Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhlela idili noma ihholo elibucayi, ikhekhe eliyisiqalo kanye nezigqoko ezingenalutho, usuku lokuqala lokuzalwa kwengane yakho luyinto enkulu. Leyo ntsha encane, engenakuzisiza ikhula, futhi usuku ngalunye liletha esinye isimangalo esimangalisayo.
Izingane zikhula ngamazinga ahlukene. Ngezinyanga ezingu-12, abanye bahamba, bekhuluma (kancane), futhi bazondla ngokwabo. Abanye bangase bangaziqondi wonke lawo makghono amasonto ambalwa noma ngisho nezinyanga ezimbalwa. Ngaphakathi kwalolu hlu olujwayelekile, ungabuka ezinye izenzakalo ezivamile.
Amakhono Ezimpahla Zama-Gross
Isimiso sezinyanga eziyishumi nambili sifana nalokho okudlule kokusana, okungenani ngokomzimba. Kusukela manje, ukuma komzimba wengane yakho kuzoqala ukushintsha njengoba kusebenza ngokwengeziwe, okuzoholela ekutheni umthambo we-muscle nezingane ezincane kakhulu.
Lezi zinguquko zokunyakaza ziyingxenye yentuthuko yakhe yamakhono amakhulu , okuhambisana nokusetshenziswa okuthuthukisiwe kwamaqembu amakhulu ama-muscle afana nezingalo zakhe nemilenze. Eminyakeni yobudala eyodwa, lamakhono amasha azobonakalisa ikhono lakhe loku:
- Ngena esimweni sokuhlezi esedwa
- Ukukhwabanisa
- Zithinte ukuze ume ukusebenzisa izandla zakho noma ifenisha
- Hamba (noma "toddle") ngokubamba ifenisha
- Mhlawumbe ume yedwa
- Kungenzeka uthathe izinyathelo ezimbalwa ngaphandle kokubambelela kuwe noma olunye ukusekelwa
Ukugqamisa: Ngalesi sikhathi, ingane yakho ingaqala "ukuhamba." Yilapho ehamba khona ngokushesha ngokubamba ifenisha noma ezinye izinto. Yiqiniso, ingane yakho encane engazi ukuthi yiziphi izinto ezimilayo futhi ezilungile ukubambelela, ngakho kufanele uqaphele ukuthi ungagcini izinto ezingazinzile endleleni yakhe. Amatafula afulethayo, iziphambano ezibucayi, nezinto ezinamathengi ezingase zenzeke zingabangela ingozi. Njengoba manje kuzoba lula ngaye ukuthi afinyelele izingxenye ezihlukene zendlu, ufuna futhi ukuthi uqinisekisiwe kahle.
Amakhono Ezimoto Ezinhle
Esinye sezikhathi ezinhle esithombeni sokuqala sokuzalwa singabuka ingane yakho iqoqe izingcezu zekhekhe lakhe bese izondla yona. Uyakwazi ukwenza lokhu ngoba amakhono akhe amakhono emoto asethuthukile kakhulu futhi unokulawula kangcono phezu kwalawo minyana omncane kanye nemisipha yesandla. Lokhu kuvumela ukuthi asebenzise ukuqonda okuphambili, esebenzisa isithupha sakhe nomunwe wesibili noma wesithathu ukuze athinte izinto ukuze azikhethe.
Lokhu kuthuthukiswa kokusebenza kuzokwenza ukuthi:
- Zondla ukudla komunwe
- Qala ukubhalisana ngekrayoni
- Vala bese uthola izimbiza noma amabhokisi
- Phula iphepha
- Beka izinto zibe esitsheni bese uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uwenze
- Vula izimbambo ezijikelezayo (njenge-toy jack-in-the-box)
- Izinto ze-Bang ndawonye
- Beka izikhonkwane ezinkulu emigodini
Ukuqokomisa: Ukungaxhunyeki okuncane komuntu oneminyaka elilodwa kuzomenza akhuthele ukuphenya izinto ezizungezile. Izinsimbi zomculo angazithuthukisa nazo zingamjabulisa njengoba kuzokwenza amathoyizi ngezinsimbi, amasondo, nezinye izingxenye ezihambayo. Amabhulogi ngumdlalo owuthandayo ohlala njalo, ikakhulukazi ingxenye lapho efika khona ukuze aqede umbhoshongo owakhe ndawonye.
Amakhono okuqonda noma okuqonda
Njengoba ingane yakho ifika ngosuku lokuqala lokuzalwa kwakhe, uqala ukuqonda ukuthi izinto zinamagama nokuthi izinto ezithile zinemisebenzi ethile. Ngakho, njengoba isikhala sakhe sikhula ngalesi sikhathi, uzokwazi ukwethula izinto ezintsha futhi umfundise kabanzi ngezwe eliseduze naye. Kule minyaka yobudala, uzoqala ukumbona akwazi uku:
- Thola izinto ezifihliwe
- Yenza izinto ukuze uthole impendulo (gxuma i-maraca, bhala phansi ibhakede, uphonsa indebe yakhe, njll.)
