Hlala ekhaya: Bheka ukuthola ukucindezeleka okudingayo!
Ukuhlala emakhaya omama kungase kubonakale kunomsebenzi olula, kodwa empeleni, kufaka ukucindezeleka okukhulu. Abantu abaningi (kufaka phakathi amamama ngokwabo ezinsukwini zabo zangaphambi kokuhlala-ekhaya-kumama) bangacabanga ngokuphila komama ohlala ekhaya njengenqwaba engapheli yamaqembu wetiya aphumule, imidlalo ejabulisayo yama-dominoes, noma ( ngokoqobo) ukuhamba epaki.
Ukubeletha ekhaya kungabandakanya lezo zinto, kodwa kaningi futhi 'kumemeza epaki' (uma amathoyizi athathwa noma isihlabathi singena emehlweni), 'ukukhala ngepaki' (uma i-ayisikhilimu iloli libonisa nomama akafuni ukuthenga), noma 'ukuwa epaki' (kusukela ekukhathaleni kokuzama ukuhambisana nezingane ezincane usuku lonke)!
Abahlala emakhaya - iningi lazo - bavame ukuzithola behamba kusukela ngesikhathi (noma izingane zabo) bavuka ekuseni kuze kube yisikhathi lapho belala embhedeni ebusuku. Uma izingane zilele, sekuyisikhathi sokuhlanza emva kokuhle noma kumnakekela ubaba. Umsebenzi omthandayo kakhulu, kodwa ngokuvamile ubukeka uphumule ngaphandle!
(Lokhu akusho ukuthi abomama abasebenza banenkinga yokucindezeleka) Ngempela, abaningi babo abacindezelekayo bafana, futhi wonke umama usebenza kanzima ukuze abe ngcono kakhulu kunabo bonke abantwana babo. Ungafunda futhi lezi zeluleko zokucindezeleka zokusebenza komama.)
Amathiphu alandelayo angasiza ukuhlala emakhaya omama balondoloza ukuthula nokucindezeleka empilweni yabo esebenzayo.
Hlela phambili futhi Uhleleke
Ukuhleleka kuyigugu elibalulekile lokuhlala emakhaya omama, njengoba kunjalo nangomama abasebenza. Uma ukwazi ukulindela izimbangela zokudabuka, ukusuka-endlini kudinga, nezinye izicupho zokucindezeleka ezingase zibe khona, uzothola izinkinga ezimbalwa.
Uma uhlela phambili futhi uhlehlise imikhakha yakho, kukhona ukuphikisana okuncane, ukukhohlwa izinto, nokucindezela njengoba uhamba ngosuku lwakho olumatasa.
Setha imikhawulo
Ngaphambi kokuba ube nezingane, imisebenzi owasebenzisayo yayinezikhathi ezithile zokuqala nezikhathi zokuphela; manje usu-ucingo usuku lonke nobusuku! Futhi, ngoba 'awusebenzi', cishe kulindeleke ukuthi uzinikele ngokwengeziwe, uhlele imisebenzi eminingi, futhi ugcine indlu ingenasici, futhi!
Uma abomama abahlala ekhaya bengabeki imingcele, bangakwazi ukuthatha kalula umsebenzi ongcono kunabantu ababili noma abathathu abangakwazi ukusingatha kahle, futhi bazitholele ukushisa kule nqubo. (Bheka lesi sihloko ngokuningi ngokubeka izinto eziza kuqala.)
Hlala uxhumekile
Esinye sezizathu eziyinhloko abesifazane abakhetha ukuhlala emakhaya omama ukuthi bakwazi ukubopha nezingane zabo usuku lonke futhi bajabulele izikhathi ezikhethekile zeminyaka yabo ekhulayo. Ukwengeza, umsebenzi wendlu kufanele wenziwe, ukudla okumelwe kwenziwe, futhi izingane zidinga imisebenzi yomphakathi. Ngeshwa, ngezinye izikhathi ama-moms aqeda ukuzama ukwenza okungaphezu kokuhlangabezana nalezi zindinganiso ngokupheka ukudla okudliwayo, ukugcina indlu ingenasici, nokungena emibuthanweni 'yomncintiswano' engaphansi kokusekelwa nokucindezeleka okungaphezu kwalokho okufanele kube khona! Khumbula okubaluleke kakhulu: isikhathi sekhwalithi nezingane zakho! Uma uthola ukuthi usebenza kanzima ukuze ugcine konke isithombe-uphelele, vumela indlu ukuba ihambe kancane, thola izindlela zokupheka ezilula futhi ezilula, futhi ujabulele nezingane zakho. Ziyakhula ngokushesha! (Bheka lesi sihloko ngemibono ethile yokucindezeleka.)
