Ukulinganisa Isidingo Sokuzimela Ngesiqondiso
Ukubeletha umntanakho kudinga ukulinganisela okungekho emkhatsini phakathi kokumnika isiqondiso esanele ukuqinisekisa ukuthi wenza ukhetho oluphilile futhi umnika inkululeko eyanele yokwenza amaphutha. Ngaphansi kokuqondisa kwakho, amaphutha nokwehluleka kungafundisa ezinye zezifundo ezibaluleke kakhulu ekuphileni.
Yakha imithetho yendlu ukuthi inhlonipho isifiso sakho somntwana ukuba sizimele ngenkathi eqinisekisa nokuthi uziphatha ngendlela efanele.
Chaza ngokucacile ukuthi iziphi imiphumela ezimbi ezizobe zigcinwe uma umthetho uphulwa.
Intsha idinga izinhlobo ezinhlanu zemithetho njengezingane ezincane. Uma ubeka ingane yakho imithetho yemithetho, faka imithetho eqinile ezindaweni lapho ingane yakho isadinga khona isiqondiso esiningi.
Lapho intsha ihlukumeza ukulandela imithetho, kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi ayilungele umthwalo omkhulu okwamanje futhi ingadinga isiqondiso esengeziwe. Njengoba ingane yakho iveza ukuthi ingayilandela imithetho, vumela ukwanda okuzimele.
Nazi izinhlobo zemithetho okufanele uyenze ukuze usize ingane yakho ibe umuntu omdala onomthwalo wemfanelo:
Imithetho ekhuthaza ukuphepha
Intsha ijwayele ukucabanga ukuthi ayifi futhi ingenakunqotshwa. Baye bavame ukuphoqelela ukuthi kungani kubaluleke kakhulu ukubeka imithetho ekhuthaza ukuphepha. Nazi izibonelo ezimbalwa:
- Ukushayela - Izingozi zezimoto zingumbulali oyedwa wentsha. Intsha idinga imithetho ecacile mayelana namalungelo okushayela nokuphepha. Beka imingcele ekusetshenzisweni komakhalekhukhwini emotweni. Misa imithetho ecacile mayelana nabagibeli, ukusheshisa, nokunye ukuphulwa kokuphepha.
- Izidakamizwa kanye Notshwala - Intsha idinga ukwaziswa mayelana nezinto ezikhona zokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa nokuphuza utshwala. Khuluma njalo mayelana nendlela yokwenza izinqumo ezinhle futhi ubeke imiphumela ecacile mayelana nokuthi kuzokwenzekani uma ingane yakho ibanjwe ihlola izinto. Xoxa nokuthi angaphuma kanjani esimweni esibi uma edinga ukuhamba ekhaya.
- Isikhathi sokugcina - Akukho okuhle okwenzeka ngemuva kwamabili. Beka isikhathi esifikile sokufika ekhaya futhi uma ingane yakho ibonisa umthwalo wemfanelo ekuhlonipheni isikhathi sokuqala, cabanga ukwenza isikhathi sokufika esikhathini esizayo.
Imithetho ethi Teach Morality
Iminyaka eyishumi neminyaka inikeza amathuba amasha ukuhlola izindinganiso zabo. Ukwenza okulindelweyo kucacile kule minyaka kungathonya izindinganiso zakho ezithatha ingane yakho.
Nakuba le mithetho izobe ichazwe emndenini wakho, kunezindawo ezimbalwa imindeni eminingi engavumelana ngayo.
- Ukuthembeka - Beka imithetho nomntanakho okhuthaza ukuthembeka. Vumelanisa ukuthi imiphumela yokuziphatha okungalungile kuyoba nzima uma ingane yakho izama ukuqamba amanga ukumboza amathrekhi akhe. Futhi cabanga ngemithetho edikibala ukukopela emsebenzini wesikole.
- Ukuphatha Abanye Ngenhlonipho - Ngokuvamile intsha ifuna imithetho ekhuthaza ukuphatha abanye ngenhlonipho. Imithetho mayelana nokuhleba, ukuxhaphaza nokungaxoxanga kungaba izifundo ezibalulekile.
Imithetho ekhuthaza imikhuba enempilo
Iningi lentsha aziwa ngokugqugquzela okukhulu. Ngokuvamile badinga usizo oluvela kumuntu omdala ukuthuthukisa imikhuba enempilo nendlela abachitha ngayo isikhathi sabo nokuzinakekela bona.
