Izinsana ziyizidalwa ezinjalo zokushintsha. Ukuthandwa kwabo nokungathandwa kwabo kushintsha njalo. Okufanayo kuya ngokuziphatha komncane . Izingane zihamba ngokuthuthuka okunjalo okukhulu, izinguquko ezingokomzwelo nezingokwenyama esikhathini esincane esifushane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, basathuthukisa ulimi futhi baqinisekisa ukuzimela kwabo okusha. Kungokwemvelo ukuba izinsana ziphoqe futhi zibonise ukuziphatha okungathandeki njengoba zifunda ngazo kanye nezwe elizungezile.
Nanka amathiphu okuphatha ukuziphatha okubi.
1. Gcina Ukugxila Enkulumweni Yakho Yengane Enhle Yokuziphatha
Abantwana badinga izinqwaba zothando nokukhathazeka ukukhuthaza ukuziphatha okuhle futhi ukuqondisa kabusha izenzo ezingenzi kahle. Lapho izinsana zenza okuthile okungalungile, kubalulekile ukuthi abazali bavume ukuziphatha okuncane kwezingane ezincane. Yisho ngokuqondile ekudumiseni kwakho. Isibonelo, uthi: "Kuhle ukuthi wena noJason uguqulwe ngesibalo sakho esisha se-Batman" kunokuthi "Wena noJason badlala kahle." Ukuphawula kwabazali nokuqiniswa yilokho usizo lokufundisa ingane encane indlela yokuziphatha encane.
2. Beka ukuziphatha okungalungile okuqondile
Lokhu-ke, kungenzeka ukuthi akunakwenzeka ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi ukuphepha kufanele kube njalo ukukhathazeka okukhulu. Ukunaka komzali kuyindlela enamandla kunazo zonke yokuthonya ukuziphatha komntwana. Ukukhathazeka okungenangqondo komzali ngezinye izikhathi kuthandwa ngumncanyana kunokungaboni. Gcina lokhu engqondweni uma uhlaziya ukuziphatha okubi ngokusebenzisa ukunakwa.
Esikhundleni salokho, nikeza okuningi nokudumisa kuzo zonke izindlela zokuziphatha ezincane.
3. Phawula Amaphetheni Wokuziphatha Okuncane
Ungamiseli osemncane ukuze ahluleke. Ukuhlala njalo nokugcina isimiso kubalulekile kubantwana abancane, ikakhulukazi ngokulala, ukudla kanye nesiyalo. Gwema izimpendulo uma ingane yakho ilambile noma ikhathele, uma kungenzeka.
Isikhathi sokulala singumzabalazo wabantwana abaningi ngoba abanakho ukuzithiba ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo ukulinganisela izidingo zabo kanye nezidingo zabo. Abazali kumele basebenzise isimiso somsebenzi nsuku zonke nangobusuku esiqeda ingxoxo nokuxoxisana.
4. Sebenzisa i-'Time Out 'Technique
Le tamer ye-tyrant ye-tyrant esebenza kahle isebenza ngempela. Ochwepheshe batusa ukubeka ingane encane ngesikhathi sokuphuma ize ithule cishe imizuzu emithathu. Gwema ukufundisa ingane yakho ngaphambi noma emva kwesikhathi. Amazwana omzali kufanele abe nomkhawulo kumazwi angaphansi kuka-10. "Madison, akukho ukukhala. Hlala esihlalweni manje!"
Enye yokugcina yokuhlakanipha. Ukuziphatha kwentsha (okuhle, okubi noma okunye) yisigaba. Ngokuqiniswa njalo kanye nesikhathi esifanele, izingane ezisencane zizobe ziphuma ezinkathini ezimbili eziyingozi kanye nezinye izinto ezijwayelekile zokuziphatha ezincane futhi abazali bazobhekana nezinselelo ezintsha.