Thola izibonakaliso zokuxwayisa kanye nezici ezinobungozi ezinkingeni zokuziphatha ezinzima.
Ukuhlangana nochwepheshe oqeqeshwe akusho ukuthi ingane yakho ihlanya, futhi akusho ukuthi ungumzali ongekho kahle. Ngezinye izikhathi, ngenxa yezizathu ezithile, izingane zidinga ukwesekwa okungeziwe noma uhlobo oluhlukile lokuqeqesha ukwenza konke okusemandleni abo. Ukwelashwa kwangasese kuyisihluthulelo sokwelashwa okuphumelelayo.
Uma ubuza ukuthi ngabe ingane yakho ingadinga usizo, ungangabazi ukufuna ukwelashwa.
Uma zingekho izinkinga ezinkulu ezikhuluma nengcweti yokuziphatha kwengane zibeke ingqondo yakho kalula. Uma kutholakala izinkinga, isazi sokuziphatha kwengane singakwazi ukubhekana nale nkinga ngaphambi kokuba sibi kakhulu.
Izimpawu eziyisixwayiso ezijwayelekile
Ngenkathi kunezizathu eziningi ongase ufune usizo lobuchwepheshe kumntanakho, nansi ezinye izibonakaliso eziyisixwayiso ezijwayelekile okufanele uzibheke ngazo:
- Izindlela zakho zokuziphatha azisebenzi . Uma izinqubo zakho zokuziphatha zingasebenzi, uchwepheshe wezempilo yengqondo noma uchwepheshe wezokuziphatha kwengane angakusiza ukuthola ezinye izindlela zobuchwepheshe.
- Ukuziphatha kwengane yakho kuphazamisa isikole. Uma ingane yakho isuswa kaningi ekilasini noma enenkinga yokuthola umsebenzi wakhe ngenxa yokuziphatha kwakhe, ingadinga usizo lochwepheshe.
- Ukuziphatha kwengane yakho kuthinta impilo yakhe yomphakathi. Kubalulekile ukuthi izingane zibe nokuxhumana okuhle komphakathi. Uma ukuziphatha kwengane yakho kumvimbela ekubeni enze noma ukugcina abangane, kubalulekile ukufuna usizo.
- Ukuziphatha kwengane yakho akufanelekile ngokuthuthuka. Uma ingane yakho eneminyaka engu-8 isalokhu iphonsa intukuthelo evamile noma ingane yakho eneminyaka engu-10 ihlasela abantu, lezo ziphathamandla azihambisani kahle. Funa usizo uma ukuziphatha kwengane yakho kubonakala ingafisi kuqhathaniswa nezinye izingane zakhe.
Ama-Flags aKhethekile aqondile
Kuzingane zanoma yisiphi ubudala, kunezici ezithile ezizimele ezibonisa isidingo sosizo lochwepheshe. Nakuba lokhu akulona uhlu oluphelele, nansi izibonakaliso ezimbalwa eziyisixwayiso okufanele ufune usizo lochwepheshe:
- Ukuhlukumeza izilwane
- Isilungiselelo somlilo
- Ukuziphatha ngokobulili
- Ukuziphatha okuhlukumezayo (ngaphandle kobudlova obuvamile ngezikhathi ezithile ezinganeni zasenkulisa) - izinsongo, ukwephula izinto, ukuphonsa izinto, noma ukulimaza abanye
- Ukuzilimaza- ikhanda lokukhwaza, ukusika, ukusebenzisa izidakamizwa
- Ukungahambisani nokuqapha okukhulu
- Ukungabi nokushintsha kokuziphatha naphezu kwemiphumela ehambisanayo
- Ubufakazi be-psychosis- imibiko yokuzwa noma ukubona izinto abanye abantu abangaboni noma abazizwayo
- Ukuntula ukuzisola noma ukungabi nabubele kwabanye imizwa yabantu
Indlela Umqeqeshi Angasiza Ngayo
Ingcweti yokuziphatha kwengane ingakwazi ukulawula noma yiziphi izinkinga zempilo yengqondo ezingase zidale izinkinga zokuziphatha, njengokunakekelwa kokunciphisa ukugula kwengqondo . Uma ingane yakho ine-ADHD, uchwepheshe angakwazi ukuxoxa ngezinketho zokwelapha nezindlela zokuziphatha eziphumelelayo ku-ADHD .
Ngezinye izikhathi, ukucindezeleka kungabangela izingqinamba zokuziphatha. Isibonelo, intombazane ecindezelekile kungenzeka ishukukuthele futhi ingenqaba ukuvuka ekuseni esikoleni noma ingase ifune ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi ekamelweni lakhe.
Izinkinga zokukhathazeka nazo zingaholela ezinkingeni zokuziphatha. Uhlangothi olukhathazayo lungaba ngxabano noma okungavumelani uma ekhathazekile ngento ethile. Ukuhlolwa okuphelele kuzosiza ukukhipha izimo zempilo yengqondo nokuphatha lezi zimo ezingaphansi kungaholela ekuthuthukiseni okuhle ekuziphatheni.
Uchwepheshe uzokwenza izincomo futhi angabhekisela ingane yakho ngezinsizakalo. Isibonelo, ingane eye yahlukumezeka isenzakalo esibucayi ingase izuze ngokululekwa ngabanye. Noma, ingane ehlushwa ukujwayela isimo esisha esihlanganisiwe somndeni ingase izuze emithwalweni yomuntu ngamunye noma yomndeni.
Ngezinye izikhathi, isazi sokubeletha singafuna ukusebenza nawe ngaphandle kokuba ingane yakho ikhona. Ukuhlinzeka ukwesekwa nokuqeqeshwa kwabazali kungaholela emiphumeleni esheshayo uma kuziwa ezinkingeni eziningi zokuziphatha.
Lapho abanakekeli befunda ukuqeqesha izingane nokuzijwayeza besebenzisa amasu ahlukahlukene okuguqula ukuziphatha , kungaba ngempumelelo kakhulu kunomuthi osebenza nengane ngehora elilodwa kuphela ngesonto.
Ngezinye izikhathi izinsizakalo zezokwelapha zingase zinganele. Uma izinkinga zokuziphatha zingathí sina, isevisi esekelwe ekhaya ingavunyelwa. Izinhlelo ezisekelwe ekhaya zinikeza ngezinsizakalo ezinzulu ezenzeka ekhaya lakho ukusiza ekuqeqesheni ukwenza isiyalo sisebenze ngokuphumelelayo . Ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, ukwelashwa kokuhlala kungadingeka uma ingane ingakwazi ukuhlala ngokuphepha emphakathini.
Indlela Yokufuna Usizo
Uma usola ukuthi izinkinga zokuziphatha kwengane yakho azivamile , khuluma nodokotela wezingane. Xoxa ngokukhathazeka kwakho futhi uma kunesidingo, udokotela wakho angakutshela ochwepheshe bokuziphatha kwengane ukuhlolwa. Uchwepheshe wezempilo wengqondo oqeqeshiwe angahlola izidingo zakho futhi athuthukise isu lokubhekana nezinkinga zokuziphatha ngokuphumelelayo.
> Imithombo
> I-American Academy of Child & I-Psychiatry Psychiatry: Nini Ukufuna Usizo Ingane Yakho.
> I-National Institute of Health Mental: Ukwelashwa Kwezingane Ezinezifo Zengqondo.