Okokuqala, izindaba ezinhle: Kusukela kusenesikhathi, izingane ezisencane zilokhu zithukuthela ngenxa yokukhungatheka futhi zithole izinto abazithandayo. Intukuthelo enkulu ayiyona indaba enobudlova kepha ihilela izinyembezi eziningi futhi ihlaba. Qinisekisa ukuthi, ingane yakho encane ngeke ihlukunyezwe ukukhala okuncane futhi konke okuhlabayo kungase kuveze okuthile okwesabekayo kodwa hhayi okuningi.
Manje, izindaba ezimbi: Ukucasuka lapha kungase kube ukuthi ingxenye eyingozi kunazo zonke yokufutheka akuyona into encane yakho eyenzayo, kodwa yini ongayenzi ukuyiyeka ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Ngenhlanhla manje sekuyisikhathi esifanele sokuqala ukusebenzisa amasu asebenzayo okubhekana nokufutheka okukhulu.
Qinisekisa ukuthi indawo ivikelekile
Uma ingane yakho ishaya, ishaya, iphonsa izinto, iphonsa emhlabathini noma ingena ezindongeni noma ihlaba ikhanda, khona-ke kukhona okungenzeka kube yingozi. Uma ubona ukufika okukhulu, zama ukwehlisa isimo, uma kungenzeka, ngaphandle kokunikeza (ngaleyondlela ukuphazamisa igunya lakho).
Uma ungeke ukwazi ukuvimbela ukudabuka, qiniseka ukuthi ingane yakho isendaweni ephephile, ethambile uma unomlando wokuthola umzimba. Mbophe esitokisini sakhe semoto noma esitokisini uma uphumile futhi uhamba noma uhamba endaweni ephethwe ngamapulangwe azungezile noma embhedeni uma usekhaya. Hlala kude nezinkuni ezinkuni kanye ne-tile noma izindawo ngefenisha enezingcingo ezibukhali.
Zama Ukukhuluma Ngokucacile
Uma ingane yakho encane iphephile, zama ukuthola ukuthi yini ehamba phambili. Uma kungukudabuka okwenyuka ukukhungatheka, bheka ukuthi ungasiza yini ingane yakho ngokusebenza ukuze imnike izindlela zokuveza lokho akuzwayo. Ngaso sonke isikhathi uma ukwazi ukwenza lokhu, usuke usondelene nokufutheka okuncane.
Ingane yakho encane ayinakho ulimi oluyisisekelo namakhono okubhekana nawo adingekayo ukuze abhekane nokuzimela kwakhe ngokuzimela ngakho udinga usizo lwakho.
Bheka nxazonke ukuze uthole izinkomba zomongo mayelana nokuthi yini engase ibe yinkinga futhi umsize axazulule ngendlela ezolile futhi ecacile. Izikhathi eziningi lezi zinhlobo zentukuthelo evuthayo ziyasebenza kalula uma usuhle phansi ezingeni lomntwana wakho. Inkomishi ye-sippy engenalutho, isikhwama esingenakulungiswa sokusikeka noma engazi ukuthi benzeni ngobuhlungu besilwane, isibonelo, zonke izincazelo ezizwakalayo zokudabuka okungadingi isiyalo kodwa kudinga ukuzwelana okuningi.
Zama Ukubamba Umfana Wakho Ukuze Umbambe Ngehle
Uma ingane yakho encane ingabonakali ukuzola emva kwemizuzu embalwa, zama ukumbamba naye. Ngezinye izikhathi angase athathwe kakhulu ngokudabuka kwakhe ukuthi udinga usizo lwakho ukuze aziphethe. Ungabambeli ngokuqinile kodwa ungamvumeli ahambe, noma. Ungathula noma ukhulume ngezwi eliphansi kakhulu, eliphuthumayo ukuze umqiniseke ukuthi konke kuzoba kuhle nokuthi udinga ukuzola. Ngokuvamile, ingane yakho encane izokhala imizuzu embalwa bese ihlehlela ukuwela ezandleni zakho, ngesikhathi lapho ungazama ukusebenza ngenkinga ngokuthula noma usebenzise inqubo efana nokuphazamiseka noma ukuhlelwa kabusha .
Ungavumeli Ukuphendula Kwakho Kukhuthaze I-Tantrum
Abanye abancane bathukuthele kakhulu ngenxa yokukhungatheka mayelana nokuxazululwa kwezinkinga nokunye okusemandleni okukwenza wenze okufunayo. Uma utshele ingane yakho ukuthi "Cha" kwesicelo esithile noma umtshele ukuthi kudingeka akwenze okuthile angafuni ukukwenza, ukufutheka kungase kube umphumela. Kulesi simo, isiyalo kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokusingatha le nkinga. Qaphela ingane yakho ukuthi kumele iyeke ukuphonsa intukuthelo noma kuzodingeka ihambe isikhathi bese ilandela uma ingayeki.
Ungase ungaboni, kodwa uma ingane yakho ikwazi ukuchofoza izinkinobho zakho futhi ithole ukusabela kwakho ngokufutheka kwayo, khona-ke uzobona ukuthi indlela yakhe isebenza ngayo.
Umjikelezo ononya uqala njengoba eduma futhi uzinikela ngokuphindaphindiwe. Okubi nakakhulu uma uzama ngawo onke amandla akho ukumelana futhi ingane yakho idonsa izibhamu ezinkulu ngokwenza okuthile azi ukuthi uyenzile esikhathini esidlule.
Isiyalo esivumelanayo seTantrums esinezikhathi ezingenayo akuyona ingozi, kungaba njalo
Futhi yini eyenza abazali abaningi banakekele kunomntwana olimazayo noma ogulayo? Abantfwana abancane banakekele lokhu futhi bangase badukise amakhanda abo noma banamathele iminwe yabo phansi komlomo wabo. Phakathi nalezo zikhathi, kubaluleke kakhulu kunanini ngaphambili ukuhlala ulawula futhi uhambisane nesiyalo. Futhi, okokuqala futhi okubaluleke kakhulu qinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho isendaweni ephephile, kodwa ungesabi lokho ingane yakho engakwenza. Khetha isikhathi esikhethekile ngendawo eningi emithanjeni yokuphikisana okuqhubekayo, ngokomzimba. Unganikezi ukunakekelwa okungadingekile noma uzinikele kunoma yikuphi okubekwe eceleni kokuqala noma uzoqiniseka ukuthi uzoqinisa izenzo zezingane zakudala. Musa ukusabela ngokumangala noma ukushaqeka noma ingane yakho encane izobona ukuthi isendleleni efanele yokushintsha ukuziphatha kwakho kunokuba uguqule.
Lezi zikhathi zokuphuma ngeke zilimaze ingane yakho, noma. Ngokuphambene nalokho, bazonciphisa ukuziphatha okungathandeki futhi okulimazayo ingane yakho ebonisa. Qinisekisa ukuthi uyazi umehluko phakathi kokukhungatheka okulula futhi okuklanyelwe ukuphatha lesi simo ekuzuzeni insizakalo yakho futhi ukuphatha ngendlela efanele.