Izindlela Eziyishumi Zokuthuthukisa Ingane Yakho Ingane

Amasu akhethekile ngezidingo ezikhethekile

Abaningi bethu baqala ukukhulisa abazali ngendlela esabazali ngayo, futhi silindele ukuthi izingane zethu zisabele ngendlela esenze ngayo. Izingane ezinesidingo esikhethekile , noma kunjalo, kungenzeka zisiphonse ijika. Uma izindlela zokuzama nezokuqiniso zikamama wakho nobaba zingayinqumanga nendodana yakho nendodakazi yakho, sekuyisikhathi sokwenza ushintsho. Amasu ayishumi lapha angase ahambisane nalokho oye waholelwa ekukhuliseni abantwana, kodwa izingane ezihlukile zidinga ukuhlakanipha okuhlukile.

1 -

Qala ngokuhlaziywa kokuziphatha

Cabanga ngendlela yokuziphatha okubi njengemfihlakalo, i-whodunnit eyinkimbinkimbi ngezinkomba nezisusa kanye nezimpande ezibomvu. Ubani onomthwalo wemfanelo? Benzani? Ngabe, kuphi, futhi kungani kwenzeke? Ukuhlaselwa eziphethweni ezifanayo lapho ingane yakho ingalungile kufana nokubopha umqashi noma kunini lapho kubulawa khona ukubulala. Ukuze uqalise, funda ukuthi "Kungani Ingane Yami Injalo?" futhi ube ngumhloli womzali ongcono.

Okuningi

2 -

Sebenzisa Ishadi Lendlela Yokuziphatha

Cabanga ukuthi ingane yakho ngeke iqonde / ihambisane / inakekele ngeshadi lokuziphatha? Uma ucabanga ngesistimu yendabuko ye-chore-for-reward, kungenzeka ukuthi ulungile. Kodwa ngobuciko obuncane, kufanele ukwazi ukuza ngeshadi noma uhlelo olufanayo lokugqugquzela oluzokwenza ingane yakho ibe nesizathu sokujabulisa kakhulu. Ukuze uqalise, funda "Indlela Yokwenza I-Charts Working Charts" futhi uhlele eyodwa nezidingo zakho ezinganeni eziyinselele.

Okuningi

3 -

Khetha izimpi zakho

"Kungani konke kufanele kube ukulwa okunjalo ?" Yilokho okungenzeka ukuthi ubuze ingane yakho isikhathi noma eziyishumi, kodwa umbuzo kufanele uzibuze, futhi: Kungani konke kufanele kube ukulwa okunjalo? Ingabe yonke impi oyikhethayo kufanele iqoke? Gxila kwimigomo ebalulekile futhi izimpi ongayinqoba. Ukuze uqale, funda "Ukukhetha Izimpi Zakho" futhi ucabange ukuthi yiziphi izimo ongazinikela ngempela ekushintsheni.

Okuningi

4 -

Bala ukuya ku-10

"I-one-two-three" ingaba umlingo kwabanye abantwana, kodwa izingane ezinesidingo esikhethekile zingadinga isikhathi esengeziwe ukwenza konke ukuhlelwa nokuhlelwa kwemoto kuthatha ukuhamba ngokuthula kusukela esikhathini esidlule kuya kwesinye. Ukuphoqelela inkinga nge-matatu-esheshayo yokubala cishe izophela ekusikheni nasekuziphatheni okubi - futhi okuvela kuwe kuphela. Ukuqalisa, funda "Ukubala kuya ku-10" bese uzama inqubo enikeza wonke umuntu igumbi elincane lokuphefumula.

Okuningi

5 -

Gcina Big "Bag of Tricks"

Ukuphazamiseka okuncane kuvame ukuthatha konke ukukhipha ukuziphatha okubi. Ukuba nokunikezwa kwezinto kanye nemibono yokuguqula ingane yakho njalo, futhi kuvuselelwe njalo, kungenza umehluko phakathi kwesikhala esimhlophe, senkinga, isikhathi sokumnandi nokuhleka, okuhlekisayo, okwanelisayo. Ukuze uqalise, funda ethi "Thatha Ibhulogi Elikhulu" bese uqala ukugcwalisa isikhwama sakho noma isikhwama se-diaper ngezinto ezithembela noma ezithuthukisa ingane yakho ngokuthembekile.

Okuningi

6 -

Setha Imigomo Yokuthola

Akukubi ukufisa ingane yakho, noma ukuba nethemba eliphezulu. Kodwa uma ubeka ibha ngokuphindaphindiwe kunokuba ingane yakho ikwazi ukufinyelela, udala isipiliyoni esiqhubekayo sokuhluleka. Ukuqeda imigomo emikhulu kubantwanyana kukusiza ukwakha empumelelweni.

7 -

Gcina ithrekhi yezinguquko

Izinguquko zikhohlisayo ezinganeni ezinesidingo esikhethekile, kanye nabazali bazo abacindezelekile, futhi. Kungcono ucabange lezo zinguquko eziyingozi zomsebenzi ngokusengaphambili kunokubhekana nokuqedwa okungenakugwema okwenzeka ngemuva kokuphathwa kabi. Ukuze uqale, funda "Indlela Yokwenza Ushintsho" futhi ucabange ngokuvumela isikhathi esengeziwe, izixwayiso, nobubele njengoba uhambisa ingane yakho ngosuku lwakhe.

Okuningi

8 -

Yisho Okushiwo

Uyazi ukuthi ingane yakho ayitholi izibalo zokukhuluma kanye nezwi lezwi nokuhlekisa, ukhuthaze abanye ukuba baqonde ekukhulumisaneni kwabo ... kodwa uma kuziwa kokubeka umthetho ekhaya, ngezinye izikhathi uwela izicupho ezifanayo? Ukusula ukuxhumana kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe kunanoma ubani. Ukuze uqalise, funda ukuthi "Yisho Okushoyo" futhi uqinisekise ukuthi okulindelweyo kubonakala kubantwana bakho njengoba kunjalo kuwe.

Okuningi

9 -

Isikhathi sokukhipha amabala

Ukuphuma isikhathi kungaba yithuluzi eliphumelelayo lezingane ezinesidingo esikhethekile, kodwa ukuthumela ingane egumbini lakhe lapho ikamelo lakhe lapho efuna ukuba khona liphikisana nakho, futhi akusizi kakhulu uma uhlala esitolo noma esitolo noma epaki . Njengakho konke okunye, kuzodingeka ube nokudala. Ukuze uqalise, funda "ama-Top 10 Time-Out Spots" futhi ukhethe okusebenza kumntanakho noma okukugqugquzela ukuthi ucabangele owakho.

Okuningi

10 -

Hlala Ufuna Indlela Engcono

Uma uthola indlela esebenzela ingane yakho, mkhulu! Jabulela umuzwa wokufaneleka komzali ngenkathi iqhubeka, ngoba ushintsho olusha olusha luzofuna indlela entsha. Ukufunda izincwadi zokubeletha ezibhekene ngqo nezidingo ezikhethekile-izidingo zingakulethela imibono namasu amasha njalo. Ukuze uqalise, funda izibuyekezo ku- Club Yomzali Enyunyiwe futhi uthole ukukhuthazwa kochwepheshe nabazali njengawe.

Okuningi