Isiyalo Esigxila Ekubekeni Imingcele Nokusetha Imingcele
Isiyalo esisekelwe emkhakheni wezinhlaka ungenye yezinhlobo ezinhlanu eziyinhloko zamasu okuziphatha . Inkolelo ye-discipline-based discipline ilula-izingane ziziphatha uma zizwa ziphephile.
Isiyalo esisekelwe kumkhawulo sihilela ukubeka imingcele ecacile ebonisa izingane ukuthi zivunyelwe ukwenzani nokuthi yini engekho emingceleni. Khona-ke, uma izingane ziyazi ukuthi imiphumela yenzani yokuphuma emingceleni, izobe zivumelana kakhulu.
Ngokusho kwesiyalo esisekelwe emngceleni, izingane zizohlola umkhawulo wokubona ukuthi abanakekeli bayothinta kanjani. Kodwa, uma bekwazi imingcele nemiphumela, bancane amathuba okuba bahlole abanakekeli babo. Ngenxa yalokho, izinkinga zokuziphatha zinciphiswa.
Izibonelo zokuhlolwa kokulinganiselwa
Izingane ezineminyaka yonke zivame ukujabulela ukulinganisa umkhawulo wokubona ukuthi zingabani. Nazi ezinye izibonelo ezivamile zendlela izingane ezihlola ngayo imikhawulo:
- Owesifazane oneminyaka engu-4 owazi ukuthi akavunyelwe ukuma efenisha, ufika engxenyeni yombhede ngamadolo ukuze abone ukuthi abazali bakhe basabela kanjani.
- Umntwana oneminyaka engu-6 uthi, "Cha!" Lapho etshelwe ukuba aphule amazinyo akhe ethemba ukuthi angaqhubeka ebuka i-TV isikhathi eside.
Uneminyaka engu-8 uthi, "Ngizokwenza ngemizuzu embalwa. Ngifinyelele ezingeni elilandelayo lomdlalo wami, "lapho etshela ukusetha itafula lokudla. - Umfana oneminyaka engu-10 owalahlekelwa amalungelo akhe okudlala ngaphandle kosuku, uthi udingeke asebenzise inja egcekeni.
- Owesifazane oneminyaka engu-12 ubudala ubona umama ekhuluma efonini ngakho wangena ekhishini ukuze ahlasele idokodo ngemuva kokuba umama amtshele ukuthi angeke abe nesidla.
- Umfana oneminyaka engu-14 utshelwe ukuba aphume kwikhompyutha yakhe ebusuku ukuze aqale ukusebenzisa ifoni yakhe ukuze agqoke iwebhu.
- Owesilisa oneminyaka engu-16 ubudala ufika ekhaya ngemva kwemizuzu engu-20 ngemuva kokufika kwesikhashana ngoba akukho lutho olwenzekile lapho ehamba khona emaminithini angu-10 ebusuku.
Izindlela Zokuqeqesha Ezizinzile
Isiyalo esisekelwe emkhawulweni sisebenzisa izici ezihlukahlukene zokuziphatha ukubhekana nokuphulwa komthetho. Nazi izindlela ezimbalwa ezijwayelekile zokuqeqesha umngcele:
- Ukukhulumisana nemingcele. Yakha imithetho yasekhaya futhi ugcine imithetho yokubhala ebhalwe phansi. Uma unalindelekile olungekho ohlwini, yenza okulindelekile kucace. Yisho, "Ungakwazi ikhompyutha yakho imizuzu engu-30 kulobubusuku," noma "Uzodinga ukuhlanza ikamelo lakho ngaphambi kokuthi ungene ngaphandle."
- Nikeza izixwayiso lapho kunokwenzeka. Zama ukunikeza isixwayiso seminithi emihlanu yokushintshwa. Yithi, "Emaminithini amahlanu kuzakuba yisikhathi sokuvala umdlalo wakho ukuze ukwazi ukusetha itafula." Uma ingane yakho ihlola imingcele, nikeza uma ... bese isilumkiso esithi , "Uma ungasithathi amathoyizi okwamanje, khona-ke ngeke ukwazi ukudlala ngamabhuloki wakho usuku lonke. "
- Ukunikezwa kokunikezwa . Ukucacisa ngokucacile ukukhetha ukuze izingane zibone ukuthi ukuziphatha kwabo kungabangela imiphumela emihle noma emibi . Yisho, "Ungavimbela lo mdlalo manje bese ubeka itafula noma ungaqhubeka uzama ukudlala futhi ulahlekelwe yi-electronics kuze kube kusasa." Yenza kucace ukuthi awuphoqeleli izingane zakho ukuba zenze okuthile kodwa kunalokho, kuwumthwalo wazo ukwenza ukhetho.
- Sebenzisa imiphumela enengqondo. Umphumela onengqondo, njengokuthatha amakhompyutha amakhompyutha ngenxa yokuthi wenqaba ukuvala umdlalo wevidiyo yakhe, kunengqondo. Umphumela uhlobene ngokuqondile nokuziphatha okungalungile.
- Vumela imiphumela yemvelo. Imiphumela yemvelo kusiza izingane zifunde emaphutheni abo ngenkathi zifundisa imithwalo yemfanelo. Uma ingane yakho ikhohlwa ukupakisha izihluthulelo zakhe zomkhuba webhola, umphumela wemvelo kungenzeka ukuthi akavunyelwe ukuba iqhaza kulo mdlalo.
- Thumela ingane yakho ukuphuma kwesikhathi. Uma ingane yakho ingaphezu kokuqothulwa noma ingabe iyangcola, mthumele ngesikhathi sokuphuma. Kungase kuthiwa, "isikhathi sokuthula" noma "ukuphumula" kepha kungasetshenziswa njengethuluzi lokusiza izingane zifunde ukuthi zizozilalisa kanjani.
Gcina Ukuyala Kwakho Kuvumelana
Ukubambisana kuyisici esiyinhloko somyalo osekelwe emngceleni. Ukubheka imithetho noma ukunikeza ngemuva kokuthi usho kungenza izinkinga zokuziphatha zibi nakakhulu. Uma ulandela ngemiphumela yokuphula umthetho ngamunye, ingane yakho izothembela ukuthi ungumholi omuhle futhi uzozizwa ephephile ekunakekeleni kwakho, okubalulekile uma ufuna ukuthi uphathe ukuziphatha kwakhe kahle.
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