Izingane zanamhlanje zimatasa, futhi uma ingane ingena amashejuli esikoleni esiphakathi ingathola ngisho nokubamba iqhaza. Eqinisweni, isimiso somntanakho, neyakho, ngezinye izikhathi kungase kube nokukhathazeka nokucindezeleka. Kodwa isikhathi samahhala sibalulekile ezinganeni, ikakhulukazi njengoba zingena ebusheni nasekukhuleni. Nakuba isikhathi esikhululekile singase sibe inkinga, kubalulekile ukuba abazali baqinisekise ukuthi phakathi kwabo kunomkhawulo phakathi kwemisebenzi ehleliwe nesikhathi sakhe.
Uma phakathi kwakho kungabonakali ukuhambisana nemithwalo yemithwalo yemfanelo, kungenzeka ukuthi iningi kakhulu. Ngezansi kunezingqinamba ezimbalwa lapho uhlola isikhathi samahhala wengane yakho.
Okwenza izingane zidinga isikhathi samahhala
- Isikhathi samahhala sivame ukubhekwa : Abazali bavame ukuba nezinhloso ezinhle, kodwa abazali abaningi banecala lokuhlela ngaphezulu izingane zabo , ukuhlela izinhlelo zabo ngemisebenzi yangaphandle, umsebenzi wokuzithandela kanye nezinye izidingo. Izizathu ezenzeka kulo mkhuba ekuhleleni izingane ziziningi. Abanye abazali bafuna ukunikeza amathuba omntanakho angakaze abe nawo. Abanye banethemba lokuthi izingane zabo zikwazi ukuncintisana futhi zilungele kangcono isipiliyoni esiphakeme esikoleni esiphakeme, nangaphezulu. Nakuba kubalulekile ukuba ingane ilandele izintshisekelo, izinto zokuzilibazisa noma izifiso, kubalulekile futhi ukuthi izingane zifunde ukujabulela isikhathi. Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi izingane eziphelelwe isikhathi zivame ukuzizwa zicindezelekile futhi zicindezelwe, futhi lokho kungaholela ezinkingeni eziningana ezihlanganisa izinkinga zokuziphatha nezinselele ezingokomzwelo. Ngamanye amazwi, izingane eziphelelwe yisikhathi zingagcizelela. Melana nesifiso sokusayina ingane yakho yonke imisebenzi etholakalayo. Esikhundleni salokho, siza ingane yakho ukuba ibeke phambili isithakazelo sayo. Ngokwenza kanjalo ufundisa phakathi kwakho ikhono lokwenza izinqumo, futhi isikhathi esinciphile kufanele futhi sibe yinto ebalulekile okufanele uyihlolisise.
- Tweens Kudingeka Ucabange: Isikole esiphakathi singaba nzima. Cabanga nje zonke izinselelo nezithiyo umfundi wesikole esiphakathi angase abhekane nazo: izihlukumezi; ukwandiswa kwemithwalo yemisebenzi yesikole; ukucindezelwa ukuba kuvelele nokuncintisana; izinkinga zobungane; ukuphola; ukukhulelwa; futhi nokuningi. Zonke lezo zinselele zidinga isikhathi esincane engxenyeni yengane yakho ukucabanga ngayo futhi ukuthola izindlela zokuyilawula. Ukuvumela ingane yakho isikhathi samahhala sokwenza lokho kuzosiza uhlangothi lwakho lubeke konke okubonakalayo futhi luqhubeke. Futhi ukuvumela ingane yakho isikhathi sokucabanga futhi ikunike ithuba lokukhuluma nomunye futhi usebenze ngezinkinga ndawonye. Uma ugijimela kusuka komunye umthwalo kuya komunye, izingxoxo zingaba mfushane futhi zikhishwe. Vumela ingane yakho isikhathi sokuvula kuwe, noma ilungu lomndeni.
- Ama-Tween adinga ukuphumula : Abantu abadala bayaqonda isidingo sokuphumula ngemva kwesonto elicindezelayo lomsebenzi. Ama-tweens awafani. Uma ngabe ube nesonto elimatasa kakhulu, cishe ufuna nje ukuya ekhaya futhi ubuke ithelevishini encane. Ingane yakho ingase izwe ngendlela efanayo. Isikhathi samahhala sivumela ingane yakho ukuba ingenzi lutho, noma into ethile ebheke phambili kuyo yonke isonto.
- Isikhathi Samahhala Sijabulisa Abantu: Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi abantu bavame ukujabula kakhulu ngezimpelasonto. Kungani? Ngezimpelasonto, abantu bakhetha ukukhetha imisebenzi yabo, sebenzisa isikhathi nabantu abathandayo futhi bazidele kusukela emithwalweni yosuku lweviki. Yenza umqondo, akunjalo?
- Ama-Tweens adinga isikhathi se-Daydream: Ukudlula isikhathi kukhona into izingane ezivame ukugxekwa ngazo, kodwa izingane kufanele zihambe ngosuku, hhayi nje ekilasini. Ukuhamba phambili kuvumela izingane ukuba zicabange ngekusasa elingenzeka, futhi zibheke zonke izinto eziphambi kwazo. Kodwa awukwazi ukuhamba ngosuku uma ungenayo isikhathi sokungcebeleka ukwenza kanjalo. Nakuba ukuzenza sengathi kubalulekile kubantwana nabasenkulisa, ukubaluleka kokubaluleka kubalulekile kubangu-13 kanye nentsha. Vumela ingane yakho isikhathi sokucabanga ngekusasa lakhe, futhi ungase umangale ngemiphumela.