Fundisa izingane lamakhono ukuze abasize babe abantu abadala abaphumelelayo
Ukulungiswa akufanele kube mayelana nokujezisa izingane ngokuziphatha okungalungile. Esikhundleni salokho, isiyalo kufanele sibe mayelana nokufundisa izingane amakhono okuphila abadinga ukuba abe ngabantu abadala abanomthwalo wemfanelo.
Lokhu akusho ukuthi akufanele unikeze izingane zakho imiphumela emibi. Empeleni, imiphumela ingaba othisha abahle.
Kodwa kubalulekile ukuthi isiyalo sakho sifundise izingane zakho ukuthi zenze kanjani isikhathi esilandelayo kangcono ngakho amaphutha abo abe ngamathuba okufunda abalulekile. Nazi amakhono ayisithupha okuphila isiyalo sakho kufanele sifundise ingane yakho:
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UkuzijezisaIzingane ezizibandakanya ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole , ukungabaniki imisebenzi, noma ukuzikhulula njalo emisebenzini enzima ngeke zifundise ukuzithiba. Esikhundleni salokho, lezo zinto zizoqinisa kuphela ukuthembela kwengane yakho kuwe.
Umgomo omkhulu kufanele ube ngabazali ukuzikhandla emsebenzini. Ekugcineni, izingane zakho akufanele zikudinge. Ukuze babasize ngalokhu, abazali kudingeka bazisize izingane zifunde ukuzithiba .
Ingane yakho kufanele ifunde ukuzithiba mayelana nemali, imisebenzi , umsebenzi wesikole kanye nokuphathwa kwesikhathi. Indlela engcono kakhulu yokufundisa ukuzithiba, ukuhlinzeka ngemiphumela engaguquki kokuziphatha okubi kanye nemiphumela emihle yokuziphatha okuhle.
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Amakhono EzenhlalakahleIningi lezingane zidinga usizo oluningi-nokuzijwayeza-ukufunda amakhono omphakathi. Izingane ezincane zidinga ukufunda ukuhlanganyela, sebenzisa imikhuba emihle, futhi zikhulume ngomusa ukuze zikwazi ukuhlakulela ubungane obuphilile.
Izingane ezindala zidinga ukusiza ngokuhle kahle ngamakhono abo omphakathi. Ukudlala indima indlela yokucela usizo, ukhulume lapho imizwa yabo ilimaza noma iphakama kumuntu ohlukumezayo. Amakhono omuhle omphakathi yikhono lokuphila elingenza umehluko omkhulu empumelelweni yengane yakho kulo lonke esikoleni futhi ube ngumuntu omdala.
Thola amakhono othize omphakathi kanye nemikhuba emihle ofuna ingane yakho ifunde. Ukudlala indima ukuthi ungasebenzisa kanjani amakhono futhi unikeze impendulo eningi. Uma ubamba ingane yakho usebenzisa amakhono omphakathi, yenza udumo .
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Ukwenza Izinqumo EzempiloIzingane azibuki izinkinga ngendlela efanayo abantu abadala abakwenzayo. Badinga usizo lokufunda amakhono okuxazulula izinkinga futhi badinga ukujwayela ukwenza izinqumo ezinempilo ngokwabo.
Uma ingane yakho ihlangana nenkinga, sebenzani ndawonye ukuthuthukisa isisombululo esinempilo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane yakho ayikwazi ukunquma ukuthi yini okufanele uyigqoke emcimbini wokuzalwa, noma ayikwazi ukuthola inkinga yakhe yezibalo, kunamathuba onke okufundisa amakhono wokuxazulula izinkinga.
Ukuqondisa izingane ngaphandle kokwenza zonke izinqumo zabo kubalulekile ekubasizeni ukuba bafunde ukwenza izinqumo ezinempilo. Gwema ukuba ngumzali we- helicopter futhi uma kuphephile ukwenza kanjalo, vumela ingane yakho ukuba ibhekane nemiphumela yemvelo . Amaphutha angaba ithuluzi elinamandla lokufundisa.
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Ukulawula UmfuthoIzingane zithuthuka kancane kancane ukulawula ukucindezeleka ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Abazali bangasiza ukusiza amakhono okulawula umfutho ngezindlela eziningana. Ukunikeza imiphumela enengqondo yindlela eyodwa yokugqugquzela ingane yakho ukuba isebenze ukuzithokozisa ukubambezeleka.
Ukudumisa kungaba enye enye indlela enhle yokusiza izingane ukuphatha impulses. Dumisani ingane yakho ngokucabanga ngaphambi kokuba isebenze, ilinde ithuba lakhe ezingxoxweni, noma lihambe lapho lizwela.
Ukufundiswa kwangaphambili kungaba yindlela enhle kakhulu yokusiza ukuvimbela izinkinga ngaphambi kokuba ziqale. Isibonelo, ngaphambi kokuphuma emotweni, tshela ingane yakho eneminyaka engu-4 ubudala, "Uma siphuma emotweni, sizobamba izandla futhi sihambe ngaphesheya kokupaka izimoto ngesikhathi sibheka izimoto." Ukuziphatha ngendlela eyodwa isinyathelo ngesikhathi ingane yakho ilawula ikhono elisha.
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Isimiso somzweloUkufundisa izingane izindlela eziphilile zokubhekana nemizwelo yabo kuyikhono lokuphila abazali abaningi abangaliboni. Uma izingane zingakwazi ukuzwakalisa ngamazwi, noma uma zingazi ukuthi zingabhekana kanjani nemizwelo engakhululekile, ngokuvamile zivutha ukucasuka noma zihlukumezeke .
Kusukela esemncane, fundisa ingane yakho ngemizwa . Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi ukuhlakanipha ngokomzwelo kubaluleke ngaphezu kwe-IQ uma kuziwa empumelelweni yomhlaba wonke.
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UkuqinisekaUkuqondana okuhambisanayo kuyindlela enhle yokusiza ingane yakho ukuba ithole ukuzethemba nokuzethemba. Futhi ukuzethemba kuyovula umnyango kwamanye amakhono okuphila, njengokukwazi ukufunda emaphutheni, ukwamukela ukugxekwa nokubhekana nokukhathazeka okuqhubekayo.
Misa imithetho ecacile yasendlini kanye nemiphumela emihle nemiphumela emibi , futhi ingane yakho izokwazi ukuthi yini ongayilindela. Uma ingane yakho izwa iphephile, iyoba nokuqiniseka okukhulu ngokuzama izinto ezintsha nokuhlola amakhono akhe. Sebenzisa isiyalo esihle ukuqinisa ukuzethemba kwakhe yonke leminyaka futhi uzobe esilungele ukuthatha umhlaba uma efika ebuntwaneni.
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