Lapho uzama ukukhulelwa izinyanga, futhi akukho okwenzekayo, ungazizwa ucindezelekile, udangele, futhi ungesabi kakhulu.
Ingcebo yolwazi etholakalayo ku-intanethi yemibhangqwana ezama ukukhulelwa iyisibusiso nesiqalekiso. Isibusiso, ngoba ungacwaninga ngakho konke okukhethwa kukho, futhi uthole ulwazi oluningi kakhulu kunokuba udokotela wakho anesikhathi sokuhlanganyela nawe.
Kodwa kungase kube yisiqalekiso ngoba awukwazi ukuthi ungaqala kuphi. Noma yini okufanele ufunde noma uzame ngokulandelayo. Udinga ukuhlunga iseluleko sekhohlisi esikhohlisayo, futhi uqaphele ngokucophelela imikhiqizo kanye nezinsizakalo ezithengiswa ekukhuliseni inselelo.
Ngalokho engqondweni, nakhu izinto ezinhlanu eziyisisekelo engizifuna ukuthi wazi.
Yazi Nini Nendlela Ongayithola Ngayo Usizo Oludingayo
Ungasheshi ukuthola usizo.
Ngiyazi ukuthi kuyesabeka, futhi ngiyazi ukuthi ungathanda ukuhamba "ulindele isimangaliso" kunokuthola ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle.
Kodwa uma ulinde isikhathi eside ukuthola usizo, cishe cishe uzoba nokwelashwa okuphumelelayo.
Uma ungaphezu kuka-35, kufanele ubone udokotela wakho emva kwezinyanga eziyisithupha zokuzama ukukhulelwa.
Uma uneminyaka engaphansi kuka-35, kufanele uthole usizo emva konyaka owodwa wokuzama ukukhulelwa.
Uma uhlangabezana nokuhlukumeza okubili okulandelanayo, kufanele uthole ukuhlolwa.
Uma ubhekene nezimpawu zokungabi nabantwana, noma wazi izimo eziyingozi zokungabikho, bheka udokotela wakho noma nini lapho unquma ukuthi ufuna ukuqala ukuba nezingane.
Awudingi ukuzama unyaka wokuqala!
Ubani okufanele ukhulume naye?
Abesifazane kufanele bakhulume nomama wabo wezifo, futhi amadoda kufanele enze i-aphoyintimenti no-urologist. (Yebo, amadoda nawo kudingeka ahlolwe! Ukwenza izinto ngokushesha uzokusindisa isikhathi esibalulekile.)
Kungenzeka noma awudingi umtholampilo wokuzala, kodwa uma wenza, laba odokotela bokuqala bazohlinzeka ngokudluliselwa.
Udinga ukuzimela
Kulula kakhulu (futhi evamile) ukuthi abantu bangene esimweni esingenalutho uma bezama ukuthola usizo abadinga kudokotela wabo.
Ngifuna ukukukhumbuza ukuthi awusizo usizo. Ungakwazi futhi kufanele ulwe ukuze uthole ukunakekelwa okufanele!
Ingabe udokotela wakho akayithathi ngokujulile ukukhathazeka kwakho? Ukutshela ukuthi 'usemncane kakhulu' ukuze ube nezinkinga zokuzala? Ukutshela ukuthi "usemdala kakhulu" ukukhathazeka ukuthola usizo? Noma "fat fat?"
Bese uthole udokotela omusha. Okungenani, thola umbono wesibili.
Ingabe izincomo zomtholampilo wakho wokuzala zibonakala zikhulu kakhulu ngesimo sakho? Ingabe uzizwa bengabakhathaleli ngokujulile? Ingabe ziphindaphinda ngokuphindaphindiwe izinqubo zokwelapha ezihlulekayo, kunokuba uguqule izinto ukuze uthuthukise izinkinga zakho zokuphumelela?
Thola umbono wesibili, noma uthole umtholampilo omusha wokuzala.
Zivikele wena. Cwaninga izinketho zakho futhi uzifundise. Ungakwenza lokhu!
Awunaso Into Yokumahloni
Ngempela, akukho lutho.
Ukungenzi lutho akukwenzi ube ngaphansi . Awuncane kowesifazane futhi awuncane kumuntu kunowesifazane ovuthiwe noma umuntu.
Ufanelwe uthando futhi ufana nanoma yimuphi omunye umuntu kule planethi.
