Ingane Yami Ngeke Ihambe Emagumbini Okuphumula Emphakathini

Ukungafuni ukuhamba ngamanzi ezindaweni zokuphumula zomphakathi kuyinkinga evamile futhi kunezindlela eziningana ongayisingatha ngazo. Nikeza ezinye zezixazululo zamazame:

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Hamba Amanzi Ngaphambi Kokuhamba Ngekhaya Futhi Gcina Ukukhala Kwakho Kufushane
Izinkinga zamathambo. ULaura Natividad / Getty Images

Uma wazi ukuthi uzophuma futhi uhambe, yenza indodakazi yakho isebenzise indlu yokugezela ngaphambi kokuba usuke endlini. Gcina uhambo lwakho lokungenani futhi uma uphuma, yenza uhambo lwakho lufushane futhi luthande ngakho uzoba ekhaya ngesikhathi sokuhamba lapho isifiso siphinda futhi.

Lokhu ukugwema ngempela, Nokho, kunokuzama ukuxazulula le nkinga. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, ngincoma le nkambo yesenzo kuphela lapho inkinga inzima noma uma ingane yakho iqala ukugodla ukuya emanzini nhlobo. Lesi yisixazululo sesikhashana futhi kufanele uzame ezinye iziphakamiso ngezansi kancane kancane futhi uthembele ngalokhu kancane kancane.

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Hamba I-Potty Ekuzihumeni

Ngisho noma akudingeki uhambe futhi akudingeki ukuba ahambe, noma nini lapho uzithola khona emphakathini ube yisikhathi sokuba akubone usebenzisa indawo yokuphumula yomphakathi futhi ufunde ukuthi akuyona indawo esesabekayo ngemva kwakho konke . Ngisho noma uvele ugeze izandla zakho noma uhlole isibuko, mthathe naye. Lokhu kumnika ithuba lokuhlola izinto ngaphandle kwengcindezi noma umzabalazo wamandla. Angakwazi ukuhlola izinto bese azijwayele imvelo hhayi ukugxila kunoma yini enye. Ukujwayele ukuletha induduzo, ngakho kungamenza angabi nandaba nokuhamba emphakathini ngokwakhe.

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Nciphisa izinga leNzwa

Mhlawumbe inkinga enkulu kakhulu emakamelweni okugeza omphakathi yomsindo. Kuzingane ezithokozelayo, kungaba yizici ezinhliziyweni zabo. Thatha ama-plugs endlebe nawe noma ulayishe i-iPod yakho ngezingoma ezimbalwa ozithandayo ukuzithokozisa ngenkathi ubumbulu. Noma ulayishe i-video ye-iPod noma ifoni ngama-movie ahlekisayo - nje qaphela ukuthi ungayishiyi (ewww). Gwema izindawo zokuhlala ezinamakholi amaningi. Izitayela eziningi = umsindo ngaphezulu. Gwema ukushaya izandla - thatha amathawula akho ephepheni. Ema-movie, shaya umndeni noma indawo yokuphumula engavunyelwe (lokhu kuvame ukuba neyodwa indlu yangasese) esikhundleni somkhulu. Myeke esitokisini bese elinde ngendwangu ngenkathi uzomtshela. Khetha isitayela esingenayo ezinye izitayela ezizungezile noma ezizungezwe izitayela ezingaphephile ukuze ugcine umsindo ude.

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Thatha i-Insert noma uhlale nezingane zakho

Ngezinye izikhathi ungenza indawo engajwayelekile uzizwe unobungane ngokuletha okuthile ekhaya. Ungathatha isitifiketi sakho samanzi (lokho kuyinhloko enkulu, kodwa isebenza kwabanye) noma ukufakwa okuhambisana ngaphakathi kwesihlalo somuntu wangasese. Isithiyo esikhulu kwabanye abantwana ukwesaba ukuwela emanzini. Uma lokhu sekuvele kwenzeke kumntanakho futhi besaba ukuthi kuzokwenzeka futhi, khona-ke ngingasho ukuthi ukuthatha i-insert kuyimfuneko. Ngibone izinyanga zokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi ezinyangeni ezingaphezu kwengane ephuma esihlalweni futhi phansi kwayo ishaya amanzi. Uma ungafuni ukuthatha isihlalo noma ukufaka eceleni, bese uhlala nengane yakho. Hop endlini yangasese kude ngokwanele ukushiya igumbi elithile lomntanakho, umthole bese uyibamba ngenkathi ehamba.

