Amashadi okuziphatha - lapho okwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya, ukuziphatha , nokuphatha imisebenzi yokunakekelwa yimivuzo - kungaba izindlela eziphumelelayo zokuthola izingane ukuba zenze lokho abazali abafuna. Kodwa ngokuvamile abazali bezingane ezinesidingo esikhethekile bathola ukuthi izingane zabo aziphenduli kumashadi amaphuzu; lo mqondo awunabonakaliso noma ukuthokozisa kubambezelekile. Ukulungisa nokucacisa umqondo weshadi ezithandweni ezithile namakhono akho wengane kungasiza.
Nansi indlela yokwenza ngayo.
Indlela Yokwenza Ishadi Lakho Lokuziphatha Lisebenze
- Yenza okulungile. Yenza ishadi lonke mayelana nokuvuza ukuziphatha okuhle, hhayi ukuhlawulisa okungalungile. Yenza umcimbi omkhulu othakazelisayo ngokubeka amaphuzu noma ukuhlola izinto. Ungafaki icala ngezinto ezingabhekiwe. Ishadi lithuba lokuthola isikweletu esengeziwe sezinto ezenziwe kahle.
- Yenza impumelelo lula. Ungafaki ishadi ngezinto ezinkulu eziyinselele ongathanda ukuba ingane yakho iyenze. Kunezimbalwa zalezi zinsuku, kodwa qiniseka ukuthi kunezinye izinto azisebenzisayo njalo, futhi izinto ezimbalwa ezilula kakhulu ezothola amanye amaphuzu noma ukuhlola amamaki. Engeza isigaba esisodwa "esingavumelani" sokuvuza izenzo ezingahleliwe zokuziphatha okuhle.
- Nikeza amaphuzu aguqukayo. Uma ingane yakho ingakwazi njalo ukwenza izinto eshadini ngaphandle kosizo, bese ukwandisa inani lamaphuzu atholakalayo kulowo msebenzi, futhi ubanikeze ngokwenza umzamo. Isibonelo, uma ingane yakho inenkathazo yokugqoka ekuseni, ungase unikeze amaphuzu amathathu uma eyenza yona, amabili uma nje nje kufanele usize kancane, futhi uma kufanele umenze agqoke kodwa esebenzisana naye. Ngaleyo ndlela, uyakwazi ukwenza isipiliyoni esihle cishe cishe noma yimuphi umphumela.
- Ukuvuza ukuziphatha okuhle esikoleni. Cela uthisha wengane yakho ukuthi athumele ekhaya umbiko wokuziphatha nsuku zonke; uma kunesidingo, thumela ngendlela elula engahlolwa ngokushesha. Amaphuzu wamaphuzu asekelwe ekusebenzeni. Yenza into enkulu yokubeka labo eshadini, kodwa uma ingane yakho inosuku olubi, ungenzi into enkulu yokungabangeli. Inhlanhla engcono kusasa.
- Zama ukuhluka okuncane okungabonakali. Uma ingane yakho 'ingatholi' ishadi ngamaphuzu noma amasheksi, zama ukubeka ubuso obumnandi noma izitifiketi eshadini lemiphumela ephumelelayo. Noma weqa ishadi uphinde ufake ama-pennies embizeni noma kunini lapho uthanda into eyenziwe yingane yakho. Engeza ubuhlalu bezintambo, i-Legos kumbhoshongo we-Lego, ama-raber bands kubhola ye-rubber-band. Noma yini ehilela ukungeza kokuthile kuyosebenza.
- Buyekeza ishadi njalo ebusuku. Lokhu kukunika elinye ithuba lokunikeza impendulo enhle ngemisebenzi eyenziwe kahle. Uma ingane yakho isabela kahle emikhankaso yesikhathi esifushane, unganikeza into efana nesitika esincane semaphuzu atholakele. Noma sebenzisa isithombe sekhamera yedijithali ukuze wenze imali encane ngesithombe somntwana wakho kuso, futhi ube nokukhokha kwansuku zonke; ukhethe imali "ekupheleni kwesonto ukuze uthole umvuzo omkhulu, noma uvumele ingane yakho isebenzise" ukuthenga "izinto kulo lonke isonto.
- Yenza imivuzo ishukumise. Ezinye izingane zikhuthazwa kakhulu yisabelo, futhi kubo ukukhokhela iphuzu ekupheleni kwesonto kumele kube khona imali. Yakha imali kusengaphambili bese uyibeka eshadini. Uma imali ingashukumisi, thola into ekhona - ithoyizi encane? ukudla kwasemini okusheshayo? isikhathi segeyimu yevidiyo? into ethile ekhethiwe yebhokisi lesidlo sasemini? amapennies? a "phuma ekhadini le-free"? Yenza ubuciko, futhi ubheke izinto ingane yakho efisa ngempela, hhayi izinto eziyoba nomqondo kuwe.
- Yenza imivuzo itholakale. Uma unomntwana onomoya ozimisele kodwa inyama ibuthakathaka, qiniseka ukuthi njalo uthola umvuzo othile. Umqondo lapha ukuba nomthelela ngokuphumelela, hhayi okungalungile nokulahla. Nikeza izinga eliphansi lokuvuza kwamaphuzu atholakele - imali encane yemali, uma lokho kungumvuzo, noma amakilasi amancane ezokugqugquzela izinto. Uma ingane yakho ingakwazi ukusebenza nawe kulokhu, faka imivuzo ndawonye bese uvumelana nabo. Beka amathuba eshadini.
- Yenza imivuzo isebenze. Unganikeli noma yini ongayikhulumi. Ukuhamba okukhulu noma amathoyizi amakhulu kunenkathazo; ukulahlekelwa kuyo kuyoba yinto engafanele kumntanakho uma engaphumeleli ekutholeni amaphuzu anele, futhi kungenzeka kube nzima kuwe ukuletha ngokuthembeka. Uma ingane yakho ihola imali, yibeke imali eceleni kweviki ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi wenza leyo payday.
- Tune kahle ishadi njalo. Amakhono wengane yakho nezidingo zomndeni wakho kuyashintsha, futhi ishadi kufanele liguqule futhi. Yenza lokhu ngokubambisana nengane yakho uma kungenzeka. Engeza imisebenzi emisha njengoba ikhono lomntanakho landa, futhi ususe izinto ezingavamile ukuphumelela kuzo. Qhubeka ucabangisisa imivuzo emisha nezindlela ezintsha zokuzithola. Ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi ingane yakho ikwazi ukuzuza njalo futhi ijabule ngokwenza lokho kuyimfihlakalo yangempela kwishadi eliziphatha kahle.
Amathiphu
- Amakhuphoni wemisebenzi oyifunayo, noma ukugwema abangathandeki, angaba umvuzo omuhle wezinto ezithinta izinkomba zokuziphatha. Zama amakhuphoni aphrintiwe ngaphambilini, noma udwebe okwakho.
- Uma ukhetha ishadi langakwenziwe ngaphambili ozozakhela lona, hlola izinketho ezinikezwa yi-Victoria Chart Company. Zadalwa ngumama wengane ene-cerebral palsy, owaqala ukudala amashadi ukuze ashukumise indodana yakhe ukuba ihambe.