Imikhuba Eyoqinisa Umzali Wakho Nomntwana Wakho

Njenganoma yibuphi ubudlelwano, isibopho phakathi komzali nengane singenziwa siqine nemikhuba ethile engabandakanywa kalula emisebenzini yakho yansuku zonke.

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Kudla ndawonye
Ukudla ukudla ndawonye kubalulekile impilo yezingane nentuthuko ngezindlela eziningi ezimangalisayo. Mark Bowden / Getty Izithombe

Ukucwaninga komzimba okuthakazelisayo kuye kwabonisa ukuxhumana phakathi kokudla okuvamile nezingane kanye nokwanda okwenyuka kwezinzuzo ezithuthukisayo zokuthuthukisa ezifana nempilo engcono nemikhuba yokudla; amakhono aphezulu engqondweni, ngokomzwelo, nasemphakathini; ukuziphatha okuthuthukisiwe; nokusebenza okungcono kwezemfundo.

Ngisho noma ungawutholi isikhathi sokudla ndawonye njalo ebusuku, hlela ukudla komndeni noma kunini lapho ungakwenza, ngangokunokwenzeka. Uma amaviki akho evikini egcwele amahora aphelile emahhovisi noma emisebenzini yangaphandle, usengathola izixazululo, njengokudla kwasekuseni noma ukudla okulula. Isihluthulelo ukwenza ukudla komndeni kumnandi, khuluma ngosuku, futhi uhlale uxhumekile nezingane zakho.

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Ukukhuluma Ngosuku Lwakho
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Njengesikhathi sokudla, isikhathi sokulala kuyithuba elihle lokubambisana nezingane zakho mayelana nosuku. Ungababuza imibuzo ezobasiza ukuba baphendule ngokuningiliziwe, njengokuthi "Yayiyini ingxenye engcono kakhulu yosuku lwakho namhlanje?" noma "Yayiyiphi into ejabulisayo eyenzeka namhlanje?"

Bese uqiniseke ukuthi ukhuluma ngosuku lwakho , futhi wabelane ngemininingwane njengalokho owaziqhenya kakhulu ngokufinyelela ngalolo suku noma ukuthi iyiphi inkinga ongayithola nokuthi uhlela ukuyixazulula kanjani. Ngokwabelana ngento ethile ngawe, ubonisa ingane yakho ukuthi uyixabisa njengomuntu futhi uzizwa usondelene naye ukuzithemba kuye, futhi uqinisa isibopho sakho futhi umbonise ukuthi ubalulekile kuwe .

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Ukudlala Ndawonye
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Enye yezindlela ezinhle kakhulu zokuzibopha nabantwana bakho ukujabulisa ndawonye. Hamba uphinde ugibele amabhayisikili ndawonye noma ugibele ibhola lebhola. Noma uthathe umdlalo webhodi lomndeni omnandi (yenza kube semfundo uma ufuna ukuthola okuthile okuzobafaka inselele ngokubambisana nabo) futhi ubakhuthaze ukuba basebenze ngamakhono amaningi omphakathi kanye nemikhuba emihle , njengokufunda ukuthi bangabanikazi abanomusa noma abalahlekile, ngenkathi ujabule.

Umsebenzi awunandaba nokuthi wenza okuthile okujabulisayo ndawonye. Ungenza amakhemikhali amnandi noma upheke noma ubheke ezinye izinto eziphathekayo ndawonye, ​​noma ubuke futhi "ubuyekeze" i- movie enkulu yezingane . Yenza into oyithandayo futhi uyixhume ngenkathi uyayenza, njengoba nje ungathanda nomngane wakho noma umngane wakho omuhle.

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Ukudubula!
Ukugxuma nokukhwabanisa yizindlela ezinhle zokuqinisa isibopho somzali nengane. I-JGI / Jamie Grill / Getty Izithombe

Ukwehlisa nokugxila akuyona nje indlela enhle yokuxhuma nengane yakho futhi uqinise isibopho sakho somzali nengane, kodwa ucwaningo luveza ukuthi kunganciphisa ngisho nezinkinga zakho zokugula. Ngakho-ke ake ingane yakho yazi ukuthi uyamthanda kangakanani ngezingxube eziningi kulo lonke usuku, futhi uzokhulela ekukhukhumeze emuva ngqo!

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Ukuhlonipha - nokulindela okufanayo
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Ngezinye izikhathi izingane zingabacasula, futhi ngokuqinisekile zingenza amaphutha. Kodwa abazali kufanele bahlale bekhumbula ukuthi ukwelapha izingane ngenhlonipho kubalulekile njengokuqondisa izingane . Ngisho noma ingane yakho yenza okuthile okudinga ukuba uyenze, uyakhuluma naye ngendlela ezolile nangothando. Ukumemezela noma ukusebenzisa isijeziso sezinkampani kuboniswe ukuthi akusebenzi nje kuphela, kodwa kungalimaza izinga lobuhlobo bakho nengane yakho.

Futhi khumbuza izingane ukuthi zithi "Ngiyabonga" futhi "Sicela" futhi wenze okufanayo nezingane zakho. Imikhuba emihle akufanele ibe yinto oyisebenzisayo ngaphandle kwekhaya - ukuphathwa ngokuhlonipha kanye nokuhlonipha ngeke nje kukulethele ndawonye, ​​kepha kuzokwenza ikhaya lakho libe yindawo enhle kakhulu yokuhlala.

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Ukuvumela izingane ukuba zisize
Ukwenza imisebenzi yomsebenzi ndawonye kuyindlela eyodwa yokusiza indodana yakho ukuba ikhule ibe indoda enhle. I-Getty Images

Ngokuvamile abantwana bathanda ukuba usizo, futhi uma ubapha imisebenzi kanye nemithwalo yemfanelo, ukhulisa ukuzithemba kwabo futhi bazizwe bebazisa. Batshele ukuthi benzani umsebenzi omkhulu, futhi uthanda kangakanani usizo lwabo. Akugcini nje ukukusondeza ndawonye, ​​kodwa kuzosiza izingane zakho ukuba zikhule zibe ngabantu abanesibindi nabathandekayo abathanda ukusiza abanye .

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Ukubonisa Ingane Yakho Ngothando Nsuku Zonke
Ukuhleka ndawonye kuyindlela enhle yokubonisa izingane zakho ozithandayo nsuku zonke. Robert Houser / Getty Izithombe

Ukwenza izinto ezincane nsuku zonke ukuze ubonise ingane yakho ukuthi uyamthanda kangakanani , njengokubhala incwadi bese uyifaka ebhokisini lakhe lesidlo sasemini noma ukuhlela izinto ezimnandi ukuzenza ngezimpelasonto noma ukumnaka ngokugcwele lapho ukhuluma, angenza omkhulu umehluko ekhwalini lobuhlobo bakho nengane yakho. Bonisa ingane yakho nsuku zonke ukuthi kusho ukuthini kuwe futhi uzokwenza okuthile ukuqinisa isibopho phakathi kwakho nengane yakho futhi sikwenze kube njalo futhi singaguquki.

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