Okubalulekile ngabantwana
Ingabe laba bobabili ngempela babesabekayo ngempela? Isiteji esincane esingaba yisilingo kubazali, kodwa futhi sijabulise futhi sinomvuzo-ingane yakho iqhubeka ithuthuka ngokomzwelo, ngokuziqonda, nangomphakathi, okwenza bafune ukwazi futhi bazimisele ukuhlola, futhi, ngezinye izikhathi, banelungelo lokuhlola imingcele.
Isiteji esincane sisho igama elithi "toddling," indlela abantwana abahamba ngayo lapho beqala ukufunda ukuhamba. Ngokuvamile kubhekiselwa kuzo ngokuthi "ama-two awesabekayo." Noma kunjalo, abazali abaningi kanye nezobuchwepheshe empeleni bacabangela isiteji esincane sokuthi sifinyelele cishe kusukela eminyakeni eyodwa kuya kweyithathu-ububanzi obubanzi ngokuphathelene nokuthuthukiswa kwengane.
Ungalindela ukuqhubeka kwengane yakho kusukela ebuntwaneni ngeminyaka encane kuze kube seminyaka yasenkulisa ukufaka okuningi kokuguquka. Futhi, ngenkathi lezi ziqhumane zingase zingabonakali njengoba zikhwela ukuhamba, ingane yakho izobe ishintsha (futhi ihamba) ngesivinini esisheshayo.
Nazi ezinye izinto okufanele uzikhumbule njengoba uzama ukuhambisana nomncane wakho:
Amandla amakhulu okuthuthukiswa
Njengomzali, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi izingane zikhula ngesivinini sabo-asikho isidingo sokuthi sithinte kakhulu eminyakeni ephelele kanye nezigaba.
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Izinyathelo ezincane ezisemncane
Futhi udokotela wakho wezingane uyinsiza enkulu uma unemibuzo ethile mayelana nengane yakho.
Ngenkathi kukhona ububanzi bento ebizwa ngokuthi "evamile" yentuthuko phakathi neminyaka encane, kunezimoto ezivamile, imoto emihle, ulimi, izempilo, nezomzwelo abazali abangalindela ukubona izingane zikhule phakathi nale minyaka encane. Ukuqonda okwenzekayo ngokuthuthuka kungakusiza ukusekela amakhono amasha wengane yakho nokuphatha ukukhuphuka nokuncipha okungenakugwenywa kwalezo zinguquko.
Phakathi nale minyaka emibili, omncane wakho uzohamba ngokuthatha izinyathelo ezimbalwa zokuzama ukugijima, ukugxuma, nokuhamba ngokuhlanganisa okukhulu; ngokusebenzisa amagama ambalwa ukuze abe nolwazi olubanzi (nokukhuluma ngesiphepho); futhi ngokukwazi ukugxila emaminithini amathathu noma ngaphansi ukuze uthole ukunakekelwa okwesikhashana okuvula umnyango kuzo zonke izinhlobo zemisebenzi emisha encane.
Imisebenzi
Kwabancane, ukudlala kuyasebenza. Isenzo esilula sokudlala kusiza izingane ezincane ukuba zithuthukise amakhono emoto, funda imiqondo ebalulekile njengemibala nezinombolo, futhi uqinise amakhono afana nokuxazulula izinkinga, ukucabanga okucabangelayo, ubuciko, nokuningi.
Amathoyizi Ezingane I-Three and Under
Izingane ezincane ezimatasa zihlala zihamba futhi ziba nzima futhi zigcinwe isithakazelo futhi zigxile. Njengoba ukunakekelwa kwengane yakho kukhula futhi ukuziphatha kwabo kuyabonakala kakhulu futhi kuyaphathwa, uzothola amathuba amaningi wokuzama imisebenzi emisha.
Imisebenzi ehlukene, kokubili ngabanye kanye neqembu, nayo iyindlela enhle yokusiza ingane yakho encane ukufunda amakhono amasha, ukwengeza isakhiwo kwosuku lomntwana wakho, ukukhuthaza amakhono amancane nokuhamba kahle, nokusekela ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo.
Izingane zifuna ukwazi ngokwemvelo, okwenza lesi sigaba sibe yisikhathi esiphelele somunye umzali nabafundi. Kusukela ku-soccer kuya ku-yoga, ulimi lwangaphandle kwezobuciko, nomculo wokunyakaza, kukhona okunye kuncane.
Amakilasi Ukubhalisa Ingane Yakho ku
Uma imisebenzi ehleliwe engeyona into yakho (noma ayinikezwa endaweni yakini), kunokuningi ongakwenza nomntanakho ekhaya nasezindaweni ezizungezile.
Kubalulekile ukufaka ukudla okuningi nokuzivocavoca umzimba ngosuku lwengane yakho encane.
Ngokusho kweNational Association for Sport and Physical Education, izingane ezincane kufanele zithole okungenani imizuzu engama-30 yomsebenzi womzimba ohleliwe usuku ngalunye kanye nehora elilodwa noma ngaphezulu yomsebenzi ongakhiwe ngokomzimba. Lezi zinto akudingeki zibe nzima-ukuchitha isikhathi epaki noma ukumane uthathe ingane yakho ukuhambahamba eduze komakhelwane kukhona okukhethwa kukho okuhle.
