Izinzuzo kanye nokuziqhenya kwalolu hlobo loqeqesho
Imithombo yemidiya isetshenziswe igama elithi "i-helicopter parent" ukuchaza uhlobo lokuziphatha lapho abazali behileleka ngokweqile empilweni yengane yabo. Nakuba kungase kuzwakale njengomqondo omuhle wokudlala indima enkulu ezinqumweni zengane, abazali bezindiza bavame ukuthatha lokhu ngokweqile.
Igama elithi "i-helicopter parent" kuqala lihlanganiswe encwadini ka-1969 ethi "Phakathi Parent & Teenager." Intsha evezwe encwadini ibike ukuthi unina wayebukele kuye njengendiza yezindiza.
Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, abaphathi abaningi bekholeji basebenzise leli gama ukubhekisela kubazali abaqhubeka bezama ukubuka izingane zabo ekude ngemuva kokuba sebeye ekolishi futhi leli gama lisakaze ukuhlanganisa bonke abazali abangenakuqapha.
Izimo Ezihle Ze-Helicopter Ukuzali
Abazali be-helicopter ngokuqinisekile bahileleka empilweni yengane yabo okungaba into enhle. Ungathembela ezinganeni ze-helicopter abazali ukuba bafike ngesikhathi, benze umsebenzi wabo wesikole, futhi balungiselele imisebenzi yabo.
Abazali bezingane ezincane nezingane ezisencane kungenzeka bazi lapho izingane zabo zihlala khona, okubalulekile ukucatshangelwa kokuphepha. Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi bayazi kahle ukuthi ngubani ingane yabo nokuthi ingane yabo yenza kanjani esikoleni.
Izinkinga Nge-Helicopter Ukuzali
Ukukhula nabazali be-helicopter kunezinye izinkinga. Izinkinga ezinokwenzeka zifaka:
- Izingane azikwazi ukuxazulula izinkinga : Izingane ezineminyaka yonke zidinga amakhono wokuxazulula izinkinga. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uneminyaka engu-5 ubudala okudingeka ufunde ukuzwakala amagama noma uneminyaka engu-25 ongakwazi ukuthola umsebenzi, izingane kudingeka zikwazi ukuxazulula izinkinga zazo. Lapho abazali bexazulula zonke izinkinga zomntanakho, izingane azifundi lezi amakhono ezibalulekile ekuxazululeni izinkinga
- I-helicopter yokukhulisa izingane iholela ekuthembekeni : Abazali be-helicopter benza okungcono kakhulu izingane zabo ukuthi zingenza izingane zabo zithembele kuzo. Uma umama embiza ngokuthi uneminyaka engu-19 ukuba amvuse ekuseni njalo ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ufunda ekilasini ngesikhathi, angeke afunde ukuthi angakwenza kanjani lokhu. Abazali kufanele basize izingane zifunde ukuthi zingaphila ngaphandle kwazo.
- Izingane azifundeli ukuzimela : Abazali be-helicopter bavame ukukhuthaza izingane zabo, kunokufundisa izingane zabo ukuzimela. Kubalulekile ukuthi izingane zikwazi ukubuza imibuzo, zithole ukucaciswa futhi zikhulume lapho zidinga okuthile. Emisebenzini, lezi zingane ngeke zithole uMama noma ubaba ukuthi zizobasiza ukuba babhekane nomphathi omusha noma inqubomgomo enzima ehhovisi.
- I-helicopter yokubeletha isivikela izingane emiphumeleni yemvelo : Izingane zidinga ukubhekana nemiphumela ethile yemvelo empilweni. Phela, ezimweni lapho abazali bengangeni khona, izingane zizobhekana nemiphumela yemvelo. Kodwa-ke, iningi labazali bezindiza ze-helicopter lenza imisebenzi yezingane zabo ngomzamo wokubavimbela ekutholeni imiphumela emibi.
- I-helicopter yokubeletha iphazamisa ubuhlobo bomzali nengane : Izenzo ze-helicopter umzali zingaphazamisa ubuhlobo bomzali nengane. Ukugxeka ingane yakho njalo ukuze uthole umsebenzi wakhe wesikole, noma ukuhlola konke okwenzayo, akunakwenzeka ukuba ingane yakho ifune ukukhuluma nawe ngaphezulu. Esikhundleni salokho, kungase kususe ingane yakho.