Uma ukuqeqesha ngobusika kuhamba kahle, njengalapho izingane ezincane ziphoqa ngokuphindaphindiwe amabhulukwe abo, abazali bangadonsela kumathuluzi amaningi ukuze babuyise izingane zabo endleleni. Thatha umama okhononda ngokuthi indodakazi yakhe eneminyaka emithathu ubudala isiqeqeshwe ngamanzi kusukela ezinyangeni ezingu-18 ngokubili kokuqhubeka nokuguqulwa . Umama wabhala:
"Usebenza kahle ekunakekelweni kwelanga ngaphandle kwezingozi kodwa unenkinga ekhaya.
Ngokushesha lapho ngiyomthatha kusukela ekunakekeleni kwesikhashana , uzokhipha emotweni endleleni eya ekhaya. Inkinga yethu enkulu, noma kunjalo, ukuthi wenqaba ukuguqulwa ngaphandle kokulingana okukhulu . Uyangimemeza ngenkathi esesigabeni esishintshayo futhi ehloma isikhathi sonke. "
Isixazululo
Umzali kuleso simo angase aqiniseke ukuthi intombazane iphuma emotweni ngaphambi kokuyilayisha emotweni. Uma nje umzali efika esikoleni sasenkulisa, kufanele abingelela ngothando indodakazi yakhe bese emthukuthelela endlini yokugezela. Umama kufanele athathe isikhathi esiningi njengoba kunesidingo futhi anikeze indodakazi yakhe ubumfihlo uma edinga. Lokhu kungase kusho ukuthola enye indlu yokugezela esakhiweni kusukela ezincane zokugezela ngokuvamile zigcwele umsebenzi.
Le nqubo kufanele ibe ngokwanele ukuqeda izingozi zansuku zonke futhi elwa nezingane ezincane ezibeka lapho kudingeka zihlanzwe ziguquke. Lapho eneminyaka engu-3 ubudala, kungenzeka ukuthi uvuthiwe ngokwanele ukubhekana nokuhlanzwa.
Umzali kufanele aqiniseke ukuthi angenzi wonke umsebenzi kodwa amane nje amsize lapho enezingozi. Kubalulekile futhi ukuba umama agcine isimo sakhe sengqondo mayelana nomcimbi esihlokweni, ngakho-ke intombazane ayizizwa sengathi lezi zingozi yiyona into engeyona ingxenye ejwayelekile yokuphila. Abazali abaveza intukuthelo noma imizwelo emibi lapho izingane zinezingozi zingase ziholele izingane ukuba zithinte ngokungahambi kahle kwazo.
Umthetho ongavamile futhi usebenzise isiyalo
Uma umzali egcina ukuxilongwa kwakhe futhi ephethe izingozi ngokuzenzekelayo kodwa ingane isaphonsa ukulungele, ukufaka isikhathi sokuphuma kungadingeka. Umama angamxwayisa indodakazi yakhe ukuthi uma engabambisani futhi evumela ukuthi ashintshwe, uzophuma ngesikhathi. Umama kufanele alandele uma ingane iqhubeka yenza izinto zibe nzima. Uma isikhathi siphelile, umzali kufanele amnike ithuba lokubukeza umsebenzi oseduze. Akudingeki ukuba ahlanze ngokugcwele noma ngenjabulo (Ubani ojabulela ukuhlanza i-poop, ngemuva kwakho konke?), Kodwa kufanele akwenze.
Ukufaka phezulu
Kulesi simo, abazali kufanele bavumele izingane zizinakekele umsebenzi omkhulu ngangokunokwenzeka. Abazali kufanele bagweme ukubeka izingane ezincane etafuleni eliguqukayo ngoba lokhu uzizwa kufana nokushintsha kwe-diaper kwengane kunokuba kuhlanzwe isikhathi somntwana omncane. Esikhundleni salokho, kufanele bazame ukusiza izingane ukuba zenze okusemandleni ekugezela ngenkathi zimile. Abazali banganikeza ukufundiswa, usizo, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ukudumisa nokukhuthazwa.