Ngemuva kokuhlala esikoleni usuku lonke, izingane eziningi zingathola izinto eziningi abangathanda ukuzenza ngaphandle kokuhlala phansi nokwenza umsebenzi wesikole. Futhi manje ukuthi izingane zithola amadivaysi kagesi, akumangazi ukuthi bangathanda ukudlala imidlalo yevidiyo kunokuxazulula izinkinga zezibalo.
Futhi ezinye izingane azifuni ukwenza umsebenzi wazo wesikole. Kungakhungathekisa umzali ozama ukukhumbuza njalo ingane ukuthi "Yenza isipelingi sakho."
Kodwa, ukugxila ingane engabaza ukwenza umsebenzi wakhe akuphumelelanga. Esikhathini eside, konke ukugabha kungase kubuyele emuva.
Inkinga yokuhlanganisa
Ucwaningo olwenziwa ngo-2017 olwanyatheliswa kuyi- Journal of Applied Developmental Psychology , lwathola ukuthi izingane zenza kahle uma abazali bebakhuthaza ukuba bazimele ngekhanda labo. Abacwaningi bathola ukuthi izingane zidinga ukuzimela ukuze zibe abafundi abahlanganyele ngokugcwele.
Ukuzihlanganisa akukhuthazi ukuzimela. Ngaso sonke isikhathi uthi, "Ungakhohlwa ukwenza umsebenzi wakho wesikole," futhi, "Angikuphinde ngikutshele. Hlala phansi wenze umsebenzi wesikole," kusho ukuthi uthatha imithwalo yemfanelo ngaphezu kwengane yakho ukuthola umsebenzi wesikole owenziwe.
Uma uchitha ukuhlwa kwakho, ucela, futhi uzama ukugqugquzela ingane yakho ukuba yenze umsebenzi wayo, cishe ubeka amandla nokutshala izimali emsebenzini wakhe kunalokho.
Ukuzibandakanya kuze kube yilapho ingane yakho ingena ekufundeni akufundisi ukuzithiba . Esikhundleni salokho, angase avumelane ukukuvumela ukuba uyeke ukugxila, hhayi ngoba ucabanga ukuthi kubalulekile ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole.
Ukuzibandakanya kwenza ingane yakho ixhomeke kakhulu kuwe. Angeke akhathazeke ngokuphatha isikhathi sakhe noma ukulandela izabelo zakhe uma eyazi ukuthi uzokunikeza izikhumbuzo eziningi.
Ukuzihlanganisa nakho kufundisa ingane yakho ukuthi akudingeki ikulalele okokuqala uma umtshela okuthile. Uma eyazi ukuthi uzosho ukuthi "Yenza umsebenzi wesikole," okungenani izikhathi ezingu-10, angeke ashukunyiswe ukuba akwenze izikhathi eziyisishiyagalolunye ozikhulumayo.
Vumela Imiphumela Yemvelo
Ngezinye izikhathi, imiphumela yemvelo yilabo abafundisi abangcono kakhulu. Ngakho kunokuba ugxeke ingane yakho ukuze yenze umsebenzi wakhe ufezeke, hamba eceleni ubone ukuthi kwenzekani.
Cabanga ngemiphumela engase ibhekane nayo esikoleni uma engayitholi umsebenzi wesikole. Ingabe kuzodingeka ahlale e-recess? Ingabe uthisha uyomenza ahlale ngemuva kwesikole? Ingabe uzothola i-zero? Kwezinye izingane, le miphumela ingaba yimpumelelo kakhulu.
Yiqiniso,, lezo zindlela ngeke zisebenze wonke umuntu. Uma ingane yakho ingakhathazeki ukuthi imaphi amamaki ayithola noma kubonakala sengathi ayinandaba nemiphumela uthisha ayiphuma, cishe ngeke afunde isifundo sokuphila uma uvumela imiphumela yemvelo.
Kodwa kwabanye abantwana, ukuvumela ukuba babhekane nemiphumela yokuziphatha kwabo kungabalulekile ekusizeni bafunde.
Khuthaza Ingane Yakho Yenza Umsebenzi Wakhe
Ikhadi lokubika yedwa alikhuthazi zonke izingane. Izingane eziningi zithinteka kakhulu okwenzekayo namhlanje, hhayi ukuthi yiliphi uhlobo lebanga abazoyithola ekhadini lombiko ezinyangeni ezimbalwa. Lezi zingane zidinga imiphumela emihle esheshayo yokubakhuthaza.
Ungashukumisela ingane yakho ukuba yenze umsebenzi wakhe ngokubeka imingcele nge-electronics. Misa umthetho wekhaya othi, "Ayikho i-electronics kuze kube yilapho isikole siqedile."
Bese, ushiye izingane zakho ukuthi unqume ukuthi uzokwenza nini umsebenzi wazo. Ekuqaleni bayifinyelela, isikhathi esengeziwe abazodingeka benze izinto abazithandayo. Uma bekhetha ukungenzi umsebenzi wabo, banqume amalungelo abo baze baqede izabelo zabo.
Ungakwazi futhi ukunikeza izikhuthazo ezengeziwe ngesistimu yomvuzo . Uma ingane yakho ithola umsebenzi wakhe wesikole owenziwa ngesikhathi ngasinye nsuku zonke, mnike umvuzo omncane ngempelasonto.
Noma, sebenzisa uhlelo lwezomnotho lwe-token ngokumnika ithokheni ngosuku oluthola ngalo umsebenzi wakhe. Masihambise amathokheni ukuze uthole imivuzo ewufanele amaphuzu ahlukahlukene. Yiba nomthelela ekukhetheni imivuzo futhi uzoshukumiseleka ukuba azuze.
Inkinga-Sombulula Ndawonye
Uma ingane yakho ihluleka ukwenza umsebenzi wayo, kungasiza ekuxazululeni inkinga-ukuxazulula ndawonye. Umsebenzi ungase ube nzima noma mhlawumbe uyakhohlwa ukubhala izabelo zakhe. Uma usebenza ndawonye ukuxazulula le nkinga ungathola izixazululo ezilula ezizomsiza ukuba enze umsebenzi wakhe ngokuzimela.
Buza ingane yakho, "Yini engakusiza ukuthi uthole umsebenzi wakho ngesikhathi?" Ungase umangale ukuzwa imibono yakhe. Kungaba lula njengokumvumela ukuba enze umsebenzi wakhe emva kokudla, ngakho-ke angakwazi ukuphumula lapho ebuya ekhaya esikoleni. Noma, angase athi udinga usizo oluningi ngendaba ethize.
Ukumema ukungena kwengane yakho kungamsiza ukuba ashukunyiswe ukuthola isisombululo. Khona-ke, cishe uzokwenza umsebenzi wakhe wesikole, ngezikhumbuzo ezimbalwa ezivela kuwe.
> Imithombo
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