Funda Indlela Yokuphendula Nendlela Yokuqaphela Nini Ukufuna Usizo Lomsebenzi
Uma ingane yakho ibonisa ukuziphatha ngokocansi, kufanelekile ukukhathazeka. Kodwa ungesabi. Yakha uhlelo lokubhekana nokuziphatha futhi unqume ukuthi uzodinga yini ukuthola usizo lochwepheshe.
Zifundise Ngokuthuthukiswa Ngokocansi
Isinyathelo sokuqala ekubhekaneni nokuziphatha ngokobulili ezinganeni ukuthuthukisa ukuqonda ukuthuthukiswa kocansi .
Nakuba kungase kube okujwayelekile kumuntu oneminyaka engu-3 ubudala ukuba afike phansi ebhulukwe lakhe, akuyona into evamile ukuba oneminyaka engu-13 ubudala abonise ukuziphatha okufanayo. Funda ngokuthuthukiswa kocansi olufanele iminyaka ukucacisa ukuthi ukuziphatha kwengane yakho kuvamile .
Fundisa Ukuziphatha Okufanele
Izingane ezincane aziqondi imibono mayelana nokuthobeka nemingcele ngaphandle kokuthi zifundiswe. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile kulabo abanakekeli ukuthi bafundise ukuthi iziphi izinto ezifanelekayo nokuthi yiziphi izimo ezingalungile.
Izingane ezisencane kufanele zifundiswe ngemizimba yazo kanye nezinkinga ezithinta ukuthinta okuphephile. Kufanele futhi banikwe ulwazi mayelana nendlela yokuphendula uma othile ezama ukuwathinta ngendlela eyenza bazizwe bengakhululekile. Banike ngolwazi ukuze bahlale bephephile.
Izingane kufanele zinikezwe ulwazi olufanele iqembu labo lobudala. Isibonelo, lapho uneminyaka engu-5 ebuza lapho abantwana bevela khona, ungamniki yonke imininingwane.
Kunalokho, phendula ngolwazi olulungele iminyaka yengane yakho.
Izingane ezindala kufanele zinikezwe amaqiniso amaningi mayelana nobulili obuhlukile kanye nokukhulelwa njengoba zikhula. Kubalulekile ukuthuthukisa umzila ovulekile wokuxhumana ukusiza izingane zizwe zikhululekile ukubuza imibuzo nokufuna usizo uma kudingeka.
Thuthukisa imithetho yasekhaya efundisa imingcele efanele. Isibonelo, faka umthetho othi, "Gxuma eminyango evaliwe bese ulinda impendulo ngaphambi kokungena," noma "Umuntu oyedwa endlini yokugezela ngesikhathi."
Phendula ekuziphatheni okungavumelekile ngokocansi
Lapho ukuziphatha kobulili okungalungile kwenzeka, kubalulekile ukuphendula ngendlela engahlaziyi . Isibonelo, uma ingane yakho eneminyaka engu-4 ifinyelela phansi ibhulukwe lakhe ngenkathi usekudleni, umkhumbuze ukuthi akulungile ukwenza kanjalo emphakathini. Mfundise ngomsindo phakathi kokuziphatha okuzimele kanye nomphakathi.
Phendula ngokuthula futhi ugweme ukusebenzisa amagama angase ahlazise ingane yakho njengokuthi "yinto embi" noma "engenangqondo." Uma ingane yakho izwa ihlazo, ingase inomuzwa wokuthi akufanele akhulume nawe uma enemibuzo yesikhathi esizayo mayelana nocansi noma umzimba wakhe.
Funa Izimpawu Zesixwayiso Senkinga Enzima Kakhulu
Funa izibonakaliso zokuxwayisa ukuthi ukuziphatha ngokocansi kungabonakalisa inkinga enkulu kakhulu noma kungadinga ukungenelela kochwepheshe. Izimpawu zokuxwayisa ezingenzeka zingabandakanya:
- Ukuziphatha ngokocansi okungafaneleki kahle - Isibonelo, oneminyaka engu-12 ubudala ozama ukuhamba azungeze indlu akahambanga kahle.
