Uyakhathalela uma unodokotela wesilisa noma wesifazane?
Uma kuziwa kumsebenzi wakho ingxoxo yezobulili iyinto evuthayo phakathi kwabesifazane. Ingabe kufanele ukhethe udokotela wesilisa noma wesifazane ? Ingabe omunye unenzuzo ngaphezu kwesinye? Abesifazane abaningi bathi yebo, kukhona umehluko omkhulu, kanti abanye bathi cha; konke kuxhomeke kubuntu, hhayi ubulili, udokotela.
"Ngangifuna umuntu ongakwazi ukuqonda ukuthi ngangikuphi lapho ngikhulelwe.
Ngako-ke ngashintsha isisu somzimba wami wesilisa ngokuvamile, ngoba wayebelethile, "kusho u-Andrea okokuqala.
Ingabe ukwazi ukuthi ukuphikisana kukuzwa kanjani ukwenza udokotela wakho abe udokotela ongcono? Mhlawumbe hhayi, ikakhulukazi ucabangela ukuthi kukhona odokotela besifazane abangakaze babelethe noma abazange baphinde bahlukane. Ngokuqinisekile lokhu kungaba yinto esiza ngozwela, kodwa kunezinto eziningi ezingasiza kulokhu okungafani nokuzenza ngokwabo.
"Udokotela wami wesilisa wayengekho lapho ngiya emsebenzini. Umhlengikazi wangitshela ukuthi kwakungudokotela wesifazane," kusho uRobin, wokuzalwa kwakhe kokuqala. "Ngikhumbula ngicabanga, 'Oh uzoba kuhle futhi aqonde.' Lokho akulona iqiniso, wayenesihluku! Udokotela wami wesilisa wayezwela kakhulu. "
Into eyodwa esijwayele ukuyikhohlwa yukuthi ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili eceleni; odokotela baye baqeqeshwa ngokuyisisekelo ohlelweni olufanayo. Lokhu kusho ukuthi okuningi ukuthi bahlobene kanjani neziguli kungalandelwa ohlelweni lwabo lokuqeqesha hhayi ubulili babo, ukungalokothi babhekise ubuntu obuyisisekelo.
Kungaba okungaqondile ukuthi bonke abantu basabela ngendlela eyodwa nabo bonke abesifazane besinye. Ukuphila akusebenzi nje ngaleyo ndlela. Sifakwe ekuhlangenwe nakho kwethu okudlulile, ukuqeqesha kwethu, nokuthi ngubani nje esijwayelekile.
Ingabe impikiswano yobulili ilaka kwezinye izindawo? Wena ukugembula kuyakwenza. Bheka ukunyuka kokubeletha. Abesifazane bathi bafuna ukunakekelwa abanye besifazane.
Umbelethi usho owesifazane . Lokho kusho ukuthi kunabambelekazi abangamadoda ambalwa ngaphandle lapho. Abaningi babo basempi, kepha lokho kusakazeka ezindaweni eziningi. Heck, kukhona ngisho nasilisa wesilisa ngaphandle lapho esebenza ngokujabula nangempumelelo ezweni lokuzalwa.
Abanye bazibuza ukuthi lokhu kufanele kuvunyelwe. Iqiniso lendaba ukuthi abesifazane bakhetha ukubona abasebenza ngokusekelwe ezizathu eziningi ezihlukene , kubandakanya ubulili kwabanye, kodwa futhi indawo, lapho bahlala khona, yimuphi umshuwalense abawuthathayo kanye namafilosofi omkhuba wabo. Uma ngabe kunjalo kungani ungavumeli amadoda ukuba asebenzise ukubeletha? Phela, unelungelo lokungahambi nalezi zenzo.
Eminye imikhuba iyakhuphuka efana nobulili obulodwa (amadoda noma abesifazane) kulabo abathandayo.
"Ngangifuna ngempela udokotela wesifazane," kuchaza uCheri, nomntwana wakhe wesibili. "Bengingacabangi ukuthi ngingakwazi ukulawula ukuqinisekisa ukuthi udokotela wami uhlale ekhona, kodwa okungenani ngawo wonke umkhuba wesifazane ngangazi ukuthi emuva kwami kungaba owesifazane futhi yilokho engangikudingayo."
Ngenkathi abesifazane abaningi benokuthandwa ngokobulili odokotela noma ababelethisi babo, isifundo esenziwe yi-American College of OB / GYNs (ACOG) sithi abesifazane abaningi abanalo okuthandayo kumuntu noma owesifazane.
Lokhu kusho, kuyinto eqhubekayo yokuthi abesifazane bazoqhubeka bekhetha odokotela babo nabanye abahlinzeki ngokusekelwe ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene. Lezi zizathu zomuntu siqu zihlala ebaluleke kakhulu kulokhu okubaluleke kakhulu.