Izinketho kanye Nemibono Kuwe Nengane Yakho
Amaholidi yisikhathi esimnandi sabantwana abathile. Izibani ezikhanyayo, umculo kaKhisimusi, izigqoko, amaqembu, nokuvakashelwa noSanta kungaba yizinto ezijabulisayo zokukhumbula izingane. Nokho, izingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile nabazali bazo, izenzakalo eziba nomsindo omkhulu, izixuku ezinkulu, nezibani ezikhanyayo zingaba nzima kakhulu.
Okubaluleke nakakhulu kungaba yizigwebo zabanye zengane engaziphathe ngendlela ezindelwe.
Amehlo agijiwe lapho ingane ingakwazi ukuphendula masinya embuzweni othi "ufuna iSanta ikulethe?" Ukuhleka kwengqondo lapho ingane iguqa phansi, ikakhulukazi uma "indala ngokwanele ukuziphatha."
Kungaba ukuzama ukushabalala ekhaya lakho ngezidingo zakho ezikhethekile ingane bese uvala umhlaba ngaphandle. Ngezinye izikhathi, kuye ngokuthi ingane yakho nesimo sakho, akusona ukukhetha okubi. Kodwa zikhona ezinye izindlela ezinhle zokuthi imindeni enezidingo ezikhethekile idinga izingane ukuba zijabulele amaholide ngaphandle kobuhlungu. Nazi ezinye iziphakamiso eziphezulu zokwenza isizini siqhakazile!
Gwema izixuku ngenkathi ujabulela ukuzijabulisa
Izixuku zinzima kubantu abaningi, futhi izingane ezinesidingo esikhethekile, zingaba nzima kakhulu. Izingane ezidangeleke kakhulu zincibilika kakhulu, zihlukumeza, noma zimane zishaye. Ukugwema inkinga, gwema izixuku. Nansi indlela:
- Esikhundleni sezingqungquthela kanye nemicimbi emikhulu yokukhanya kaKhisimusi edolobheni, cabanga ukuthatha imoto yokushayela ukuze ubone ezinye zezinto zokukhanya ezihamba phambili zendawo. Ezinye izindawo zize zinikeze izikrini ezinkulu zokushayela ngezinga eliphezulu. Ungakwazi ukujabulela izimangaliso zezibani ezinhle ngaphandle komkhuhlane, umsindo, noma izixuku!
- Vakashela imibukiso eholide ekhethekile emahoreni amahora. Bheka amafasitela eholide lapho izitolo zivaliwe, noma ungene emamyuziyamu ezihlotshisiwe noma ezitolo kuqala into yokuqala ekuseni lapho kungekho omunye okhuphukile okwamanje.
- Esikhundleni sokuya esitolo ukuze uvakashele i-Santa, mema "uSanta" ukuvakashela ikhaya lakho ingxoxo yomuntu siqu.
- Kunokuba uvakashele iMakethe yaseKhisimusi egcwele kakhulu edolobheni, hlala endaweni yokubeletha lapho uhlala khona lapho amahlumela amahle eholide nezibani zakha isimangaliso esincane.
- Hlola iphepha ne-Google ye-Santas Friendly Santas, izitolo, ama-movie, nokuningi. Imiphakathi eminingi idala ukuhlangenwe nakho okuqondiswe ngokukhethekile nezidingo zezingane kanye nabantu abadala abacindezeleka kalula.
- Hlala ekhaya ubhake amakhukhi, wenze izigcawu zephepha, uthathe ama-snowflakes, noma mhlawumbe ube nenjabulo kumntanakho. Uma udinga ukwenza iningi lomsebenzi, kulungile!
Jabulela amaHholide ama-Little ngesikhathi
Imindeni eminingi ijwayele ukuhamba ngokugcwele nge-Nutcracker noma uMesiya. Futhi lapho behamba ngetitolo lokuthenga iholide kuyinhlangano yamahora amaningi. I-Christmas ku-Grandma iqala ekuseni futhi ayiqedi kuze kube mnyama. Kodwa kunezindlela eziningi zokujabulela okuhlangenwe nakho kweholide ngesilinganiso esincane, futhi izingane eziningi ezinezidingo ezikhethekile zingakwazi ukuphatha amaholide amancane. Ngokwesibonelo:
- Esikhundleni sokuya emculweni womculo noma umcimbi wokudansa nomntanakho, cabangela amancane, ukusebenza kwendawo noma amakhonsathi angacashi kahle, angabizi futhi afushane. Ngisho noma ingane yakho iqala ukudilika phakathi nendawo futhi kudingeka uhambe, uzokwazi ukuthi ingane yakho yayinomdlavuza we-classic.
- Hlela emigwaqweni emifushane, elula yokuthenga enengqondo kumntanakho. Esikhundleni sokuzama ukwenza konke ngesikhathi esisodwa, thatha ingane yakho ukuyothenga izipho ezikhethekile noma ezimbili ezikhethekile kubangani noma kumalungu omndeni. Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuba ikhethe isipho esithile kumuntu othandekayo ukuze abe nokuhlangenwe nakho kokubukela beyivula!
