Ukwenza Umqondo Wokulahlekelwa Kwakho Nendlela Ehamba Ngayo
Ukuthola ukukhulelwa kwesisu kungahle kube yinto ebuhlungu futhi kudidekile kokubili wena nomlingani wakho. Ufuna ukwenza konke okuzwakalayo futhi uthole izimpendulo zemibuzo engeke iphendulwe ngokugcwele.
Ukukhulumisana yisinyathelo sokuqala sokuphulukisa. Ukuze uthole umqondo wokuvala okungcono, uhlangabezane nodokotela wakho bese ubuza noma yikuphi imibuzo oyidingayo ukuyibuza. Futhi hhayi nje ngokulahlekelwa kwakho kodwa mayelana nokuthi yini wena nomlingani wakho ongayilindela esikhathini esizayo.
Nazi imibuzo eyisikhombisa engakusiza uthole zonke izimpendulo ozidingayo:
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Yini Ebangelwa Ukuqothula?Ngokudabukisayo, kuvame ukuthi kunzima ukukhomba isizathu esiqondile sokukhulelwa kokukhulelwa. Ikakhulukazi ekukhulelweni kwesisu ekuqaleni , imbangela ingase ingaziwa.
Ngokuvamile, imbangela evame kakhulu yokukhulelwa kwesisu yinto engavamile , okungahleliwe futhi engenakwenzeka ukuphindaphindiwe esikhathini esizayo sokukhulelwa. Kwakuyinto nje yokukhubazeka kwezakhi zofuzo umzimba owaziwa ukuthi awunamandla.
Kodwa-ke, uma kunesizathu esaziwayo sokulahlekelwa kwakho noma uke wabhekana nohlobo oluthile lwesisu sokuphuphuma kwesisu (njengokuthi i- ovum evulekile noma ukukhulelwa kwe-molar ), uzodinga ukuthola umqondo ongcono okushoyo nokuthi ngabe uzokwenzenjani noma ngeke uthinte amathuba akho esizayo .
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Yini Engingayenza Ngokwehlukile?Ukulahlekelwa ukukhulelwa akusoze kube khona iphutha lomuntu. Ngisho ezimweni lapho kubonakala khona imbangela, ngokuvamile akukho lutho olungenziwa muntu ukulivimbela.
Uma kuthiwa, kungase kube nezici ezibangela ukubuka uma uhlela ukuzama futhi. Uma isibonelo, unesifo sikashukela , izinkinga ze-hormonal, noma isifo se-thyroid, kungase kube nezinselele ongakwazi ukunciphisa, ukwelashwa ongazama, noma amathuluzi athile ongawasebenzisa ukuze uqaphe kangcono ukukhulelwa kwakho esikhathini esizayo.
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Ingabe Lokhu Kuzokwenzeka Futhi?Izinga lakho lokuba nokulahlekelwa okunye ukukhulelwa kuyahluka kakhulu kuye ngokuthi isikhathi nesimo sokukhulelwa kwesisu okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho. Uma uke waqala ukukhulelwa kwesisu, isibonelo, amathuba akho okuba nesibini, ukukhulelwa okuphumelelayo kuphezulu.
Amaphutha aphindaphindiwe ahlobene kakhulu nesimo esingatholakali esenza ukuthi ukukhulelwa kube nzima. Lezi zingabandakanya ukungavamile kwe-uterine, ukungalingani kwe-hormone, isifo se-autoimmune, noma ukungakwazi ukusebenza komlomo (umlomo wesibeletho ophuza kakhulu ekukhulelwe).
Kwezinye izimo, lezi zimo eziphuthumayo ziyaphathwa kahle futhi zingathuthukisa amathuba akho okukhulelwa aqhubeke phambili.
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Ngingawuthuthukisa Kanjani Amathuba Angami Wokuba Nomntwana?Lapha lapho ulwazi lwezokwelapha lungakwazi ukusiza khona ngempela. Ekugcineni, impilo unomuntu ngamunye, cishe uzokwazi ukuthwala umntwana wakho kuze kube yisikhathi.
Kunezinto ezimbalwa ezilula ongayenza ukuze uthuthukise kangcono izinkinga zakho kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uneminyaka yakho noma isimo sezempilo. Lokhu kuhlanganisa ukuyeka ukubhema , ukulahlekelwa isisindo uma ukhuluphele, noma ukulawula izimo zempilo ezingapheli ezifana nesifo sikashukela. Ukulungiswa kokuphila okulula kungasiza kakhulu ekufezeni ukukhulelwa okuphephile, okungahle kwenzeke.
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Ingabe Uncoma Noma Yikuphi Ukuhlolwa Okuqhubekayo?Uma ngabe unesisu esisodwa noma esisodwa sokuzalwa komzimba, udokotela wakho angancoma ukuthi uhlolwe ngokwengeziwe ngaphambi kokuzama futhi.
Ukuhlola kungavame ukudalula izimbangela zokulahleka kwakho futhi usize udokotela wakho ukuba anikeze ukwelashwa okungenza kube lula ukuba uzuze ukukhulelwa okuphephile nokuphephile .
Izivivinyo zingabandakanya ukuhlaziywa kwe-chromosomal kokubili kwabazali, ukuhlola izithombe ukuhlola ukungavamile kwegazi, nokuhlolwa kwegazi ukukhomba noma yikuphi ukutheleleka, izinkinga ze-hormone, nezinkinga ze-thyroid.
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Kufanele Silinde Kude Kangakanani Ngaphambi Kokuzama Futhi?Ngokusekelwe ezimweni zecala lakho, udokotela wakho kufanele akwazi ukulinganisa isikhathi sesikhathi okufanele ulinde ngaphambi kokuzama futhi. Abanye odokotela bazokwazisa ukuthi ulinde isikhathi eside ezinyangeni ezintathu, kanti abanye bangase bakhulume ngokukhululekile ukuthi uqale futhi ngokushesha.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yiyiphi impendulo, cela udokotela wakho ukuba achaze ukuthi ucabangani. Kungase kube nokukhathazeka ngokomzimba noma izinkinga ezihlobene nokukhulelwa komzimba okudinga indlela yokuqapha ngaphezulu. Noma kungase kube nje iseluleko esivamile, futhi akukho nhlobo yangempela yokuqala ekuqaleni kunokuba kamuva.
Ekugcineni, isici esibaluleke kakhulu sokuzama futhi siyazi uma usulungile .
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Ungayincoma yini uMeluleki?Akuwona wonke owesifazane onomkhuhlane ozayo ozodinga umeluleki wezinhlungu. Futhi akuwona wonke umuntu osiziyo oyohlakulela ukucindezeleka kliniki .
Imizwa ehambelana nokukhulelwa kwesisu ihlukahluka kakhulu hhayi kuphela kumuntfu komuntu kodwa kumabhangqwana abashadile. Ayikho indlela "efanele" yokulila noma noma yini engalungile ngawe uma ukwazi ukubhekana kahle.
Kodwa uma uthola kunzima ukubhekana nokulahlekelwa ukukhulelwa, cela udokotela wakho ukuba adlulisele ochwepheshe bezempilo yengqondo aqeqeshwe futhi ahlangene nokululekwa kwesisindo nokukhulelwa kwesisu.
Ungase ungayidingi inombolo, kodwa ngeke kube yingozi ukuthi usondele eduze uma wenza ngokuzumayo.
> Umthombo:
> Leis-Newman, E. "Ukuqothula nokulahlekelwa." I-Journal ye-American Psychological Association. 2012: 43 (6): 56.d