Zombili ulimi oluthile nolwazi lobuchwepheshe lungcono
Ngesikhathi sokuqeqesha ama-potty , abazali bavame ukuzibuza ukuthi yiziphi amagama okufanele bazisebenzise nezingane. Ingabe ulimi olufana nokuhamba kwamathumba noma umchamo kufanelekile, noma abazali kufanele basebenzise amagama angaphezu kokuvamile njengokuthi i-poop ne-pee?
Ulimi Oluhlelekile Noma Oluhle Lokuqeqesha Amathambo Luhle
Kungakhathaliseki ukusebenzisa imigomo efanele emitholampilo yezingxenye zomzimba nokudoba yisinqumo esithandwa kakhulu futhi kuhilela njalo umlando womndeni wakho.
Abantu abanabantwana abathi "u-pee" no-"poop" bazosebenzisa le migomo nezingane zabo.
Akukho lutho olungalungile ngesitayela. Ngeke wenze ingane yakho noma yikuphi ukungabi nabulungisa noma ukulimala ngokusebenzisa amagama angane ukuchaza lezi zinto. Ingane, emva kwakho konke, ngaphandle uma uhlela ukumfihla, ekugcineni uzokufunda kokubili imigomo efanele kanye ne-slang okuzokwenza ube ngokuphelele. Ukubiza i-penis ngokuthi "wee wee" manje ngeke kuthinte lokho.
Ngokufanayo, kunamathuba amaningi okuletha imigomo efanele manje uma yilokho ongathanda ukukwenza. Ngokumnika kokubili amagama, ungase ucabange ukuthi cishe ungamdidanisa, kodwa okuphambene nakho kuyiqiniso. Uyamnika izindlela eziningi zokuziveza futhi ulwazimagama eziningi ukuze akwenze lapho ekulungele. Umama angasebenzisa uhlobo olulodwa lwezinhlobo zobumba futhi ubaba angasebenzisa enye, noma ungayikhetha kokubili.
Ulimi lwePotty Akufanele Lube Ulimi Lokwazisa
Ukudideka kungase kwenzeke, noma kunjalo, uma unquma ukuqeda ngokuphelele noma ukudikibala amagama athile noma wengeze imizwa emibi kumazwi.
Isibonelo, uma ungakhululekile kakhulu ngamazwi umyeni wakho asetshenziswayo, ungase uthande ukucabangela ukuthi kungani lokhu kukhona. Ngokwesibonelo, ingabe uthola ukuhlazeka noma uzizwa unamahloni ngalezi zwi noma ngabe akuzona amagama okuqalekisa futhi kufanele usebenzise emphakathini? Lesi simo sengqondo singathunyelwa kalula kumntanakho, ikakhulukazi uma wena noshade naye nixabana ngakho noma niyala noma niyiqondise phambi kwengane yakho uma zisebenzisa lawa magama.
Ufuna ingane yakho ikhululeke ukukhuluma ngazo zonke izici zokusebenzisa indlu yokugezela kanye nawe, futhi kungase kube lula futhi ukhululeke kakhulu ukuthi indodana yakho ithi, "I-poo poo ibuhlungu" kunokuthi, "Nginenkinga ngesilonda sami ukunyakaza. " Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi uma engenawo umyalo oqinile wamakhono akhe olimi okwamanje.
Ulimi Lokubumbisa Kufanele Lulinganiswe G
Uma amagama owakwakho noma oshade naye abasebenzisa akufanelekile, futhi angasetshenziselwa ukuzungeze iqembu labangane bakho (okusho amanye amamazana nabancane noma omunye umuntu onengqondo owake waba nomntwana), kufanele nakanjani ukhulume ngokusebenzisa amagama afanelekile. Akukho lutho oluhle noma oluthuthukile olufanele ekufundiseni ingane encane ukuba ufunge. Futhi cishe akunakwenzeka ukufundisa ingane encane ukuthi kuhle ukukhuluma igama elilodwa ekhaya kepha ungasebenzisi igama elifanayo esitolo sokudlela. Ngakho-ke, uma ubheke ukusebenzisa enye inguqulo ye-potty, qiniseka ukuthi iphephile ukusetshenziswa komphakathi.
Uma indodana yakho isivele isebenzisa amagama angaphatha isilinganiso se-R, yeka lokhu masinyane futhi wenze konke okusemandleni akho ukungazinaki ukuziphatha kubantwana bakho. Kungaba isilingo sokwenza into enkulu mayelana nokuvinjelwa amagama noma ukudala ilebula elishaqisayo ("Leli gama elibi!"), Kodwa lokhu cishe kwenza inkinga ibe yimbi nakakhulu futhi inikeze igama elicasulayo kakhulu kunomntwana wakho osemncane.
Izithelo ezingavunyelwe zithandwa kakhulu kulokhu futhi zifanekisela ulimi olufanele kunalokho luzohamba ngendlela ende ekushintsheni ukuziphatha.
Ulimi lwe-potty lokunakekelwa kwezingane luyisintu
Enye inkinga okufanele ucatshangelwe ukunakekelwa kwengane. Ngesikhathi ngibephethe amaqembu ezincane, angizange ngidikibe ukusetshenziswa kwamagama. Ezinye izingane zingathi zifuna ukuhamba. Abanye bangabuza ngokuzithoba ukuthi basebenzise indawo yokugezela. Enye intombazane yambiza ngokuthi "bum bum" yakhe phansi futhi yayihlale ihleka ekilasini ngoba akekho omunye owakusho lokho. Ebalalweni lokudlala futhi ngesikhathi sokudlala izingane zazijabulela ukusebenzisa amagama amasha abawazwile (ama-potty-related or not), kodwa ngisebenzisa ulimi olufanayo kukho konke.
Ngangihlale ngithi "ngamanzi" esikhundleni se "indlu yangasese", futhi ngangihlale ngithi "pee" futhi "poop."
Encwadini yakhe ethi The Girlfriend's Guide to Toddlers , uVicki Iovine uyibhala kahle, ethi, "Kuhle kangakanani ukufundisa ingane yakho ukuthi ibuze umhlinzeki wakhe wezinsuku ukuthi ingahamba yini egumbini lokugezela ize (njengoba ngifunga intombi yami ufundiswe umama ophelile) lapho zonke ezinye izingane zitshelwe ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuhamba ngamanzi? Akukwazi ukusiza kepha kube usizo kubantu abaqeqeshwayo ukuze babelane ngolwimi oluvamile. " Buza umhlinzeki wakho wokunakekelwa kwengane amagama asetshenziswe esikoleni sasenkulisa bese ufaka lolo limi endlini yakho yomlando.