Ukukhulisa ingane ngokuphumelelayo ezweni lanamuhla akuyona umsebenzi olula. I-digital digital idinga ukuba ube nolwazi namasu akukho esinye isizukulwane esidinga.
Abazali bakho abazange baqaphele i-smartphone yakho. Futhi ngokuqinisekile akudingeki bakhathazeke ngezidakamizwa ze-inthanethi, i-cyberbullying, nokuthumela imiyalezo nge-SMS .
Abazali banamuhla banamakhono afanayo nabazali abahle ababenabo ezinzukulwaneni ezidlule.
Kodwa, kubalulekile ukusebenzisa lawo makghono ngendlela entsha. Nazi amathiphu ayisithupha okukhulisa intsha ezweni lanamuhla:
1. Gcina iso lakho emgomweni
Kulula ukulahlekelwa umbono wesithombe esikhulu uma ukhungathekile ngekhadi lakho lemibiko yamuva kunayo yonke ingane yakho noma uhlushwa ngoba ingane yakho igcina inganaki imisebenzi yakhe. Kodwa, kubalulekile ukugcina iso lakho emgomweni omkhulu-ukukhulisa intsha ethintekayo ehlomele ukubhekana nezinselelo zezwe langempela.
Ukugxila emigomweni yesikhathi eside kuzokusiza ukuba uhambe ezintweni ezincane ezingakhathazeki. Kuzokusiza futhi uhlale ukhuthazwa ukuba ube yisibonelo esihle .
2. Khulumisana nengane yakho ezingeni lakho lezingane
Ukuxhumana nentsha kuhlanganisa okuningi kunokukhuluma kuphela. Ihlanganisa imiyalezo oyithumela ingane yakho ngokuziphatha kwakho nokusebenzisana kwakho kwansuku zonke.
Ingane yakho izofunda kabanzi ngalokho okwenzayo kunalokho okushoyo. Ngakho kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi izenzo zakho zihambisana namanani akho namagama oyisebenzisayo.
Yiba nesifiso sokukhuluma nengane yakho ngokusebenzisa izinhlobonhlobo ezihlukahlukene. Uma ingane yakho ikhululekile ukukhuluma ngemilayezo yombhalo, faka imiyalezo emisebenzini yakho yansuku zonke. Ukuhlola nje ngomlayezo wombhalo noma ukubamba izingxoxo ezimfushane mayelana nosuku lwakho kungahamba indlela ende ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho izwa sengathi iyathandwa.
3. Yakha ukuzethemba kwengane yakho
Kunabantu abaningi abazozama ukunqamula ingane yakho phansi. Ngakho kubalulekile ukufaka imilayezo enempilo ezokwakha ingane yakho.
Yenza kube okubalulekile ukufaka ukuzethemba okunempilo kwengane yakho. Menze ahileleke emisebenzini ehlukahlukene futhi amsize abone ukuthi ungumuntu onamakhono onokuningi okwenzela umhlaba.
4. Ukusekela isidingo sakho somntwana sokuzikhethela
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane yakho ithanda umculo noma ingena emidlalweni, yisekela imizamo yakho yengane yokuba yedwa. Lokhu kungase kusho ukuthatha isinyathelo emuva futhi uqaphele ukuthi umsebenzi wakho wengane awuyikufeza amaphupho akho ngaye-umsebenzi wakhe ukufinyelela amaphupho akhe.
Uma kuziwa kwezobuciko noma imfashini, wena kanye nentsha yakho akudingeki nivumelane ngakho konke. Masibe ngumuntu wakhe futhi azibeke njengomuntu, uma nje ewenza ngendlela ephephile.
5. Sebenzisa iseluleko esihle futhi esiqinile
Izindlela zakho zokuziphatha kufanele zikhule futhi zishintshe ngqo eceleni kwezingane zakho. Futhi indima yakho kufanele ishintshele ngaphezulu komhlahlandlela, kunokuba umphathi.
Vumela ingane yakho ukuba yenza amaphutha. Kodwa, qhubeka ubeka imingcele eqinile. Nika imiphumela yakho yengane uma ephula imithetho .
Izindlela zakho zokuqeqesha akufanele kube ngokuphathelene nokujezisa.
Esikhundleni salokho, umgomo wakho kufanele kube ukumfundisa ukuzithoba okungcono ukuze akwazi ukwenza izinqumo eziphilile uma ungekho.
6. Fundisa amakhono akho okuphila kwentsha
Kungenxa yokuthi ingane yakho ithola amamaki amahle noma yenza kahle emkhakheni wezemidlalo akusho ukuthi uhlomele ukuba umuntu omdala onokwethenjelwa. Kusukela ekuhloliseni i-checkbook ukupheka ukudla kwakhe, fundisa ingane yakho amakhono okuphila ayoyidingayo ukuze abe umuntu omdala ophumelelayo .