- Uma uhlela usuku lwakho lweKhisimusi langempela, cabanga ngezidingo zengane yakho ngaphambi kokwenza noma yikuphi ukuzibophezela. Uma ingane yakho ingakwazi ukusingatha amahora ambalwa (kodwa hhayi usuku lonke) lomndeni ndawonye, sinqume kusengaphambili isikhathi amahora abaluleke kakhulu. Vumela umndeni wakho onwetshiwe wazi plan yakho, futhi unamathela kuso.
- Uma uvame ukuya ezinkonzweni zenkolo ngoKhisimusi, cabanga ukuhlezi eduze kwendlu engcwele ukuze ube "nomzila wokubalekela" olula. Uma ubude besevisi buba nzima kakhulu kumntanakho, ungashaya i-Retreat elula.
Ukukhathazeka Okuncane Ngokuphathelene "Nesikhathi Esifanele" Okuhlangenwe nakho
Izingane eziningi ezinesidingo esikhethekile "zincane kuneminyaka yazo." Umntwana oneminyaka engu-12 ubudala onesidingo esikhethekile angase athole ukukhishwa okukhulu ngaphandle kwezinsuku zeholidini uThomas the Toy Tank Engine noma ukuvakashelwa noSanta.
Ngalesi sikhathi esikhethekile sonyaka, noma kunjalo, wonke umuntu uyisana! Cabanga ukukhetha amathoyizi ambalwa kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho okuzophinde kuhambisane nengane yakho noma ngabe ihloselwe izingane ezincane. Phela, abantu abadala abadala basabathanda ukubuka iRudolph i-Red-Nosed Reindeer nokuthi i -Grinch igweme kanjani uKhisimusi ! Amathuba ambalwa okucatshangelwa:
- Vumela ingane yakho ihlose amakhukhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukuhlobisa kubonakala kanjani.
- Buka i-Muppets Christmas Carol esikhundleni sezinguquko eziningana zendaba.
- Gcina izipho ezimbalwa ingane ozothandayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uneminyaka yobudala ebhokisini.
Yiba Mnene Wena Nengane Yakho
Kungokwemvelo ukuzizwa ucindezelekile lapho ingane enezidingo ezikhethekile ingabonakali "ukuthola" amaholide noma ukwazisa konke okwenzayo ukuze inkathi ikhetheke. Kungaba nzima ukukhuthazelela ukulingana kanye nokuphawula komndeni nabangane abangenakuqonda ukuthi kungani ingane yakho ingathokozi kahle futhi ingenele. Awukwazi ukushintsha ukuziphatha noma imizwa yabanye abantu, kodwa ungashintsha owakho. Ukuze wenze amaholide kube lula kuwo wonke umuntu (kufaka phakathi nawe!):
- Khumbula ukuthi amaholide akuzona ukuthola udumo noma ukwazisa; bakha ukwakha ubudlelwano nezinkumbulo (futhi, kubantu abaningi, ngokukhumbula ukubaluleka okungokwenkolo kaKhisimusi). Uma ukwazi ukukhumbula ngisho nezikhathi ezimbalwa ezikhethekile uma amaholide eseqedile, uphumelele!
- Zama ukuthola izindlela zokuxhumana nomntwana wakho ezingeni lakhe noma ezungeze izithakazelo zakhe. Kungenzeka yini ukuthi uthole indlela yokudonsela isithakazelo ezintweni ezithandekayo, ngisho nengxenye yehora? Ungase umangale ngemiphumela emihle oyitholayo!
- Zinike imvume yokuhamba kude nezimo ezinzima. Ngenkathi ezinye imindeni nabangani abangasondeka kungaba mnandi ngezidingo ezikhethekile zezingane, abanye ... abangekho. Uma umndeni wakho uwela kulolo qembu lesibili, kuhle ukupakisha ekuseni bese ubuyela ekhaya. Awukho ngaphansi kwesibopho sokunamathela esimweni esingathandeki.
- Thola ukwesekwa uma udinga. Mhlawumbe udinga ngempela ukuya emculweni we-carol, isevisi yesonto, noma iqembu elikhethekile ngisho noma ingane yakho ingakwazi noma ingeke. Akukho lutho olungalungile ngokucela ukunakekelwa okuncane okuvela kubahlobo noma emndenini ukuze ukwazi ukuthola ulwazi oludingayo ukuze ulayishe futhi ukhumbule ukuthi kungani amaholidi ekhethekile!
Izwi elivela ku-Verywell
Kubantu abaningi, amaholide anecindezelayo noma ngaphandle kwezingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile. Kodwa amaholidi empeleni yisikhathi esiphelele sonyaka sokuthatha isinyathelo emuva, qaphela ukuthi kwenzekani kahle phakathi nenkathi yonyaka odlule, futhi ukugubha ukunqoba okuncane. Futhi yisikhathi esihle sonyaka ongasichitha nabantu obathandayo. Uma lokho kusho amakhukhi ambalwa okubhaka noma amakhadi ambalwa amancane athunyelwe, kuyintengo encane okufanele ukhokhe ukuxhuma (noma ukuxhuma kabusha) nalokho okwenza ingane yakho ibe mnandi kakhulu!