Ngosizo lwabazali, abantwana abancane bangafunda ukuthi bangabi nendawo yokuhlala
Abantfwana nezingane ezincane baye bathola idumela lokuba yi- rambunctious , kodwa abazali bangafundisa izingane ukuba ziyeke ukukhwabanisa nokudlala kahle ngobumnene. Ngomkhuba omncane, ungafundisa ingane yakho ukuthi ibhekane nezingane zakini ezincane, abadlalwa nabo, kanye nezilwane ezifuywayo nge touch touch.
Ukubaluleka Kokuncintisana Ne-Rough Play Kwezingane Ezincane
Kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani ufisa ukuba ingane yakho encane noma ingane encane ifunde ukudlala ngobumnene.
Uma ingane yakho idlala idethi, ungase ukhathazeke ngokuxubha. Isifuyo somndeni wakho singase silangazelela ukutshala isikhathi emisebenzini yokukhuthaza ukuthinta okuthandekayo. Futhi kubazali balindele enye ingane, ukukhathazeka mayelana nokuhlukumeza komdlalo wengane yakho kungase kube phambili kwengqondo yakho. Phela, izingane ezisencane azikwazi ukuthi ziziphatha kahle ngokuzungeze izinsana, amantombazane noma ngisho nontanga. Nokho, abantu abadala bangabonisa futhi bafundise ukuziphatha okunokuthula nokuthobeka. Nansi indlela yokwenza ngayo.
Idlalwa i-Role Gentle Touch yezingane
Ukudlala indima kuyindlela enhle yokufundisa izingane ngendlela yokuzisebenzisa, futhi nezingane ezincane ngokuvamile ziphumelela kakhulu kunamazwi. Uma ulindele umntwana omusha, yenza ingane yakho isebenzise indlela yokuphatha kahle idoli noma isilwane esithandwa kakhulu. Ngaphandle kokwenza imodeli yokuziphatha, kubalulekile ukuchazela ingane yakho ukuthi kungani edinga ukuba mnene. Ungase ufune ukuqala ngokuxoxa (futhi ubonise ngesidon noma isilwane esinyene) ukuthi kungani ingane nengane yentombazane idinga ukusekelwa .
Izingane zifuna ukwazi futhi zizosabela kangcono uma ziqonda ukuthi usana alukwazi ukubeka ikhanda lakhe phezulu. Ungakwazi ngisho nokuqala ukudumisa ingane yakho ngendima yakhe entsha njengodade omkhulu (noma umfowethu omkhulu) njengoba ekubonisa indlela angayisingatha ngayo idonki yakhe noma isilwane esinyene.
Ubumnene Bufaka Tone yezwi nokuhamba
Izingane ezincane kakhulu zifunda ukuthinta okuncane kodwa zivusa izingane zakini ezisanda kuzalwa noma izilwane ezifuywayo ngokwenza ukunyakaza okunamandla noma ukusebenzisa amazwi ahlabayo.
Fundisa izinsana ukuba zibonise ukuzola nobumnene ngokuhamba kancane, okulawulwayo, amazwi athambile, nokuthinta kahle. Bonisa ukuthi izingane ezincane kufanele zithinte kanjani abantwana (faka ukuthi nini futhi kuphi futhi) nokuthi izilwane zezingane kufanele zihlwithwe kanjani. Bafundise ukukhuluma nabalingani bokudlala ngendlela efanayo. Abazali kufanele bafundise izingane ezincane ukuthi inontanga yabo noma izingane ezindala noma abantu abadala abakuthandayo ukuzithokozisa, ukuxoshwa, ukuklolodela, noma ukukhahlela, ngisho nangesikhathi sokudlala.
