Ingabe ingane yami isemncane kakhulu ukuya ekunakekelweni kwansuku?
Iyiphi iminyaka yokubeka ingane yakho ekunakekelweni kwezinsuku yisinqumo somuntu siqu futhi sincike ezintweni eziningi. Izinto ezinjalo zihlanganisa ubude bekhefu lakho lokubeletha; ikhono lomlingani wakho lokuthatha isikhathi emsebenzini; imithwalo yemfanelo yakho yezezimali; futhi ngabe unezinye izinketho zokunakekela izingane ezikhona, njengezihlobo. Uma isikhathi eside umzali angalinda emva kokuzalwa kwezingane ukuze abekwe ekunakekelweni kwelanga kungcono ukuvumela isikhathi ukuqala okunamathiselwe okuphephile, intambo yomzimba ukuphulukisa ngokugcwele, ukuthola ukudla nokulala namaphethini nokunye okusha okusha okuvela kokubili kokubili umzali nengane ukusabalalisa.
Kodwa-ke, njengoba omama abasebenza abaningi banesonto elilodwa kuphela lesonto lokubeletha futhi imindeni yabo incike emholweni wabo, ukulinda kuze kube yilapho ingane ikhulile akuyona inketho. Izinsuku eziningi zokuhamba zingeke zithathe abantwana abangaphansi kwamasonto ayisithupha ubudala. Izakhiwo eziningi zezikhungo azikwazi ukuphatha izidingo ezikhethekile ezinganeni ezelwe ngaphambi kwesikhathi noma ngezidingo ezikhethekile zezokwelapha kule minyaka encane kakhulu.
Ngifanele Ngiqale Ngifuna Abahlinzeki Bosuku?
Lokhu kungahle kumangale, kodwa abazali kufanele baqale ukufuna abahlinzeki bezinsuku ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Uma wazi ukuthi uzodinga ukubuyela emuva emsebenzini esikhathini esithile sese uqale ukuhlola izikweletu zangaphambi kwesikhathi. Ngale ndlela ungabhekana nanoma yiziphi izinkinga zokunakekela izingane ngaphambi kokuba unakekele nosana olusanda kuzalwa, ululame kusukela ekuzalweni futhi uphathwe nemizwelo yokubuyela emsebenzini .
Yiziphi Izinto Okufanele Ngizifune Ngomhlinzeki Wezinsuku?
Uma uhlola usuku lwezinsuku, kubalulekile ukubuza ukuthi uqiniseke ukuthi ubuza imibuzo eminingi ngokuthi ngabe isikhungo sokunakekelwa kwesikhashana sinikwe ilayisense, yiziphi iziqu zabasebenzi, yimuphi isilinganiso sabantwana abanikezela ngabanikazi kanye nokuthi yisiphi isakhiwo sosuku .
Kubalulekile ukuthi abazali bahlale bekhululekile futhi beqiniseka ngokunakekelwa kwabantwana babo ngenkathi besebenza.
Izingane zithuthuka ezimweni lapho kunakekelwa okuningi okukodwa kusuka kumnakekeli oyedwa lapho ukunakekelwa ekhaya kusezingeni elihle kulesi sigaba ngoba kunenani elincanyana labantwana abanakekeli ngabanye, futhi umnakekeli angaphendula ezinganeni ngokushesha.
Isilinganiso esinconywe yiNational Association for the Education of Young Izingane singumuntu omdala kuya kwabantwana abathathu, ukuzalwa kwezinyanga ezingu-12, eqenjini lesithupha. Ukwakha okunamathiselwe nokuthembela kwabanakekeli kubaluleke kakhulu ezinganeni ezinyangeni ezingu-0-18. Ukuqhubeka kokunakekelwa kuyisici esibaluleke kakhulu kulesi sigaba. Izingane zidinga isikhathi sokuthuthukisa okunamathiselweyo nokuthembela kumnakekeli wabo. Izingane nazo zidinga indawo ehlanzekile nephephile njengoba iqala ukuhlola izwe elibazungezile.
Ucwaningo oluqhubekayo oluqhutshwa yiNational Institute of Child Health and Development lubike ukuthi ukunakekelwa kwezingane akusongeli isibopho phakathi kwezinsana nomama, uma nje umntwana ethola ukunakekelwa kahle ekhaya. Izinsana zingathuthuka ekunakekelweni kwezingane uma nje izimo zifaka ukunakekelwa okuningi, uthando, ukuxhumana okudlalayo nabanakekeli kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kolimi olucebile. Umnakekeli wekhwalithi uyobe ezwela izidingo zomntanakho, azizwe ekhululekile ukuveza uthando kubantwana futhi aqonde izigaba zokuthuthukiswa kwengane.
Ukucubungula izinketho eziningi zokunakekela izingane
Abazali kufanele bacabangele nezinye izinketho zokunakekela izingane, njengokuqasha umnakekeli noma umnakekeli ochwepheshe noma ukuthatha ingane yakho, okungenani kuze kube yilapho ingane yakho ikhulile.
Bheka izinzuzo nezindleko zokukhetha izingane ezahlukene , ezifana nezindleko , ukuguquguquka, ukunakekelwa kwengane yakho nezinye izinto ezingabalulekile kuwe.
Izinsuku ezimbalwa zokuqala namasonto emva kokufaka ingane yakho kwezinye izingalo zomhlinzeki kungaba nzima kakhulu. Ungase uzizwe ukhathazekile, ukwesaba noma umhawu. Yonke le mizwa iyinto evamile futhi njengoba ukhululeka kakhulu nabanikezeli bokunakekelwa kwengane futhi ubone ukuthi ingane yakho inakekelwa, uzoqala ukuzizwa ungcono ngesinqumo. Nokho, uma unomuzwa omubi, zithembele. Awushadile nanoma yisiphi isimo sokunakekela izingane. Yenza okungcono kakhulu wena nomndeni wakho.
Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi kunezinketho eziningi ezitholakala kubazali ukwenza izinqumo ezinolwazi futhi bazi ukuthi ingane yabo izothola ukunakekelwa kwekhwalithi .
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