Okuningi mayelana Nemisebenzi Yokwenyama yabantwana
Ukudla nokudla kwesikhathi
Manje ukuthi ingane yakho ingadla konke ukudla okufanayo ungakwazi (ngezinye izinto ngaphandle), sekuyisikhathi sokuqala ukugxila ekubondleni ukudla okulinganiselayo, okunempilo. Isiteji esincane kakhulu yisikhathi esanele sokususa ingane yakho ekudleni okusha, ukudala imikhuba enempilo, futhi ubasize bafunde ukuthi bazondla kanjani.
Okufanele Ube Nondla Umntwana Wakho
Ngeshwa, kuyilapho ezinye izingane ezincane zikwazi ukuzidla ngesikhathi sokudla, akuyona into engavamile ukuba izinsana zibe izidli ezikhethile noma zihambe ngesigaba esikhethisayo.
Kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho ithola izakhi ezanele, kodwa asikho isidingo sokwesaba. Gcina engqondweni ukuthi ngenkathi ingane yakho encane ingenqaba ukudla ukudla, kungenzeka ukuthi isathola amakholori amaningi. Eqinisweni, i-American Academy of Pediatrics ithi isiqondiso esihle samasayizi omncane wesigaba ukuthi kufanele silingane nengxenye yesine yesilinganiso somuntu omdala.
Ukubhekana Nezidlo Ezizidlayo
Ukuvumela ukuzimela kwakho okuncane kakhulu ngesikhathi sokudla kungasiza ekunciphiseni ukuqubuka kokudla kokudla kanye nokulahlwa kokudla. Izingane zifunda ngokulingisa umama nobaba-futhi ukudla akufani.
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Ukulala
Nakuba izinsana eziningi zilele ebusuku, izinkinga zokulala azivamile futhi ezinye izingane ezincane ziyakwazi ukuvuka ebusuku. Ukuntula ukulala kungabangela ingane encane futhi ibuyele ngokujwayelekile. Khumbula ukuthi ingane yakho isadinga amahora angama-15 okulala ngosuku, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi unamathele esimisweni esinezintambo eziningi nokulala ngesikhathi sokulala.
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Indlela Yokukhuluma Nezingane Ngezibhamu Ngama Ages
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Isitejana esincane kakhulu sihlanganisa ukuguqulwa kokulala esitokisini sokulala embhedeni omncane, nakuba abazali akufanele bazizwe bephoqelelwe ukuba benze ushintsho ngesikhathi esithile. Uma ngabe ingane yakho ikhululekile esitokisini, ngokuvamile ayikho isizathu sokuyihambisa kuze kube yilapho esekhulile.
Ukuguqulwa Kusuka Esikhathini Kuya Embhedeni Omncane Wezingane
Ukuqeqeshwa kwamathambo
Amagama amabili abangela ukwesaba ezinhliziyweni zabazali abasebancane kuyo yonke indawo-ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi. Ukuqeqeshwa kwamathambo kuyigugu elikhulu kwabantwana abancane futhi, nakuba kuyinselele kubazali, omama abaningi nabazali babheke phambili ekuphileni kwe-diapers.
Ukugxilisa ingane emotweni esheshayo ngokushesha kungaphindela emuva. Izindlela eziningi zokuqeqesha ngamaphesenti zithembisa imiphumela, kodwa lezi zindlela azisebenzi ngaphandle kokuba ingane yakho isilungele. Kunezici ezibalulekile zokuthuthukisa ingane yakho okufanele zifinyelele ngaphambi kokuba ufunde ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi futhi kufanele ucabange nokuthi ngabe ingane yakho inesithakazelo ngempela empilweni ukuqala.
Ingabe Ingane Yakho Ikulungele Ukuqeqesha I-Potty Train?
Uma usuqumile ukuthi ingane yakho ilungele ukucwilisa izindiza, qiniseka ukuthi uzihlomile ngegesi efanele ukuze uthole umsebenzi.
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Isiyalo
Izingane ziyaziwa kakhulu ngokuhlola imingcele nomama nobaba. Ukuyala izingane ezincane kungabangela ukukhathazeka kakhulu kubazali ngoba abancane abakwazi ukukhuluma ngokugcwele ukuthi kungani behlukumeza noma beqonda ngokugcwele lokho abakwenzayo okungalungile. Futhi, ngoba izingane ezisencane zifunda indlela yokuxhumana nabanye, zidinga isiyalo esisiza ekufundiseni ukuziphatha okufanele emphakathini.
Khumbula ukuthi ingane encane ingaba nesibindi noma iphutha ngenxa yezici eziningana, kuhlanganise ukukhathala, indlala, ukukhungatheka, noma ushintsho esimisweni noma ukushintsha okukhulu. Abazali kudingeka bakhumbule ukuthi kungani ingane encane iduma, hhayi nje ukugxila esiyalweni.