Abazali Kufanele Abe Izindlela Ezinhle Zokuzijabulisa
Izingane zifunda kangcono ngesibonelo. Ngenxa yalokho, abantu abadala kufanele basebenzise amathoni aphansi futhi abumnene uma befuna izingane zabo zenze okufanayo. Uma abazali beziphatha ngobumnene, izingane ezisencane zizoqonda ukuthi zizwakala kanjani ukuba zishaywe ngokuphikisana nokuthi zizwa kanjani ukuthi zikhulunywe kahle. Uma abazali belokhu bekhala noma benza isithukuthezi , izingane ezincane ngeke zifunde ukuziphathisa okuhlukile. Njengomzali, kungase kusabise ukwazi ukuthi ufanisa ukuziphatha izingane zakho ezizokwenza umzuzu ngamunye nsuku zonke. Kodwa uma ubheka ngale ndlela ngenye indlela, kusho ukuthi ulawula okuningi kokuthi ingane yakho izozilingisa, futhi ukufundisa ingane yakho ngokuziphatha kahle ngezinye izikhathi kulula njengokuzifanekisela wena.
Dumisani Izingane Ngokukhululekile Ukuze Ube Nomusa
Nakuba abazali kufanele bahloniphe izingane zabo ngokuziphatha ngokucophelela , kufanele bagweme isilingo sokugxekwa abasha ngokuziphatha ngokuzikhandla.
Ukuqiniswa okunamandla kuyaphumelela kakhulu kunokuqiniswa okungalungile ekusebenzeni ushintsho ezinganeni zethu. Zama ukutshela ingane encane ukuthi yenza okungalungile; esikhundleni salokho, unikeze izindlela ezingcono zokuzilolonga ukubamba idonsa noma ukushaya ubumnandi bomkhuhlane. Ungabeki ukucindezela ngokweqile kumuntu ngokuziphatha ngokuthobeka. Yenza izingane zakho zifunde ngokuthobeka kancane kancane isikhathi eside, futhi uqaphele ukuthi ngisho nawe njengomzali ungathatha isikhathi ukuqonda ukuziphatha okusha.
Ungakwazi kabili imizamo yakho yokufundisa ingane yakho ukuba ibe mnene nekhamera yakho. Ngokuthatha isithombe sakho kancane ngokudlala nge-puppy yakhe entsha noma osanda kuzalwa, ungaqinisa ukuziphatha okuhle.
Uma ingane yakho ifunda ukuthi ingaba mnene kanjani nezilwane ezifuywayo nezinsana, bonisa isithombe kubothishela, emndenini nabangani ukufaka ukuziqhenya encane yakho.
Uma Ingane Yakho Iqhubeka Nokudlala Ngokulinganayo
Ukufundisa ingane yakho ukuba idlale ngokucophelela yinkqubo ezoqhubeka phakathi nobuntwana futhi ingenzeki ebusuku. Lokho kusho ukuthi ezinye izingane zingase zibe nzima ukufunda ukudlala ngobumnene. Kunezimo eziningi zezokwelapha ezingaba nomthelela ekuziphatheni kwengane yakho uma nje engabonakali ukufunda ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Khuluma nodokotela wezingane uma unenkinga.
Ukuvala
Ubumnene ukuziphatha okufundiwe. Ungasiza ekufundiseni ingane yakho ukuba ibe mnene ngokufanisa ukuziphatha kwakho ngokwakho, ngokudlala ingane yakho ngodla noma isilwane esithendekile, nangokusiza ingane yakho ukuba iqaphele ukuthi ukunyakaza kwayo kanye nezwi lezwi kubalulekile njengokuthinta okuncane . Ngesiqondiso esihle sokubeletha, izingane zivame ukuqonda ukuzola okudingekayo ukuba kube ngumuntu oqothulwayo, umngane noma umnikazi wesilwane.
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> Kliegman, uRobert M., uBonita Stanton, uSt Geme III uJoseph W., uNine Felice. Schor, uRichard E. Behrman, noWaldo E. Nelson. UNelson Bookbook of Pediatrics. I-20th Edition. Philadelphia, PA: Elsevier, 2015. Phrinta.