- Umsebenzi - Umsebenzi wesikole wasekhaya, imisebenzi yasekhaya kanye nemisebenzi yesikhathi esiningi ngokuvamile ayikho phezulu ohlwini lwabafana. Ngakho-ke, bangadinga imithetho eqinisekisa ukuthi bafeze umsebenzi wabo. Ukusungula isikhathi sokwenza umsebenzi wesikole noma ukuxhumanisa amalungelo emisebenzini futhi ukhuthaze ingane yakho ukuba isebenzise imali ngomsebenzi wesikhashana ingakhuthaza imikhuba emihle.
- Isikhathi sokuphumula - Intsha ngokuvamile idinga imithetho yokubasiza ukuba bachithe isikhathi sabo sokuphumula ngokukhiqiza. Setha imikhawulo ekusetshenzisweni kwe-elekthronikhi ukuze amahora akho okuphumula okuphuthumayo angeke azinikezelwe kukhompyutha, kumakhalekhukhwini noma kumageyimu wevidiyo . Futhi cacile ukuthi ngabe ingane yakho evunyelwe ukuphuma kuphi.
- Ukuzikhathalela - Nakuba iningi lentsha ingasadingi izikhumbuzo zokuxubha amazinyo abo, zisakudinga ukudinga usizo ngokuzinakekela. Cabanga ngemithetho yokukhuthaza ukudla okunempilo, imikhuba emihle yokulala, ukuzivocavoca nokuhlanzeka.
Imithetho yokuthi Lungiselela Intsha Yezwe Eliyiqiniso
Iminyaka eyishumi neminyaka ihlinzeka isikhathi esincane sokuthi ingane yakho izenzele umhlaba wangempela.
Bheka indlela yokuziphatha kwentombazane yakho bese ucabanga ukuthi yini enye ingane yakho okufanele ifunde ngaphambi kokuba ilungele ukuhlala yedwa. Nazi izindawo ezimbalwa lapho uzofuna ukudala khona imithetho:
- Imali - Fundisa ingane yakho indlela yokuphatha imali ngakho ulungele ukuhlelwa kwesabelomali ezweni langempela. Beka imithetho mayelana nokuthi udinge kangakanani ukulondoloza futhi kumsize enze izinqumo ezinhle ngemikhuba yakhe yokusebenzisa. Mbonise indlela yokubeka isabelomali futhi unqume ukuthi yiziphi izinhlobo zezinto azodinga ukuzithenga ngemali yakhe.
- Ukuzijezisa - Intsha idinga ukuzimela ukuze iphile ngokuzimela. Yakha imithetho enikezela inkululeko ethile futhi ivumela imiphumela yemvelo uma kufanelekile.
Imithetho Ethuthukisa Amakhono Ezenhlalakahle
Ngokuvamile intsha idinga ukuhlelwa kahle emnyangweni wamakhono omphakathi. Hlela imithetho esiza ingane yakho ukufunda futhi isebenze izindlela ezempilo zokubhekana nemizwelo yakhe futhi ihlanganyele nabanye abantu.
- Abangane - Uhlobo lwabangane ingane yakho ekhethayo cishe luyoba nomthelela omkhulu ekuziphatheni kwakhe. Uma ingane yakho ikhetha abangani abaphenya inkathazo, beka imingcele ngokuthi bangakanani isikhathi abangayisebenzisa ndawonye ngaphandle kwesikole. Ngokuvamile intsha idinga isiqondiso sabazali mayelana nendlela yokubhekana nezinkinga ezifana nokuxhashazwa nokungavumelani nabangani.
- Ukuqomisana - Qala imithetho yokuthandana enikeza ingane yakho ukuzimela kodwa futhi uqinisekise ukuthi ingane yakho iphephile. Beka imithetho ecacile mayelana nezinhlobo zemisebenzi evunyelwe nokuthi kungakanani ukuxhumana okukwamukelekayo.
- Amakhono Okulawula Umzwelo -Abathengi bavame ukuba ngokomzwelo ngokwemvelo. Imithetho ekhuthaza ukuphathwa kwentukuthelo ibaluleke kakhulu uma unomfana osephule izinto noma wenza izinsongo lapho ethukuthele. Fundisa amakhono okuxazulula izinkinga ukufundisa izindlela eziphephile nokuphumelelayo zokuxazulula izinkinga ngokuzimela.