Zinakekele
Njengoba usuvele wazi, uma ungekho kahle ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo, ngeke ube ngcono kakhulu ezinganeni zakho.
Ukuze silondoloze uhlobo lokuqina oludingekayo ukuhambisana nezingane zonke usuku, kubalulekile ukuba omama abahlala ekhaya ukuba banakekele ngendlela abazinakekela ngayo izingane zabo: ngokuthola ubuthongo obuningi, ukudla okunempilo, okungenani ezinye " phansi isikhathi. " Kubalulekile futhi ukuba ujabulele impendulo enhle (ngendlela yezinkukhu) ukuze ugweme ukushisa. (Bheka lezi zindlela zokuzinakekela ukuze uthole imibono.)
Cela usizo
Ukuhlala emakhaya omama ngokuvamile kulindeleke ukuba benze konke okuhlobene nokunakekela ekhaya nokunakekelwa kwengane, futhi lokho kuvame ukubahola isikhathi esincane sokuzinakekela. Yenza umsebenzi wakho kube lula ngokubhalisa usizo oluvela kubantwana nomlingani wakho.
Izingane zingenza i-Swiffer phansi, zithathe izitsha, futhi zisize ukupheka. Ngisho nezingane ezincane zingasiza ngemisebenzi ethile yasendlini, njengokufanisa amasokisi ngenkathi uhlanza izingubo. Ungathengisa ukuhlala nabangani. Kunezikhathi eziningi izindlela zokuqasha usizo olungathengi ngezinto ezengeziwe ezifana nokuhlanza noma ukupheka, ukwenza ukuphila komama kube nzima kakhulu. Futhi ukhetho lokudlulisela imisebenzi ezinganeni ngokuvamile kuvunyelwe. Ukuze uthole umama wokuhlala ekhaya, ukucela usizo kuyindlela ehlakaniphile yokwenza impilo igxilile, hhayi ukuba 'yenze konke', nokukhulisa izingane ezizethemba.
Gxila ekuphathweni kokucindezeleka
Uma kunzima futhi kugxilile, abomama abahlala ekhaya bavame ukuzihluleka kakhulu ukuxhumana nezingane zabo noma umlingani wabo, okungaholela ekwenzeni izingane, umshado ophikisanayo, nezinye izinto ezandisa ukucindezeleka kwabamama futhi imindeni yabo. Ngakho-ke, ukuthatha isinyathelo esisebenzayo ekulawuleni ukucindezeleka kubaluleke kakhulu. Ukuba nezinkinga eziningana zokucindezeleka okusheshayo ezandleni, ezifana nokuzivocavoca nokuzikhandla (izindlela ezahlukene zokubheka isimo esicindezelayo), kanye namasu okuphatha ukucindezeleka isikhathi eside, njengendlela yokuzivocavoca njalo noma yokuzindla, ukuzilibazisa noma ukusekela umbuthano wezenhlalakahle, kunganciphisa ukucindezeleka okuphawulekayo kokuhlala emakhaya namakhaya abo.
Ngaphezu kwalezi zindlela zokuphatha ukucindezeleka zokuhlala emakhaya, kubalulekile (futhi ngokuvamile kunganakwa) ukugcina ukucindezeleka kwengqondo engqondweni yabo. Ngisho nezingane ezincane zingakwazi ukuzuza ezinkambisweni zosizo zokucindezeleka ezifana nokuphefumula okujulile, isikhathi sokuthula nomama, nokusikhipha. Ngenxa yokuthi omama nezingane ezincane zihambisana kakhulu, kuncishiswa ukucindezeleka kokusiza okubili kokubili umama nengane.
Ukuze uthole ukusekelwa okwengeziwe, bheka lezi zinsiza zokuphathwa kokucindezeleka.