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Gwema ukushayela

Esinye isithiyo singavela ekuqhumeni kwamanzi lapho ingane ihamba . Ukuze ugweme lokhu, shiya iphepha elithile langasese bese uliphonsa endlini yangasese ngaphambi kokuba ingane yakho ihambe ukuze i-poop ithole kancane i-pad yokufika. Lokhu kungaba yinkinga enkulu yezingane ezisetshenziselwa ukusebenzisa isihlalo samathambo ekhaya lapho kungekho khona amanzi ngaphakathi.

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Hamba Endaweni Ejabulisayo

Ukuphazamiseka kungaba yithuluzi elinamandla lapho ukhulisa izingane futhi lapha akuhlukile. Uma uya endaweni ethile ejabulisayo, ungase uthole ukuthi ingane yakho iphazamiseke kakhulu futhi igxile kukho konke okukhohlwa yiyo yonke into engafuni ukuya endlini yokugezela emphakathini. Lokhu kwakuyiqiniso ngempela endodaneni yami engayikuhamba, isikhathi. Ekhaya noma ngaphandle! Saya ku-Toys R Us futhi sihlola kuze kube yilapho ehamba khona. Wayekhululekile kakhulu, wangena wangena futhi wangena ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka futhi waphindela emuva ekuhloliseni wonke amathoyizi kamuva. Kwakuyizinsuku zokuphumelela, njengoba engakaze enenkinga yokuya emphakathini emva kwalokho. Ngakho khetha indawo lapho ingane yakho ithanda khona ukuyoyibona uma iyibuyisela noma imphazamisa ngokwanele ukuze izame umphakathi.

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Yenza "Ayikho Ibumbi, Alikho I-Play" Umthetho

Ungasebenzisa futhi izindawo ezimnandi ukuze uthole inzuzo ngezwi elithi "Uma," ke. "Uma uhamba ngamanzi, ungadlala epaki." Khetha endaweni ethi uyazi ukuthi uyathanda njengepaki noma umgodi webhola endaweni ye-pizza. Ngaphambi kwalokho, khuluma ngezinto zonke ezimnandi azithandayo ukuzenza lapho. Uma usukhona lapho, yiba nombono omkhulu-futhi-umtshele ukuthi udinga amanzi ngaphambi kokuba adlale. (Lokhu kuyindlela eqondile uma ezonda ukuphazamisa ukudlala ukuze kufike amandla.) Uma enqaba, mtshele ukuthi uzodingeka uhambe ekhaya ngoba akakwazi ukugubha noma ukubuka amathoyizi omphakathi. Mnike ithuba lokushintsha ingqondo yakhe, kodwa uma enqaba ukuhamba-futhi lena yingxenye ebaluleke kunazo zonke - landela futhi ubuyele ekhaya. Uma ungenjalo, uzokwazi ukuthi awunzima futhi leli qhinga ngeke lisebenze.

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Hamba Endaweni Eyaziwa noma Engaphezu Kakhulu ukuthi Akusikhaya

Ngezinye izikhathi, kunamazinga ahlukene omphakathi ukuthi ingane yakho izobe ibekezelela futhi ukuqhubeka kancane kancane kungenza izimangaliso. Zama ukuya ilungu lomndeni noma endlini yomngane bese usebenzisa indlu yabo yokugezela. Bese uzama ukusebenzisa indlu yokugezela esontweni. Bese uzama indlu yokugezela esitolo esincane, esithambile noma esitolo sekhofi. Umntanakho angase azuze ekungeneni kwezinye izindawo zokugeza ezahlukene nezingajwayelekile, kodwa mhlawumbe ama-stalls angama-8 000 aseWal-Mart amancane kakhulu okwamanje. Sebenzisa indlela yakho kuze kube yilapho.

