Okwenzayo kubaluleke kakhulu kunalokho okushoyo.
Izingane zihlala zibuka lokho okwenzayo. Bona indlela osingatha ngayo ukucindezeleka. Babukela indlela ophatha ngayo abanye abantu. Babheka indlela obhekana ngayo nemizwa yakho.
Bazama yonke imininingwane enjengamapongi amancane ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuba abe isibonelo esihle somntanakho.
Uma wenza ngendlela ofuna ukuthi ingane yakho isenze, uzofunda ngokukubuka.
Ukuqaphela ukuthi yini oyisibonelo kungaba enye yezindlela ezingcono kakhulu zokufundisa ingane yakho amakhono amasha.
I-Social Learning Theory
Ngokusho kwe-Social Learning Theory, abantu bafunda ngokubuka abanye. Ucwaningo oludumile lwe-Bo-Bo doll lubonise ukuthi izingane zifunda kanjani ngokubuka abantu abadala. Ngemva kokufakaza umuntu omdala eba nobudlova ngesidakamizwa esingenasiphelo, izingane zaqala ukuhlukumezeka.
Ngokuqinisekile awudingi ukuhlolwa kwesayensi yefancy kodwa ukufakazela ukuthi izingane zilingisa abazali bazo. Uzibonele kangaki amantombazane amancane efaka izithende zomama aphezulu futhi ezama ukubeka izintambo ukuze abonakale njengoMama? Noma bangaki abafana abancane abazenza sengathi bahlabe ukuze bakwazi ukufana nobaba? Izingane ziphinda lokho ezikuzwile ukuthi zisho futhi zilingisa lokho abakubonile.
Qaphela Ukulinganisa Ngengozi Ukuziphatha Okubi
Ngesinye isikhathi, abazali abangazi ukuthi bangabazali abangaboni kahle. Khona-ke, izingane zabo ziqoqa lezo zimo zokuziphatha ezingekho emzimbeni.
Nazi izibonelo ezimbalwa:
- Umama utshela i-cashier esitolo sokudlela indodana yakhe eneminyaka engu-12 ubudala ineminyaka engu-11 nje kuphela ukuze ikwazi ukuthola isaphulelo ku-buffet. Ube esehlabelela indodana yakhe ngoba ulala lapho ethi usebenza umsebenzi wesikole.
- Ubaba uchitha ubusuku bakhe ebuka iTV kodwa utshela indodakazi yakhe eneminyaka engu-14 ukuthi kufanele afunde kabanzi.
- Abazali batshela izingane zabo ukuthi ziphathe wonke umuntu ngenhlonipho kodwa zivame ukubeka imibono ebucayi ukubonakala kwabantu abavela ezindabeni.
- Umbhangqwana ohlukanisile uvame ukukhuluma ngezimpikiswano zesitokisi nokuvakashelwa kodwa ulindele ukuthi izingane zihlangane.
- Umama utshela indodakazi yakhe ukuba ibe nomusa kwabanye kodwa uyamemeza kubhalisi wesitolo lapho isitolo senqaba ukubuyisela into ayethemba ukuyibuyisela.
- Ubaba utshela izingane zakhe ukuthi kufanele zidle impilo enempilo kodwa ihlabe ukudla ngemuva kokulala futhi ingazivocavoca.
- Abazali batshela izingane zabo ukuthi zihlanganyele futhi zinikeze ngalokho abakakaze bazibandakanye kunoma yiluphi uhlobo losizo noma umsebenzi wokuzithandela.
- Ubaba uphuza ugwayi kanti ngenkathi ephethe ugwayi esandleni sakhe, utshela izingane zakhe ukuthi ukubhema kubi futhi akufanele neze bathathe umkhuba omubi.
- Abazali batshela izingane zabo ukuthi zithwale izibopho zokuziphatha kwabo kodwa uma zikhohlwa ngokuqokwa kwamazinyo wengane, ziphikisana nomuntu oyamukelayo futhi zimtshele ukuthi wenza iphutha lokuhlela.
Landela Imithetho Yakho
Kunzima kakhulu ukukhombisa ukuziphatha okufanelekayo kwezingane zakho ngaso sonke isikhathi. Noma kunjalo, unamathuba nsuku zonke ukunikeza izingane zakho ulwazi lokufunda ukuze zibone indlela yokuziphatha ngendlela efanele.
Nakuba ungathola amathuba ocabanga ukuthi kufanelekile ukugoba imithetho kancane, izingane azikwazi ukwenza lokhu. Isibonelo, uma utshela "amanga amancane amhlophe" ngokutshela umngane wakho ukuthi awukwazi ukumsiza ukuthi ahambe ngoba "unezinwele" kepha uya kwenye ukubandakanyeka komphakathi esikhundleni sakho, izingane zakho zizofunda ukuthi amanga ayamukelekile.
Bonisa izingane zakho ukuthi ungayilandela kanjani imithetho yakho yasendlini . Sebenzisa isiyalo esifundisa amakhono okuphila futhi uchaze ukuthi imithetho izobasiza kanjani kamuva ekuphileni. Uma ubonisa izingane ukuthi uyakwazisa imithetho yasendlini , izokwandisa ukusebenza kwamasu akho wokuqeqesha.
Khombisa Amakhono Amasha
Uma ufuna ukufundisa ingane yakho into entsha, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yindlela yokwenza umbhede wakhe noma ukubopha izicathulo zakhe, mbonise ukuthi uyayenza kanjani. Bese-ke, makenze lokho. Ukuboniswa, kunokutshela, kungaba yindlela engcono kakhulu yokufunda izingane ezihlukahlukene zamakhono amasha.