Uma ingane yakho isungulwe umkhuba wokudlala ne-penis yakhe, ungase ukhathazeke ngokuthi lokhu kuyinto evamile. Ingabe kufanele wenze noma yini ngakho? Ukuvimbela izinkinga zezokwelapha, noma kunjalo, lokhu kuziphatha okujwayelekile futhi akufanele ukhathazeke ngakho. Funda ngalokho okufanele uhlole nokuthi yini ongayenza.
Ukuziphatha Okuvamile Kwabafana
Ukuthinta, ukukhipha noma ukudonsa endaweni yesisu kungumsebenzi ojwayelekile wabafana abaneminyaka engu-2 ukuya ku-6.
Kumele bahlele kabusha izidalwa zabo zobulili ukuze bathole induduzo noma banciphise itchki. Ngenkathi yokwenza lokhu, izinsana zingathatha isikhashana bese ziqaphela ukuthi zizwa zijabulisa. Bangase baqaphele ngokwengeziwe izindlela zabo zemvelo. Abanayo leso sihlungi endaweni esitshela ukuthi akufanelekile ukuthinta i-penis yakho nganoma isiphi isikhathi lapho ukushaywa kwecala kushaya khona. Njengomncane noma oneminyaka engu-2 ubudala, ingane isincane kakhulu ukuqala ukuqinisa lokho okwamanje.
Indodana yakho ingase isetshenziselwe ukugqoka. Uma ushintsha kusuka ku-onesie / i-jumper uhlobo lokugqoka izingubo zokugqoka izingubo eziningi zomfana , ama-waistbands ayanamandla noma atholakala kancane kancane kunezinto ezinganeni. Lokhu kungaholela ekuhloleni okwengeziwe kanye nesidingo sokulungiswa.
Ukulawula Imicimbi Yempilo
Okokuqala, phuma noma yiziphi izinkinga zezokwelapha ezifana nesimo se-dermatological, ukutheleleka kwefungal, noma esinye isifo. Bheka izibonakaliso ezibonakalayo zangaphandle ezifana nobuhlungu, izinkinga zokugeleza, isikhumba esikhanyayo endaweni, ubomvu, ukuvuvukala, ukuphuma kwamanzi, noma ukukhishwa kwesikhumba okwakungekho ngaphambili.
Uma noma iyiphi yalezi zimpawu zikhona khona-ke ubone umhlinzeki wakho wezempilo ngokushesha.
Ukushaywa komzimba nokucasuka kuvamile kubafana, ikakhulukazi uma begqoke izindiza ezimweni ezifudumele. Ungase ufune ukusebenzisa la maqhinga:
- Thola ukuqina kwesibambo se-diaper. Ama-diapers aqinile kakhulu ayathukuthelisa kodwa ama-diaper ahluleka kakhulu angase abe mabi kakhulu njengoba evumela ukuqhuma okuqhubekayo encane esebenzayo, okufakazela ukushayela.
- Shintsha i-diaper yakhe ngokuphindaphindiwe ukuze izakhi zakhe zobulili zinganamatheli kumabhuleki akhe.
- Uma ubona ukuthi unamathele ku-diaper noma i-scrotum yakhe ne-penis ehlangene ndawonye, sebenzisa umkhiqizo ofana ne-Monistat Chafing Relief Powder-Gel ukuvimbela lokhu kushayela. Faka isicelo ekuguqulweni kwe-diaper ngayinye, ikakhulukazi esimweni esishisayo.
- Masigijime azungeze uhamba-ze usuku. Uma ubhala kancane ukudlala kwepenisi, kungenzeka ukuthi izindiza zakhe noma izingubo zakhe zenza umkhuba wakhe.
- Qinisekisa ukuthi izigqoko zakhe zikhululekile ukuthola induduzo.
- Cabanga ukuqala ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi uma ingane yakho ilungile.
Yini Ongayenza?
Uma enza ngaso sonke isikhathi noma ungathanda ukuthi angakwenzi emphakathini, yini ongayenza? Ungabizi ukunaka kakhulu kulo. Sebenzisa ukuqondisa kabusha, ukumnika okunye okumele kwenziwe ngezandla zakhe (njengethoyizi noma incwadi). Mcele ukuthi enze okuthile ngezandla zakhe ngemibuzo efana nokuthi, "Ude kangakanani wena?" "Ngibonise ukuthi i-kitty cat inkulu kangakanani," "Khomba uphawu lokuma," noma "Nginike amahlanu aphezulu."
Uma esephumile kumabhoyi noma ubona ukuthi uyakwenza njengento yokuzihlisa, ungase ufune ukuqala ukushintsha ukuziphatha kwakhe. Qala ukukhuluma ngezikhathi ezifanele nezindawo zokuthinta leyo ngxenye yomzimba wakho. Cishe bonke abafana badinga leyo nkulumo ngesikhatsi esithile.
Kudingeka bafunde ukwenza izinguquko ngaphandle kokubona futhi kumele bafunde isikhathi esifanele nendawo yokushaya indlwabu.
Abanye abazali bathi batshelwe ukuthi ukudlala ne-penis kungabonakalisa uphawu lwe-autism ekuqaleni. Qinisekisa ukuthi ayikho ohlwini olunjalo njengabachwepheshe. Noma yikuphi ukuziphatha okubodwa okwenziwe yedwa lapho ingane yakho ikhula ngendlela evamile akufanele iphutha nge-autism.
> Umthombo:
> Izithandani zobulili ezinganeni ezincane, Yini ejwayelekile, Yini engeyona? I-American Academy of Pediatrics. https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/preschool/Pages/Sexual-Behaviors-Young-Children.aspx