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Bamba ama-Diapers bese Udonsa

Uma indodakazi yakho idinga i-diaper futhi ulungele, uyazi ukuthi ikhona lapho. Iba yi-crutch. Kodwa ingabe uyayidinga ngempela? Ngikuzwa uma usho ukuthi uzoba nenhlekelele uma ungamniki i-diaper, kodwa lokho engikuzwayo ukuthi uzohamba ngokushesha ngemuva kokubeka i-diaper nokuthi uzokwenza ngenhloso noma athole ngamabhantshi ngamabomu uma uyenqaba ukumnika i-diaper. Ngakho-ke, lokhu kungitshela ukuthi uyazi ukuthi wenzani futhi lokhu kuyinkinga yempi yokulwa naye. Kumele nje ubophe ngokuphelele izindiza. Qinisekisa ukuthi uyazi ukuthi uhambile nokuthi awuthengi futhi kusukela lapho ehle kakhulu ekusebenziseni indlu yokugezela. Ngikhetha ukuthi uzoba nomphumela ohlukile uma eyazi ukuthi abengekho lapho umelana nabo ngokubambelela kuye.

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Ukuzivocavoca, Ukuzijwayeza, Ukuzijwayeza nokudumisa

Uma ingane yakho ihamba ngokuphumelelayo, zibophezele ekutheni usebenzise okuningi. Hlanganisa izilinganiso ezincane ezizungeze izikhathi ezinamandla ukuze uqinise ikhono elisha. Ngesikhathi ususeduze namagumbi okuphumula, hlola kabili bese ubona uma kudingeka ahambe. Ngisho noma ngabe ingane yakho yenza intuthuko encane - manje uzimisele ukuma esitokisini ngenkathi uhamba, kodwa engakakulungeli ukwenza lokho, ngokwesibonelo - qhubeka uqhuba futhi ukhuthaze. Mnike indumiso ngomzamo owenzayo, kodwa ungadluli.

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Yihlambulule

Uma enengozi, qiniseka ukuthi nguye owenza iningi lokuhlanza. Uma ungakenzi lokhu ekhaya, qala. Ngiyacela. Ungayifaki kuye ngaphandle komphakathi. Qinisekisa ukuthi uyazi ukuthi lo msebenzi wakhe kusengaphambili. Lokhu akuyona nje isifundo sokuzimela nokuzibophezela, kodwa kuyisivimbela izingozi zesikhathi esizayo. Ukuhlanza izingozi kuyingozi futhi kuningi umsebenzi. Uzofunda ukuwagwema esikhathini esizayo uma kungenzeka kodwa hhayi uma uwenza wonke umsebenzi. Ngiyazi ukuthi abanye abazali bacabanga ukuthi lokhu kusho noma ukuthi izingane zabo azikwazi ukubhekana nazo, kodwa ngithembele, uma ingane yakho isilungele ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi, bese isilungele ukuhlanza izidakamizwa zayo. Vele uqiniseke ukuthi awuwuthathi njengesijeziso. Ingxenye nje yokuphila.

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Hlola ukuzwakalisa kwakho siqu

Khumbula futhi, ukuthi uqaphele noma yiziphi izimpawu ongazithumela. Uma unesihluku ubeka phansi abavikeli abangu-20, uphonsa uLysol yonke indawo, ugeza ngesekuhlanjululeni kwesinye isikhathi futhi uhlale umtshela ukuthi angathinti lutho, khona-ke kungenzeka ukuthi uyaziqhenya. Kuyinto eyodwa ukuphepha futhi uqaphele, kodwa enye ingesabekayo futhi iphele. Ngokuqinisekile ufuna ingane yakho ilandele izinqubo ezihlanzekile, kodwa okwamanje, gxila noma yikuphi ukwesaba okubonakalayo okungase kuthinte izinga lokunciphisa ingane yakho nezindawo zokuphumula zomphakathi.