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Ukuzibandakanya ngokocansi, uma isetshenziselwa ukuhambisana nezingane kanye nezingane, ngokuvamile kubhekisela enkambisweni yokugcizelela isimo sobulili somuntu ngamunye. Ukuhlukumeza ngokobulili akuyona indlela enempilo yokuziphatha ngokobulili .
Ngokusho kwe-American Psychological Association (APA), ukuhlukumeza ngokocansi kungaveza ngezindlela ezine:
- Uma umuntu ecabanga ukuthi kufanele avele kuphela ngokobulili bakhe.
- Uma ingane ilindeleke noma ikhuthazwe ukuba yenze noma igqoke ngokocansi.
- Uma umuntu ephathwa njengezinto zobulili kunokuba umuntu wonke.
- Uma izici zomzimba zibhekwa njengezibonakaliso kuphela zobulili.
Bobabili abesifazane nabesilisa bangaba yisisulu sokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili.
Igama elithi "ngokocansi" lisetshenziselwa ukubhekisela kuhlobo lokuzivikela kwengqondo lapho abantu basebenzisa ukuziphatha ngokocansi njengendlela yokulawula ukukhathazeka kwabo.
Esikhathini sethu, futhi ikakhulukazi ngenxa yenkambiso yama pop kanye nezinye izinhlobo zabezindaba, kungabonakala kungenakwenzeka ukugwema ukwamukela ingqondo lapho ulinganisela khona ubulili nokuzibheka. Ukukhangisa kusebenza ngaphansi kokuthi "ukuthengisa ucansi." Abomagazini banikeza izeluleko zocansi ezifana ne-lollipops, futhi izinhloko zivame ukugqugquzela izihloko ezithembisa ukuthi zikubukeke zibe mncane, i-curvier, i-sexier. Izimboni eziphelele zebhange ngokungaqiniseki ukuthi amakhasimende abo okuhlosiwe azothola adinga ukulungiswa.
Futhi yonke le milayezo iqhutshelwa kuthelevishini nasema-movie.
Kubonakala sengathi akunakwenzeka ukuba ugweme ukusebenzisa lolu cabanga , ngisho nokungazi.
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Ungagwema ukuthenga ngokobulili kwe-tweens ikakhulukazi ngokugwema wonke ama-media hype.
Ungaphinde ugweme ukuhlukumeza ngokocansi ngokubasiza bafunde ngokuziphatha okuhle ngokocansi esemncane, futhi ngokubafundisa ukuthi bangaphezu kokubukeka kwabo, nokunye okuningi kunokuthi baningi kangakanani umsebenzi wezocansi noma abanakho ' t usebenza.
Eqinisweni, ekuqaleni uqala ukufundisa ingane yakho mayelana nobulili obuphilile , ngcono isimo sokuzizwa kwayo, futhi kuphakama ukuzethemba nokuzihlonipha kuyoba. Bayoba namathuba amaningi okwenza izinqumo ezihlakaniphile mayelana nobulili, noma umsebenzi wocansi uma kufika isikhathi. Bazokwazi nokuzivikela kangcono ukuzivikela ezithandweni zobulili.
Singabantu bezocansi kusukela lapho sizalwa khona. Qala ukufundisa ingane yakho kanye nawe namhlanje ukuze benze izinqumo ezifanele kusasa.
Umthombo:
I-American Psychological Association. Ukuhlukunyezwa Kwabesifazane: Ukufingqwa Kwokuphatha. http://www.apa.org/pi/women/programs/girls/report.aspx?item=2