Ungavumeli amahloni akho akugcine ekutholeni usizo nokusekela okudingayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi udokotela noma ovela othandekayo.
Awuwedwa
Cabanga esikoleni sakho sokuzivocavoca esikoleni esiphakeme. Ake sithi unamantombazane angu-30 ekilasini lakho.
Ukukhuluma ngesitatimende, phakathi kuka-3 no-4 kini kuzobhekana nobunzima bokukhulelwa. Kodwa izinkinga ukuthi akekho ozokhuluma ngakho ngalokhu komunye nomunye.
Ungase uzizwe uwedwa, kodwa ngempela, awukho.
E-United States, kunabesifazane abayizigidi ezingu-6.7 zokuzalwa kokubeletha abahlukumezeka ngokuthola noma ukuhlala bekhulelwe.
Izigidi eziyisithupha-eziyisikhombisa.
Finyelela ukuthola ukwesekwa! Futhi kukhona ukusekelwa ngaphandle, kufaka phakathi amaqembu okusekela, abahlinzeki, kanye nemiphakathi ye-intanethi ye-fertility inselele.
Ngisho nabangani bakho abavuthiwe namalungu omndeni bangakusiza uma ubafundisa indlela.
Ungakhohlwa ngodokotela wakho, futhi! Ungaqiniseki ngento ethile oyifunayo ku-inthanethi, noma mayelana neseluleko umuntu akunike? Buza udokotela wakho. Zilapho ukukusiza!
Ukungafaki okulula akulula, kodwa ukubhekana nakho kungaba lula uma unabantu oncike kuwo.
Uzokwazi Ukunquma Yikuphi Ukukhetha Okulungile Kuwe
Ngikhuthaza ukuba ubone udokotela wakho ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze ube nokunye okukhethwa kukho, kodwa kuphela unquma ukuthi yiziphi izinketho okufanele uziphishekele.
Unganquma ngemuva kokubona udokotela wakho uzame okwesikhashana ngokwakho, noma ungase uthathe isinqumo sokuzama ukwelashwa kokuzala ngokushesha.
Ungase unqume imithi yomlomo njengoClomid injenge-tech ephezulu njengoba ufuna ukuhamba. Unganquma ukuthi awufuni ukusebenzisa noma yiziphi izindlela zokwelapha.
Ungase uthathe isinqumo sokuthi ukwemukelwa akusikho kuwe, futhi ufuna kuphela ukuphishekela umzali nge ukwelashwa kwebele. Ungase uthathe isinqumo sokuthi ungathanda ukwamukela kunokuzama i-IVF.
Unganquma ukuyeka ukuzama emva konyaka owodwa wezokwelapha, noma emva kweminyaka emihlanu yokwelashwa, noma emva nje kokuba udokotela wakho noma i-akhawunti yakho yasebhange iphelelwe izinketho kuwe.
Ekhuluma ngama-akhawunti asebhange, unezinketho eziningi zezezimali. Ngokujabulisayo, imibhangqwana eminingi enenzalo yokuzala izodinga ukwelashwa okunomsoco ophansi, kepha uma uyayidinga, kunezindlela ezihlukahlukene zokuzikhokhela.
Nguwe kuphela onganquma ukuthi umkhawulo wakho wokuchitha ungakanani. Futhi, Yebo, ungakhetha futhi ukuthi ungachithi izinkulungwane ekunakekelweni kokuzala.
Ngezansi: Ngifuna ukwazi ukuthi unokhetho.
Akukusizi kahle ngokomzwelo ukuzitshela ukuthi unenketho eyodwa kuphela. Isibonelo, ungazitsheli ukuthi i-IVF iyindlela yakho kuphela, ngisho noma leyo yindlela kuphela yokwelashwa ongayithatha. Ngoba ungakhetha futhi ukuthi ungaphishekeli ukwelashwa nhlobo.
Ngiyaqaphela ukuthi ayizizwa sengathi ikhetha, kodwa kuyisinqumo.
Kuphela uma ubona ukuthi ukhetha ukwazi ukuvela endaweni yokunikezwa amandla namandla. Kuphela uma ukhetha ngokucophelela ukuthi yini ongayenza ungabona ukuthi kukhona impilo emva (nangaphezulu) kokungabikho.
Futhi kukhona ukuphila emva kokungabikho. Ngiyakwethembisa.
Imithombo:
FastStats: Infertility. Isikhungo Sokulawula Izifo. http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/fertile.htm