Iningi lomama oqeqesha ngamanzi liye labhekana nalolu daba. Kukhona abanye abacabanga ukuthi akuyona into enkulu - izingane azikwazi ukuzilawula ngokwazo, zihamba ngokucabanga kwazo. Elinye isethi sabazali liphikelela ukuthi akukaze kulungile ukuvuthwa emphakathini. Khona-ke kukhona umbono ongaphakathi-mhlawumbe epaki, efihliwe yizihlahla ... kodwa bangase badonse umugqa kulokho okwakudingeka ukwenze endaweni yokuhweba.
Izizathu Zokugwema Ukubuka Okusesidlangalaleni
Ngenkathi ngibona amaphuzu akwenziwa kuzo zonke izingxabano, kunezizathu eziqinile zokuthi kungani kufanele ugweme ukuvuthwa kwengane endaweni evulekile yomphakathi. Ukuya e-au naturale ngenkathi uhlala ekamu noma uhamba ngemuva kwezintaba epaki bese ugijimela ukungcola kukhona amacala kubo. Ngesinye, ungakwazi ukuqondisa ingane yakho ngalezi zimo ngenkathi ufundisa enye into yobumfihlo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuma ezihlahleni noma ukungcola okudlula emgwaqweni kuvumela umchamo ukuba ungene emhlabeni. Qhathanisa lezo zigameko nezimo lapho ingane ihamba khona emgwaqeni nasendleleni yomphakathi. Kunezimpikiswano ezimbili eziyinhloko ngokubheka ngaleyo ndlela yomphakathi:
- Ngesikhathi lapho usalokhu ufundisa ingane ukuthi kunini lapho kufanelekile ukuphawula nokukhipha, ubanikeza ngolwazi lokuya "noma kuphi." Lokhu kungaphazamisa futhi kuphazamise ingane encane noma isenkulisa futhi kungaholela ezinkingeni ezivamile zamanzi ezinjengezingozi eziningi ezivame ukwenzeka.
- Ukushiya umchamo noma isitulo endaweni yomphakathi kungadala izimo ezingenamthetho. Ngisho noma wenza konke okusemandleni akho ukuhlanza indawo, usalishiya amagciwane namafutha. I-puddle encane yomchamo ingase ibonakale ingenabungozi, kodwa cabangela ingane encane ezayo ezayo bese inquma ukungena kulowo mbhobho omncane.
Indlela Yokusingatha Izimo Eziphuthumayo
Yiqiniso, ngenkathi ungase ubone ukuthi kungcono ukugwema ukuba nengane yakho iveze esidlangalaleni, leyo mhle ingase ingakusizi esimweni esinzima.
Iqiniso liwukuthi, asikho isixazululo esiphelele lapho ubanjwa nomntwana osencane noma ingane esemncane. Ukwazi ukuthi ungase uphele esimweni lapho kungekho indlu yangasese yomphakathi etholakalayo, into kuphela ongayenza ilungiselela. Indlela oyilungiselela ngayo incike esiteji somntanakho sokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi kanye nezimo ezithile ongase uzitholele kuzo. Ezinye izinyathelo ongazicabangela zifaka:
- Kuthatha isethi esengeziwe sezingubo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Lokhu kusho ukungayeki esikhwameni esikhulu somama okwamanje nje ngoba kuzodingeka ube nezingubo zangaphansi, amabhulukwe, amashirts, amasokisi, nezicathulo ezandleni kuphela uma kwenzeka ingane yakho ingakwazi ukuyibamba.
- Ukusebenzisa Ukudonsa-Ups for outings. Abanye abazali bacabangela amabhulukwe aqeqeshwayo afanelekile afana ne-Pull-Ups i-crutch ephuza ukuqeqeshwa okugcwele kwamanzi. Iqiniso liwukuthi, kungaba. Zingaba zifanelekile ezinye izingane kanye nezimo ezithile ezifana nokugibela imoto ende noma ukuhamba kwedolobha lapho kutholakala kunzima ukuphumula emphakathini.
- Ukutshala izimali ebhodini eliphathekayo. Uma uphuma usuku ngemoto yakho, ibhodlela eliphathekayo elifana ne-Safety 1st Gotta Go Now Travel Potty & Umqeqeshi kungaba yindlela enhle ongayithatha. Kuyinto elula kakhulu, futhi ungakwazi ngokuhlakanipha ukuba ingane isebenzise emotweni phakathi kokuma eduze kwedolobha.
Impikiswano yokuPhepha komphakathi
Inkinga yokuvumela izingane ukuba zivuthwe bekuyisikhathi sokuphikisana isikhathi eside. Kwafika iphuzu elivuthayo ngo-2010 ngemuva kokuthi umbhali we-blogger K. Emily Bond uthumele ucezu olugxeka abazali abavumela izingane ukuba zizungeze ngokukhululekile emphakathini. Ucele abazali ukuba bayeke ukwelapha izingane njengezinja futhi bafune ukugijimela izingane zokuqeqesha emanzini ngesikhathi esifanayo njengesici esikhulu kulokho okwakubonakala sengathi unjengokwanda kwezingane ezihamba emphakathini.
Kube nokuhlehliswa okuphawulekayo ngokumelene neBond ngokubekwa ukwahlulela kwabanye abazali. Wabuye wabona umbono owedlulele ngalolu daba, ethi, "[A] ingozi enhle ingahamba isikhathi eside ekufundiseni okumele ukuqothulwa okufanele futhi ungahlolisisi ukulungela kwengane yakho ngemithwalo yemfanelo yokuphila engenayo i-diaper." Lokho kucabangela - ukuthi ungamhlazisa ingane ekulungiseni kwamanzi - kungalungile ngokuphelele.
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokugqugquzela ukuqeqesha yangasese ukunikeza ingane yakho ukuqiniswa okuhle futhi ukwenza inqubo engafanele ikwazi ukuzizwa enehlazo. Uma kukhona izingozi (futhi ungithembele, kuzoba khona izingozi), kufanele ubathinte ngokubekezela futhi uqinisekise ingane yakho ukuthi kwenzekani kanti ngenkathi kungabi nkulu kakhulu ngalesi sikhathi, uyazi ukuthi uzofika lapho bawina khona ' ngeke kwenzeke.