Imiphumela ezoshukumisa ingane yakho ukuba iphathe esikhathini esizayo.
Ngenxa yokuthi ingane yakho inesikhathi sokuphuma (iningi labo lingathanda ukuthunyelwa emakamelweni abo), akusho ukuthi awukwazi ukufaka imiphumela ephumelelayo. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuthola ukujeziswa kwentsha ezobafundisa izifundo zokuphila.
Okwamanje, uneminyaka embalwa nje esele ukulungiselela ingane yakho yezwe langempela. Futhi kungase kube nzima ukushaya ibhalansi enika ingane yakho inkululeko eyanele, ngenkathi isamnika iziqondiso eziningi.
Yiba njengomzali onqanda ukuvikela i- helicopter futhi ingane yakho ngeke ifunde ukwenza izinqumo ezinempilo. Uma uvumelekile kakhulu, noma kunjalo, ngeke athole amakhono adingekayo ukuba abe umuntu omdala onomthwalo wemfanelo.
Isiyalo Kufanele Sigxilise ekufundiseni, hhayi ukujezisa
Ungalondolozi isiyalo ngokuphulwa komthetho okujulile. Uma ngabe uneminyaka engu-16 ubudala ehlezi egumbini lakhe futhi edlala imidlalo yamavidiyo usuku lonke, kungenzeka ukuthi akayiphutha. Kodwa, ukuthi angasadingeka ukuyala ukuze amsize ahlangane futhi aziphathe ngokuziphendulela.
Uma ingane yakho iphula imithetho, landela ngemiphumela emibi. Nazi imiphumela emithathu engaba amathuluzi okufundisa abasebenza kahle kubantu abasha:
Imiphumela Yemvelo
Imiphumela yemvelo ingaba omunye wabafundisi abakhulu kunazo zonke ekuphileni. Kodwa, kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi kuphephile ukuyisebenzisa.
Ungavumeli ingane yakho ukuba ihlole utshwala ngethemba ukuthi uzogula futhi izoyifundisa isifundo.
Kungase kungasebenzi ngendlela ozoyihlela ngayo.
Uma kunjalo, wena osemusha uzimisele ukukwenza umsebenzi wesikole, ukuthola i-zero noma ukuhlala ngemva kwesikole kungamfundisa isifundo.
Ngakho kunokuba umgijimise ukuze asebenze, mnike ithuba lokuziphatha ngendlela efanele noma ebhekene nemiphumela.
Imiphumela yemvelo ayisebenzi nabo bonke abasha, noma kunjalo.
Ngakho kubalulekile ukucabanga ngokucophelela ukuthi ngabe ingane yakho izofunda yini emaphutheni akhe uma ungangeneli.
2. Ukulahlekelwa Amalungelo
Amalungelo kufanele athole, futhi uma ingane yakho ingalandeli imithetho, ungamvumeli ukuba ajabulele lawo malungelo engeziwe. Umphumela onengqondo ungabandakanya ukukhipha ilungelo elihlobene ngokuqondile nokulawula ingane yakho yephulwa.
Uma ingane yakho ilahlekelwa isikhathi sokufika kwakhe ngoLwesihlanu ebusuku, ungamvumeli ukuba ahambe nabangani ngoMgqibelo ebusuku. Noma, uma engayitholi umsebenzi wakhe wesikole ngoba udlala imidlalo yevidiyo, mthathe u-electronics. Ngokuvamile, ukuthatha ama lungelo amahora angu-24 kuyasebenza.
Imiphumela kufanele ibuhlungu. Uma uthatha ikhono lomntanakho ukubuka i-TV kodwa uchitha ubusuku ukubuka i-Netflix kukhompyutha yakhe ye-laptop, akunakwenzeka ukuthi kube umphumela ophumelelayo. Khetha ilungelo elizosiza ingane yakho icabange kabili ngaphambi kokwenza iphutha elifanayo futhi.
Ungaphinde ubuyekeze amalungelo akho ebuntwaneni. Vele uqiniseke ukuthi ubeka izinyathelo azodinga ukuthatha ukuze ubuyisele amalungelo akhe.
Esikhundleni sokuthi, "Ungabuyisa ifoni yakho lapho nginethemba futhi," uthi, "Ungabuyisa ifoni yakho uma uthola umsebenzi wesikole wenza ubusuku obuthathu ulandelana."
Dala isivumelwano sokuziphatha esibhaliwe esichaza okulindelweyo. Khona-ke, ngeke kube khona imibuzo mayelana nokuthi ingane yakho ingayithola kanjani futhi amalungelo akhe.
3. Ukubuyisela
Kunezikhathi lapho kubalulekile ukubuyisela ukukhokha kwentsha yakho. Uma echitha ucingo lomakhelwane, ungamthathi nje ucingo lwakhe usuku. Menze akhokhele ukulungisa ucingo futhi ngaphezu kwalokho, menze enze imisebenzi eyengeziwe kumakhelwane.
Ngisho noma kungekho isisulu esicacile, usengasebenzisa ukubuyisela. Uma uthola ingane yakho igijimela lapho uboleka imoto yakho, yenza ukuthi enze imisebenzi yenkonzo yomphakathi ngaphambi kokuba akhokhe imoto futhi.
Nika inombolo ethile yamahora okumelwe ayenze. Lapho eqedela inkonzo yakhe yomphakathi, uzokwazi ukuthi uzama ukuziphatha kahle ngokwanele ukuze athole amalungelo akhe emuva.
Ukubuyiselwa kuyindlela enhle yokusiza ingane yakho ishintshe noma ubani owenze kabi noma abeke engozini. Kungaba usizo ukucela okokufaka kwentsha yakho ukuthi yikuphi uhlobo lokubuyiselwa kwakhe ocabanga ukuthi kuyoba kuhle.
> Imithombo
> Dawn M. Zahrt, uMarlene D. Melzer-Lange. Ukuziphatha Okuhlukumezayo Kubantwana Nezingane Ezitholakalayo. Izingane ezibuyiselwe ekubuyekezweni . Aug 2011, 32 (8) 325-332.
> HealthyChildren.org: Indlela Yokukhulumisana Ngayo Nokulalela Ingane Yakho.
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