo zezingane zinikeza izibuko ezikhethekile ezenziwe ikakhulukazi kule njongo. Uma esesihlalweni sakhe, angase acabange ukuthi awukho, futhi nje ukubona ubuso bakho buzomsiza azizwe engcono.
Faka i-sunshade efasiteleni.
Lokhu kungasiza uma usola ukuthi ukukhanya kwelanga ebusweni bomntanakho kungaba yinkinga.
Zama ukuhlanganisa uhambo.
Ukuhamba ngezinyawo kuyasebenza, ikakhulukazi uma ugwema ukuhlala emotweni isikhathi eside, futhi awunawo amaningi okuphuma nokungena.
Qinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho ayihambanga isihlalo sayo semoto.
Uma imilenze yakhe ivaliwe, noma amabhande akhe aqinile kakhulu, angase athole isihlalo sakhe semoto singakhululekile.
Zama ukuvula iwindi.
Umoya omusha nomoya omuhle kungaba mncintiswano.