- Ukuziphatha ngokuzibandakanya ngokobulili - Akukaze kube kuhle ukuziphatha okuzocansi ukuthi kube nokucindezela, njengengane ezama ukukholisa enye ingane ukuba ihlanganyele emsebenzini wocansi ngokwenza izinsongo noma ukusebenzisa ukuhlukunyezwa.
- Ukuziphatha okucatshangelwe ngokobulili - Uma ingane igxila isikhathi esiningi namandla phezu kokuziphatha ngokobulili, njengokuhlose ukuzama ukubuka umntanakho ukuphazamisa, kuyibendera elibomvu.
- Ukuziphatha okungaphenduli ukuziphatha - Uma uziphatha ngendlela efanele ngokuziphatha ngokobulili kodwa kuyaqhubeka kwenzeka, kufanele kube isizathu sokukhathazeka.
- Ukuziphatha ngokocansi okuphazamisa impilo yengane - Uma ukuziphatha kuphazamisa ubungane, njengengane engavunyelwe emuva endlini yomngane ngenxa yokuzama ukudonsa ibhulukwe lomngane wayo ngokuphindaphindiwe, kuyinkinga. Futhi kuyinkinga uma ukuziphatha ngokocansi kuphazamisa isikole kanye nemfundo yengane yakho.
- Ukuziphatha ngokocansi okubonisa ulwazi oluvuthiwe ngocansi - Ifulege elibomvu lapho izingane zinolwazi oluvuthiwe lokuziphatha ngokocansi futhi zenza kulolo lwazi. Isibonelo, ingane eneminyaka engu-4 akufanele ilandele umsebenzi omdala wocansi futhi uneminyaka engu-8 akufanele abe ukuzama ukufinyelela izithombe zobulili ezingcolile.
Izizathu zokuziphatha kocansi
Kunezizathu eziningi ezingenzeka zokuziphatha okungalungile ngokobulili. Ngezinye izikhathi izingane zibonisa ukuziphatha kobulili ngoba aziqondi ukuthi akufanelekile. Noma kunjalo, kungase kube isibonakaliso senkinga enkulu kakhulu.
Izingane ezitholakala kokuqukethwe kocansi zingase zibonise ukuziphatha ngokobulili. Ngezinye izikhathi ukuziphatha kobulili kuyisixwayiso sokuthi ingane kungenzeka ihlukumezwe ngokocansi.
Kodwa-ke, akuzona zonke izenzo zokuziphatha ngokobulili ezibangelwa ukuhlukumeza ngokocansi. Izingane ezidalulwe ku-TV noma ama-movie angafanelekile ngokwanele angase aqale ukwenza okuqukethwe ngokocansi. Izingane zingadluliselwa emifanekiso yezithombe ku-intanethi noma ngenkathi zixoxa nge-intanethi.
Ngezinye izikhathi izingane zivuleleke kokuqukethwe ngokocansi yiontanga. Izingane ezindala ebhasini zingase zitshele amahlaya angafanele noma izingane zingase zizwe oontanga bexoxa ngezinto ezibonakalayo abazibonele.
Funa Usizo Olwengeziwe Uma Kudingeka
Funa usizo lobuchwepheshe ngezinkinga zokuziphatha uma ukhathazekile ngokuziphatha komntwana wakho ngokobulili. Khuluma nodokotela wengane yakho noma uchwepheshe wezezempilo yengqondo ukuze uxoxisane nokukhathazeka kwakho futhi unqume ukuthi ngabe yimuphi omunye umsebenzi ongadingeka. Uchwepheshe angaqhuba ukuhlola futhi enze izincomo zokwelashwa ukubhekana nezinkinga zokuziphatha ngokobulili.
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