Ukukhungatheka ngokukhuluma nokusebenza kungase kube izibonakaliso
Uma inkulumo yakho yezingane zasenkulisa kanye nentuthuko yolimi isala ngemuva kwontanga yakhe, ungase uzibuze ukuthi udinga yini ukwelashwa ukuze ubambe. Ukungezwani kokukhulumisana phakathi kwengane yakho nabangane bakhe kungase kubonakale kukhulunywa kakhulu njengoba eqhubeka esebenzisana nabo esimweni sokufunda esimisiwe.
Ngokuvamile, abazali abaningi bakhathazekile ngokuthuthukiswa kwezingane zabo.
Kodwa njengakwezinye izindawo zokuthuthukiswa, inkulumo yezingane namakhono olimi kusasa ngamanani ahlukene.
Nakuba kubalulekile ukubuka ukulibaziseka enkulumweni yengane yakho nokuthuthukiswa kolwimi, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ukugaya amakhono okuxhumana akusho ukuthi ukukhubazeka kwenkulumo noma ulimi akunakugwemeka.
Izimpawu Zokunciphisa Inkulumo
Inkulumo ethize kanye namakhono olimi kufanele kucatshangwe ukuthi kwenzeka esikhathini esingakapheli isikhathi kunokuba kube neminyaka eyiyo. Kodwa-ke, kukhona ukuziphatha okuvamile okungase kube izibonakaliso zokukhuluma okungahle kube khona kanye nokulibaziseka kwelimi ongayilinda. Isibonelo, ingabe inkulumo yengane yakho ibonakala ihluke kakhulu kwezinye izingane esenkulisa yakhe? Ingabe othisha nezinye izingane kubonakala kunzima ukuqonda ingane yakho?
Ingabe ingane yakho ikhungatheke kalula ngokufunda nokudlala imisebenzi ehilela ukukhuluma nabanye, ukulalela noma izinkomba ezilandelayo?
Ingabe ingane yakho ibonakala inganaki abanye futhi ingabi nentshisekelo emisebenzini yeklasini noma idlale nabanye?
Izingane ezitholayo ukukhuluma inselele zingase zithukuthele, zilume noma zishaye ezinye izingane kunokusebenzisa amagama abo. Izingane ezikhomba noma ezithatha izinto noma abantu futhi zenze umsindo ukuze zibonise izimpendulo zabo kunokuba zibize izinto noma abantu ngamagama abo nazo zibonisa izimpawu zokuba lihlehlisiwe ulimi.
Okufanayo kuya kubantwana abanenkinga yokulandela imiyalelo noma izinkomba ezibandakanya izinyathelo ezimbili noma ezimbili. Qaphela ingane yakho. Ingabe ulandela imisebenzi ngokubheka abanye ngaphambi kokuba azame? Khona-ke, angase abe nenkinga yokukhuluma.
Ezinye izinzuzo zokulinda
Kwezinye izimo, ungabona futhi izibonakaliso zokukhuluma nokulibazisa ngolimi ngokukhokha ngokucophelela lokho ingane yakho ekushoyo nokuthi uyisho kanjani. Ukukhuluma ikakhulu ngamagama abodwa noma imishwana emifushane kunokuba ukhulume ngemisho egcwele kungenzeka kube nokukhathazeka. Isibonelo, ingane yasenkulisa enezikhathi zokulibaziseka ingenza ukuthinta isenzo kweloli yokudlala bese uthi, "iloli" kunokuthi, "Ngifuna iloli."
Izingane ezinokulibaziseka kwenkulumo kanye nokukhathazeka okungenzeka ukuzwa kungashiya imisindo yokuqala yamagama noma ukukhipha amagama ngamazwi angaphezu kweyodwa. Bangase babekele imisindo efana nomsindo ofanele kodwa akuyona umsindo oqondile. Ingane ingase ithi "toof" esikhundleni sezinyo noma "parm" kunokuthi "epulazini."
Lezi zinhlobo zokungalingani kwenkulumo ngezinye izikhathi zibangelwa ukutheleleka kwezindlebe eziphakathi komphakathi ngesikhathi sokuthuthukiswa kolimi lokuqala. Kwezinye izimo, lezi zinhlobo zamaphutha ezinkulumo zingabangelwa ukungabi nokuhlanganiswa kolimi nemisipha yomlomo wengane.
Ama-pathologists okukhulumayo abhekisela kulokhu njengokubambisana ngomlomo. Kuzo zonke izimo, ukwelashwa kwenkulumo kungase kuthuthukiswe inkulumo kulezi zimo.
Uma usola ukuthi ingane yakho yasenkulisa inokulibaziseka kwelimi, khuluma nodokotela wezingane mayelana nokuthi kungenzeka yini ukuba uhlolwe.