Abazali abaningi basebenzisa amasu okukhuluma ukuyala izingane
Ochwepheshe bezempilo nentuthuko yengane, kuhlanganise ne-American Academy of Pediatrics, baye baphikisana nokusebenzisa isijeziso somuntu ezinganeni. Ucwaningo olunzulu luye lwabonisa ukuthi isijeziso somzimba asilimaza kuphela intuthuko yabantwana kanye nobuhlobo bomzali nabantwana, kodwa futhi akuphumelelanga esikhathini eside.
Abazali kubonakala sengathi bebelokhu bethola umlayezo: Abazali abaningi babonakala bekhetha izinhlobo ezingekho ngokomzimba zokuqondiswa kwengane njengokungathi isikhathi sokuphuma kwesigxobo kanye nezinye izinhlobo zokujeziswa komuntu, ngokusho kukaNovemba, ngo-2016 isifundo eshicilelwe encwadini yePediatrics .
Ukuqonda iSifundo
Abacwaningi bahlaziya idatha evela emiphakathini emine kazwelonke yabanakekeli bezingane ezinkulisa-enkulisa ezenziwa phakathi kuka-1988 no-2011. Bathola ukuthi isimo sengqondo sabazali ngokusebenzisa isijeziso somzimba ekuqondiseni izingane kuguqukile cishe eminyakeni engamashumi amabili, kanti abazali abambalwa bathi ukushaya kuyamukeleka kanye nabazali abaningi behlulela amasu okuqeqesha okungewona okwenyama njengokuba ngcono ekuqondiseni ukuziphatha kwezingane.
Abacwaningi bathi lokhu kuguquka kwesimo sengqondo esenzeke phakathi kwabo bonke abazali, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bangenayo imali noma izinga lemfundo, cishe kusho ukuthi abazali abambalwa basebenzisa isijeziso somzimba kubafundi abaqeqeshayo.
Okunye okuvelele kocwaningo:
- Kusukela ngo-1988, inani labamama abahola emkhatsini osho ukuthi bacabanga ukuthi isijeziso somzimba kufanelekile lihlehlisiwe kusuka kumaphesenti angu-46 kuya ku-21%.
- Kuzo zonke izigaba ezingenayo imali, iphesenti labomama ababike ukuthi bazoshaya noma bachithe ingane yabo yobudala be-enkulisa ngokuphendula ukungalungi kwehla ngamaphesenti angama-20 kuya kwangu-26 phakathi kuka-1988 no-2011.
- Ngesikhathi esifanayo, iphesenti labomama abathi bayokunikela ingane yabo isikhathi noma bayithumele emakamelweni abo ngenxa yokuziphatha okubi kwanda ngamaphesenti angu-26 kuya ku-40 kuwo wonke amazinga okuthola imali.
- Amaphesenti omama ababika ukuthi bebebethe noma ashaya ingane yabo ngesonto eledlule wehla kuwo wonke amazinga okuthola imali ngamaphesenti angu-26 kuya ku-40 phakathi kuka-1998 no-2011.
Kodwa ngenkathi lolu cwaningo lubonisa ukuthi kukhona intuthuko ethile eyenziwe ekufundiseni nasekuqondiseni izingane ekuziphatheni okuhle esikhundleni sokubajezisa ngokuzifundisa ukuthi ubudlova busebenza kahle, kusekhona isidingo sezazi zezempilo zezingane, abameli kanye nabazali ukuqhubeka bekhuluma imiphumela eyingozi yokujeziswa komunye umuntu, njengengozi eyengeziwe yokwenza ubugebengu nokuziphatha okungahambi kahle kwezobulili (ukuqamba amanga, ukweba, ukukopela, ukuxhaphaza, njll) kubantwana kanye nengozi eyengeziwe yokulahlekelwa ngumzali nokuhlukumeza ingane.
Naphezu kokushiyeka, lolu cwaningo luphinde lwathola ukuthi cishe ingxenye eyodwa kwezintathu zomama emazingeni aphansi kakhulu okuthola imali-iqembu eliye lavunyelwa isijeziso somuntu ngaphezu kwamanye amaqembu ezomnotho-lisekela ngokusebentisa ukuphambana ekuphenduleni ukungalungi kwezingane ezineminyaka yobudala. Futhi amaphesenti angama-25 alaba mama athi basebenzisa isijeziso ngokomzimba kubantwana babo ngesonto elidlule.
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Akucaci ukuthi yini eyenza abazali abaningi baphumelele ekujezisweni komuntu-kungaba umphumela odokotela kanye nabanye ochwepheshe bezempilo kanye nezenhlalakahle yengane abasakaza igama mayelana nobufakazi obubanzi nobucwaningcweti obubonisa ukuxhumana okucacile phakathi kokujeziswa komunye umuntu kanye nokungahambi kahle imiphumela yezingane, noma kungenzeka ukuthi leli fomu lokujezisa izingane alivumelekile emphakathini kunalokho okwakunjalo, noma inhlanganisela yazo zombili izici.
Umgomo kufanele kube ukufinyelela futhi unikeze ulwazi nokusekela kunoma yimuphi umzali osakholelwa ukuthi isijeziso somzimba samukelekile noma siphumelele.
Ngokukhuthaza labo abasakhuthaza isijeziso somuntu ukuze babone amaqiniso ngenxa yezizathu zabazali namuhla abacabanga ukuthi ukujeziswa komuntu kusebenza futhi kuphule lezo zizathu ukubona ukuthi kungani lezo zizathu zingahambisani namaqiniso nokuhlolwa, singazivikela amalungu omphakathi asengozini kakhulu: izingane, okufanele zifundiswe ukuthi ziziphathe kanjani ngendlela efanele futhi zithuthukise amakhono ukulawula ukuziphatha kwazo ukuze kungadingeki ukuba zihlale ziyalwa futhi ezingenakulimala ukuze zilalele ngaleso sikhathi, ngaphandle bafunde ukuthi bangazilawula kanjani esikhathini esizayo.