Nakuba izingane eziningi ezine-Oppositional Defiant Disorder noma I-Disorder Disorder zitholakala ukuthi zinezibonakaliso ezihlobene neurologically ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, inkinga eyinhloko ukuziphatha. Abazali badinga i-arsenal yamasu okubhekana nokunciphisa izinkinga zokuziphatha ekhaya. Isinyathelo sokuqala ukuxilongwa okuphumelelayo nokwelashwa udokotela onokuhlangenwe nakho kokukhathazeka kwengqondo yobuntwana.
Cishe konke ukuziphatha okuhambisana nokuphazamiseka kokuziphatha okuphazamisayo kungabonakala kubantwana abavamile ngezikhathi ezithile. Ukuxilongwa kwe-Disruptive Behavior Disorder kwenziwa uma ukuvama nokuphikisana kwalezi zimpawu kubangela ukukhubazeka komtholampilo emsebenzini wokuzenzela, wezemfundo noma wokusebenza. Ukuqondiswa okuqhubekayo ngumphathi wezempilo osebenzayo kubalulekile ngoba ukuphazamiseka kokuziphatha okuphazamisayo kuvame ukuhambisana nezinye izinkinga ezifana ne-ADHD, ukukhathazeka nokukhathazeka kwemizwelo.
Iseluleko sabazali ekubhekaneni nokukhathazeka kokuziphatha okuphazamisayo ekhaya
- Izingane ezinesidingo se-DBD zidinga izinga eliphakeme lokuphatha kunezinye izingane zonyaka ofanayo. Noma kunjalo, ukubhekwa akudingeki njalo kube nomzali. Eqinisweni, ngoba ukuziphatha okungahloniphi kuvame ukuqondiswa ngokuyinhloko kubazali nakothisha, abazali bangathola ukuthi abanye abanakekeli abanakekelayo, njengabantwana abafanelekayo noma abasiza, bayakwazi ukuthuthukisa ubudlelwane obuhle nengane ehlinzeka ukufundiswa komphakathi kwengane nokuphila okuyigugu abazali.
- Ukusekela kanye nokusekelwa kwabazali kubalulekile ngoba abazali kudingeka babe nokulawula imizwelo yabo ngesikhathi sezinkinga ezinzima nengane. Lezi zithokozi ziyakujabulela ukukwenyanya, futhi zikulungele. Abazali kudingeka balondoloze isimo sengqondo sokungathathi hlangothi lapho enikeza imiyalelo noma imiphumela kumntwana ophazamisayo. Leli khono alitholakali ngokwemvelo futhi kufanele lenziwe futhi liphelele ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Uma abazali bengakufundi ukulawula imizwelo yabo lapho beyala ingane, umphumela uvame ukuhlukumezeka nokukhula kwesifo.
- Thola izindlela zokugcina ubuhlobo obuhle nengane yakho. Qaphela izimfanelo zakhe ezinhle futhi uthole injabulo ngezikhathi zokusondelana. Ngokuvamile siyakugwema abantu abasenza sikhathazeke futhi bathukuthele lapho besilimaza. Kodwa, sibathanda izingane zethu futhi lokho kusishukumisela ukuba sifune ukuphulukisa kubo nakithi. Udinga i-outlet ukuze uthole imizwa yakho, ngakho-ke funani ukwesekwa ukukusiza ukuthi ubhekane nakho. Abazali abaningi bathola ukuthi badinga ukwesekwa ukugcina umshado onempilo, osekelayo ezimweni ezinzima.
- Thola uhlelo bese unamathela kuso. Funda konke ongakwenza mayelana nokuphatha kahle indlela yokuziphatha kwengane yakho; thola okukusebenzelayo, bese usebenzisa lezo zindlela ngendlela ehleliwe futhi ehlelekile. Ukulandelana nokulindela okulindelekile ekuzuzeni ukuziphatha kuzo zonke izingane. Zibalulekile ekuthuthukiseni okunempilo kwengane ephazamisayo.