Siza Ingane Eyazizwa I-Isolated
Ukukhula kugcwele izinselelo kodwa iminyaka ephakathi kungaba nzima kakhulu kubantwana. Phakathi neminyaka ephakathi, izingane zihlala zihlola isimo sabo ngontanga, futhi lokho kuvame ukuholela ekuziphatheni okubi njengoba izinkomba ezimbili zihlala ezindaweni eziphezulu zomphakathi, izikhathi eziningi ezinganaki, ukuxhashazwa noma ukushiya abanye , ngisho nabangane bangaphambili.
Uma ingane yakho ithola amahlombe ebandayo esikoleni evela kubangani, abangane bangaphambili noma abafunda nabo ekilasini, kungenza izikhathi ezinzima ekhaya.
Futhi ukwenza izinto zibe zimbi nakakhulu, ingane yakho ikhulile manje, futhi ukulungisa izinkinga zakhe akulula njengoba bevame ukuzenza. Masibhekane nakho, ikhukhi kanye nokumamatheka kungakuthola kuphela kulezi zinsuku. Ngalokho engqondweni, iziphakamiso ezingezansi kufanele zikusize uhlasele umntwana ozwayo oshiywa yiontanga.
Lalela
Uma ingane yakho ikhononda ngokushiywa ngaphandle, zama ukungenzi ngokushesha masinyane. Ngezinye izikhathi abazali bakhuphuka ngokushesha kakhulu ukuze bazame futhi balondoloze usuku. Kungenzeka ukuthi uhlangothi lwakho luyinkinga yesikhashana engenziwa ngaphandle kosizo lwakho. Lalela lokho ingane yakho isho, futhi unikeze ukwesekwa nesihawu. Gcina amathebhu esimweni bese uzama ukuqoqa ulwazi oluvela eminye imithombo, njengalabanye abazali noma abantwana bomntanakho. Uma ukuziphatha kuqhubeka, kungase kube yisikhathi sokucabangela ezinye izinketho. Uma izinkinga zakho zomphakathi zomphakathi ziqhubeka zingathinta kabi ukuzethemba komntanakho.
Iziphakamiso zomnikelo
Izingane azivuthi ngokuvumelana nesimiso esiqinile, futhi ngezinye izikhathi izingane eziphuzile ukuzwa zivuthiwe zilahlwe yibo abahamba phambili. Uma ingane yakho iwela kulolu hlobo, akumangalisi ukuthi uzizwa eshiywe ngabangani abaguqukayo futhi bathuthukise ezinye izithakazelo. Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi ithole abangane abathandayo, abanesithakazelo ezintweni ezizilibazisa noma imisebenzi efanayo.
Thola imisebenzi yomphakathi engaphandle kwesikole ukusiza ingane yakho ukuba yandise umbuthano wakhe womphakathi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ubungane bafika futhi bahamba phakathi nesikole esiphakathi kweminyaka. Umngane wakho omncane wengane unyaka angase abe khona kulowo olandelayo. Kodwa ungamangali uma abangane abadala bevusa eminyakeni embalwa.
Vumela Ukuzimela
Bonke abayishumi nambili bazizwa behlukanisiwe ngezikhathi ezithile, konke kuyiyingxenye yokukhula. Ngenkathi ukwamukela kontanga kubalulekile ukuba kube neshumi nambili, kubalulekile futhi ukuba bathole uhlangothi lwabo oluzimele. Phakamisa izinhlamvu ezivela ezincwadini noma kuma-movie ahamba ngendlela yawo futhi ungakhathazeki ngokuthi zithandwa noma ziyingxenye yesixuku noma cha. Ungasiza futhi ingane yakho ukuba ihlole izinto ezithandwayo noma imisebenzi angayenza yedwa, njengomculo, ezemidlalo ezinganeliseki noma eminye imisebenzi.
Sebenzisa iziphazamiso
Uma ingane yakho izwa sengathi iyodwa futhi iyodwa, kufanele ungenele. Siza ingane yakho ithole imisebenzi nezintshisekelo lapho zingakwazi khona ukuhlangabezana nezinye izingane ezifana naye. Ukumsiza ekwandiseni umbuthano wakhe wabangani kuzonikeza induduzo ngalezo zinsuku lapho ezwa ukuthi ushiywe ngaphandle noma eshiye abanye. Yenza kube lula ngomntanakho ukumema abangani abasha ngaphezu komuzi wakho, kungaba nge-sleepover noma amahora ambalwa ngempelasonto.
Vula Ikhaya Lakho
Qinisekisa ukuthi uvula ikhaya lakho kubangani bengane yakho ukuze ukwazi ukubazi futhi wazi ukuthi ingane yakho ixhumana kanjani nabo. Nika izingane indawo yokuzilibazisa, ubukele amabhayisikobho noma udlale imidlalo futhi ushaye.
Yenza Isikhathi Sonke
Ingane yakho ifuna abangani bakhe, kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi awusabalulekile. Qinisekisa ukuthi uchitha isikhathi esedwa ngephakathi kwakho nokuthi wenza isikhathi sokuzijabulisa ndawonye. Ngezinye izikhathi ukuzijabulisa komkhaya kungathatha ingqondo yengane yakho ezinkingeni zakhe, okungenani okwesikhashana.