- Bheka kuleyo nto lapho ibizwa khona
- Kopisha izenzo noma ukunyakaza okwenzayo
- Qondisisa ukusetshenziswa okuhle kwezinto ezinjenge-hairbrush, isipuni, indebe, ukulawula okude, njll ngisho noma engazi kahle indlela yokusebenza ngayo
- Landela isiqondiso esilula kakhulu njengo- "kiss" noma "saya-bye"
Ukugqamisa: Abaneminyaka elilodwa ubudala banamathemikhali amahle, futhi kuyabakhuthaza ukuba bakopishe izinto ozenzayo. Lesi yisikhathi esihle ukwethula izingoma ezithintekayo namageyimu omunwe . Uzofunda ukulandela izinyathelo zakho ngesigqi nomculo namazwi.
Amakhono okukhuluma
Ekupheleni konyaka wokuqala womntanakho, usencike ezindleleni zokuxhumana okungenabuntu, njengokukhomba, ukugqoka noma ukuphonsa izinto. Kodwa ama-coos kanye nokukhala kweminwe yezingane zakuqala manje kuzokwazi ukunikeza imisindo ehlukene njenge "da," "ba," "ga," ne "ma." Kancane kancane uzoqala ukudonsa labo ndawonye ngamazwi ahloniphekile, futhi sonke isikhathi, uzobona ukuqonda okuningi kwalokho okushoyo. Kulesi sigaba uqala:
- Phendula igama lakhe
- Landela imiyalo elula kakhulu nezicelo
- Qonda "cha"
- Sebenzisa izenzo ezingenalutho ezifana nokuthuthumela ikhanda noma ukukhomba
- Babble, okwenza imisindo efana nenkulumo yokuxoxa
- Ngezinye izikhathi uthi "mama," "udada," noma amanye amazwi awakuthandayo kaningi
- Lingisa imisindo oyenzayo
Ukugqamisa: Indlela engcono kakhulu yokusiza ingane yakho ukuthuthukisa amakhono okukhuluma ngalesi sikhathi ukukhuluma naye njalo. Njengoba ugqoka, khuluma ngombala wezingubo, ukuzwa kwendwangu, igama lomzimba okuthinta wena. Yisho izinto ozisebenzisayo nsuku zonke: ithawula, indebe, imoto, idoli, njll. Zama ukungahambisani nokugwema ukusebenzisa amagama aphikisayo njenge "toesywoesy" ngezinzwani. Lokhu "ukubhala," kuzomsiza ukuthi afunde amagama wezinto nezenzo futhi amlungiselele ukuqala ukukhuluma eyedwa.
Amakhono Ezenhlalakahle
Izingane ezincane ezisencane zingase zingabi nakancane. Ngomunye umntanakho ingane yakho ikunaki, olandelayo uyamathela kuwe ngamandla akhe onke. Kuyinto evamile kakhulu ukuba nesimo sakho somuntu oneminyaka eyodwa ubudala sishintshe futhi kube nokukhathazeka okukhulu kunangaphambili. Kodwa, ngenkathi ungase uqaphele ukuthi uyaqaphela kakhulu abantu abangabazi, uzobona nesifiso esimangalisayo sokuxhumana nabanye, ikakhulukazi abantakwethu nabanakekeli abavamile.
Ngezinyanga ezingu-12 ubudala, cishe uzombona:
- Yenza izimo ezingajwayelekile noma abantu abanamahloni noma ukwesaba
- Bonisa okuthandayo kumama noma ubaba noma abanakekeli abathile
- Yiba ithoyizi oyithandayo noma indawo endlini
- Siza ukuthi umsize agqoke ngokugqoka imilenze noma ukushintsha izikhali
- Dlala "i-poek-a-boo," "i-pat-a-cake," noma enye imidlalo exhumanayo
Ukugqamisa: I- Peek-a-boo ingakwazi ukukuvumela ukuba ufundise izingane ezincane umqondo wokuhlala unomphela, okuzosiza ingane ukuba nexhala lokuhlukanisa ukuqonda lokho, ngenkathi ungase ushiye ikamelo (noma indlu) isikhathi esithile, uzobe buya. Zama ukushintshashintsha ngamathoyizi, uzifihle ngaphansi kwengubo bese uzivula ngokumangaza "i-peek-a-boo!" Ungabe usuqhubekela phambili ukuze ufihle futhi ufune imidlalo yohlu lapho ufihla ezindaweni ezilula ukuthola futhi uvumele ingane yakho encane ikuthole. Njengoba ebona ukuthi uzothola njalo, angase akwazi kangcono ukuchitha isikhathi kude nawe.
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